so in general ive gotten pretty awosme at this. been the alpha male for the most part, getting all the chicks. been away from this site for a while. but ive hit this point where i dont know what to do!, i have this one chick i was banging and this guy i know ****ed it up for me. he told her a ton of **** about me how i was a player and all this. me being alpha i dident let it bother me and she dident seem to care. she even straight up told him she dident care she just wanted to be FB with me for right now.

So this guy dosent stop, he goes and says **** about me to everyone in earshot!. i hang with alota differnt groups. i only have one main wingman whos my bestfriend. he even dosent know what to do about this. we pull chicks together we have even shared a chick lol.

this guy though almost got me killed was at this party, i was at with this chick haveing a good time (everyone thinks im awsome their) he started saying **** to all the people i only sorta knew and they (being afc and morons) get all pissed and want to kick the **** out of me, but being the ganster type of people they all go get ****ing knives and bats and shovels and **** and suddenly we have eveyone who backs me up against everyone else. me and my wingman got knives pointed at us and after that lets just say we ditched it pretty fast.. this guy got pissed as soon as i walked in cause like 3 chicks came up to me to get hugs and my fb started making out with me pretty hard.


he litterally went out to his car and sat their for an hour plotting and txting and getting every guy that went out for a smoke in his car and turning them against me. when my girl wanted to leave to f**k he followed me in his car with 2 huge ripped dudes (im a smaller guy) right to my ****ing house and tryied to start ****, the only reason i dident get messed up was my girl said she was through with this s**t and ran off, and they drove after her.

now this buddy of mine gets my fb girl drunk and gets he to do this other random dude that liked her. wtf?? he basically ruined everything for me. im just really pissed right now and i dont know what to do. it has nothing to do with him whatsoever and this is the 3rd time he has done this. good thing i havent let him meet my relationship girl yet!.

Im just being a great guy im not ****ing with chicks and leaving them or being a douch, eveyone likes me finally, i went from nothing to everything! both me and my wing.but this guy hes the ultimate AFC i thought he was cool now that he had a gf but noooo, ive even tried to help him out in the past (he think all DJ stuff is like the devils work or some **** like that). he says he's "protecting her" when i f**king introduced him to her! now im having to watch my back and I cant even go back and pull girls from that pool of friends cause he turned them against me. its hard to act all chill with all this **** going on.


i was keeping this girl cause she was hot and just wanted to bang, but she wasent relationship material to say the least, ive spent a long time makeing several large pools of friends i can hang with and meet girls, (im 18 cant go clubbing now they are all getting split in two and im loseing everything i worked for, and i cant even go hang with the normal ppl that i meet chicks with cause i might get jumped!

not like I cant find another group like that one unless i move somwhere, it was going good cause they like owned this town so noone messed with me. but now im scared im gona get jumped or my car messed up.


so should i kick his ass?? will that fix it? or will that make me look like a douch.


sorry for the long post just needed to vent a little.

Beat his ass, I usually don't resort to violence but come on.
He's ruining your social and your letting it happen right in front of your eyes.

Next time you seem him go out to his car at a party, follow him and rough him up a bit. He won't keep talking smack for long.

If he does spout his mouth. Just deny it all.

They are just envious. Unfortunately any time you reach the top of your game in any field of endeavor, people are going to become envious of you. If you are good-looking you will have guys not liking you at first because you look better than them. If you try to improve your career and make more money, then people who are stuck in minimum wage jobs will become envious of you. And especially something like being good with women, in a highly social context where everyone can see what effect you have on them, is going to lead to jealousy.

This is why, for example, people who are very rich try to keep their life of luxury out of sight, behind gated mansions, because wherever plenitude and deprivation exist side by side, some people are going to become jealous. You can try to keep your game on the D/L by hanging out with smaller groups, but you might not get quite the same results, since chicks are attracted to guys who are highly social.

Some people understand just strengh and you have to show them that you have in abundance.
No need to do anything violent just stop your car when he/them follow you and wait them with an iron tube in your hand,are you sure that sh*tman is willing to go on? and those idiots with him are willing to risk for no reason?

I know you're angry, but it makes life easier for people reading your post if you use punctuation and capital letters now and again.

This guy is a serious douchebag, on a massive scale. Confront him one-on-one, and tell him quite calmly, that if he ever fvcks with you or your women ever again, you will fill his world with pain. Tell him he's a pvssy and should man up. Do this totally deadpan, calmly and without anger except for the cold, icy glare in your eyes. If he laughs and continues round up friends you can really on in a fight, and beat his ass totally down. What this guy did is totally unacceptable. There are things you can throw off and laugh at, you're going to lose girls now and again to ****s, but this guy is *****ing like a little pvssy of a girl.

Now, if he and his pals have knives and ****, you want to be very very careful. Make sure he's alone, or start the beat-down in public and get him to initiate it so you can claim self-defence.

This is why I love having a Special Police Constable (volunteer cop, it's an odd quirk of the UK) as a mate. If any **** like that ever happened to me, he'd ensure he and his boys were in the same location as me ready to help my butt out.

Honestly man, I don't think any girl (unless you've been dating her for a few or more months) is worth getting into a fight over.

I talked to Matador about this, he's 6"4, absolutely jacked and says that even he will typically do whatever it takes to avoid confrontation.

I mean think about it objectively, weighing risk and reward. You're risking your health, permanent physical marring, for what? A girl's approval? Ego Gratification?

Plus, if you're running good solid game and vibing positively with everyone, you shouldn't run into confrontation to begin with

thanks for all the advice guys, well in all that girl wasen't someone i was with for a relationship so it was no loss to just stop seeing her which I did.

that guy continued his ****, i basically told him if he messes with any of my girls im seeing he will get the **** kicked out of him. I haven't heard much of him since, except now hes doing the same thing to my wingman , we just continued along and apparently we are now hearing that all these guys and other ppl want to mess him up too cause girls are starting to complain to their bf's or friends that he is trying to get with them and stuff and being creepy and AFC.

Its almost funny becuse my wingman works in the same place (call center) as that guy used to, and the "guy", he tried everything to get with every chick their and they all hated him and were really creeped out. where my wingman already has everyone loving him and is slowly working his stuff with all the girls, he already had a 3 some with 2 of the girls from work

I recently met this one girl that is great LTR material however, so Im sticking it with her for a while see where it goes. shes going the same direction with me university wise so ill have someone to help me study. and she even said if that guys tried to say **** she will have to slap him or w/e and dosent care so its all good there.

Thanks guys!

It's not about the women. It's about personal pride. If the guy had turned a load of my male friends against me, I'd be equally pissed.