So I went out with this girl and her friends a couple of nights ago. I thought I played it pretty well. Best banter I've ever had with a girl I don't know well. We were teasing each other, there was kino, we were having a great time and all her attention was on me. When we left we were talking about future plans, nothing set yet and she left with a huge smile on her face.

So the next day rolls around and she sees me and says with a smile on her face Today, I'm not talking to you. I say okay, but why. And she responds that because I joked with her and said she was a liar that she doesn't want to talk with me. So I laugh and walk with her a few feet and I ask her a question and she answers and then starts to ask me a question. Then I tell her hey wait what's going on here you're not supposed to be talking with me. She gets a goofy smile on her face and then says oh yeah and then starts smiling and miming at me as she walked away.

Today when I met her again, she again told me that she doesn't want to talk with me. But this time she sticks with it, however I'm making faces and getting her to laugh. over the next hour and a half though, I pass by her several times to pick some things up. She's ignoring me and I'm ignoring her. Finally I have enough of this and get her to start talking again. But we kind of part ways without saying goodbye.

So tomorrow, I've got a date with another girl, but beforeI go on that date, I'm going to go to this girls work and try and fix this stupid crap up.

I'm not sure if I should though because I don't know if this girl is playing games with me because she likes me, or if it's just a waste of time. Also any suggestions of what to do tomorrow for if I do go would be great. And any suggestions for what I should do differently in the future if this happens again would be great.

Edit: Whoah, didn't really how long this got.

Cliffs: Go out with girl, amazing rapport, next two days she says she not talking to me, I get her to finally start talking with me again, plan on going tomorrow to fix this for good, how should I do that?

lol. This is very immature of her in my opinion, this whole "I'm not talking to you" ordeal. Don't put up with it. Just ignore her and continue seeing other women. You'll soon realize how she's going to try intervene and win more of your attention due to your absence.

Don't play into her games. When she tells you she's not going to talk to you, continue to talk to her instead, as if you didn't care what she said. Do what you want, control the situation. There is no foolproof plan on how you are going to get this working. It all starts with you getting your mind straightened out, staying in control, and not putting up with any form of crap. Don't give her the power to give you mixed signals and play games. Talk to her, tease her, and set up a date. If you attracted her, she will go. Simple as that.

Read my post here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=161450

Don't play her games, don't act any different than you normally would.