“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Is improving your platonic social life a sign of progress?

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Hello all, this is my first post.

Unlike many of you here, I'm not just an AFC but a WBAFC (way below average frustrated chump). Until about 2 years ago, I rarely even had meaningful social interactions with girls....forget dates/sex. I'd talk to a few girls in class but we'd never see each other outside school. The only girls I "hung out" with were friends/girlfriends of my guy friends. It was an exciting moment when a girl wanted to study with me! Yup....pretty sad.

I've recently resolved to change this. The other aspects of my life are pretty good: I'm in a lucrative (and personally rewarding) career track, I've got some good friends, I have a great relationship with my family and I'm a healthy individual. If I could fill this void in my love/sex life, life would just be peachy.

I think that I have now progressed to the level of AFC (yeah I know...that sounds really sad!). I now have a lot more friends than I used to. I move in several different social circles. And for the first time, I actually have lots of female friends. Many of them are very attractive. I've tried getting with a couple of them but they were only interested in friendship.

It's really got me in a funk recently. Sometimes, it feels like happy couples walking down the street are there to mock me. I've been looking for things to stay positive about.

So, can I at least take hope in the fact that there are girls that actually enjoy my company and like me....albeit in a platonic sense? Can I at least tell myself that I'm headed in the right direction?
 
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Welcome!


Yes... your a heading in the right direction. You have climbed the next step in the ladder... pat yourself on the back.... those girls are really good social proof that your moving up. Don't be in a funk, those very attractive girls may not like you now, but remember this is your journey... and in a couple of months they will start thinking about you.

Being a DJ is improving the mental as well as the physical.... are you working out, lifting weights?
 
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Daydream Engineer said:
Welcome!


Yes... your a heading in the right direction. You have climbed the next step in the ladder... pat yourself on the back.... those girls are really good social proof that your moving up. Don't be in a funk, those very attractive girls may not like you now, but remember this is your journey... and in a couple of months they will start thinking about you.

Being a DJ is improving the mental as well as the physical.... are you working out, lifting weights?
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Thanks for the kind words, I need them. I try my best to keep a positive attitude, but these past several days, it's just been bugging me. You just want something so strongly, and you see some guys get it so easily and taking it for granted even....it's just gets you down a little.

I have been working out actually and it's been going well. I've put on some muscle and people are noticing. I'm going to keep at it. I think if I can pack on another 10-15 lbs of muscle mass, I can achieve my ideal weight.
 
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oh com'on now, are you ****ing playing some video game? you are not an AFC but you are AFC in your mind. Just remember you have lots of women in your life and you are getting laid regularly and act accordingly to that. That's it.

You don't want to count the ladder steps every now and then. That's mind ****ing and freaking. Just have fun and put yourself before everyone else when dealing with others. That's it.
 
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ElGuapo said:
Hello all, this is my first post.

Welcome, frustrated one.

Unlike many of you here, I'm not just an AFC but a WBAFC (way below average frustrated chump). Until about 2 years ago, I rarely even had meaningful social interactions with girls....forget dates/sex. I'd talk to a few girls in class but we'd never see each other outside school.

Fear of escalation and you're doing nothing to be seen as a lover.

The only girls I "hung out" with were friends/girlfriends of my guy friends. It was an exciting moment when a girl wanted to study with me! Yup....pretty sad.

Another case of Carltonitis! (See Carlton from Fresh Prince!)

I've recently resolved to change this.

You're off to a good start.

The other aspects of my life are pretty good: I'm in a lucrative (and personally rewarding) career track, I've got some good friends, I have a great relationship with my family and I'm a healthy individual.

Great qualities but women these days won't give a rat's butt about all this. It's all about game yungblood. Actions speak louder than words. Remain mysterious.

If I could fill this void in my love/sex life, life would just be peachy.

Are you in the great state of Georgia? There's ways to do so. Did you read the DJ Bible?

I think that I have now progressed to the level of AFC (yeah I know...that sounds really sad!). I now have a lot more friends than I used to. I move in several different social circles. And for the first time, I actually have lots of female friends. Many of them are very attractive.

Very commendable.

I've tried getting with a couple of them but they were only interested in friendship.

There's reasons for that. I need more info to determine why and the cure.

It's really got me in a funk recently. Sometimes, it feels like happy couples walking down the street are there to mock me. I've been looking for things to stay positive about.

I think that happens to a lot of single men. Be in the wrong place and you'll be made fun of. For things to be positive about, try your favorite music. I've got an iPod with 3303 songs on it and I tune the world out. Otherwise, I play Mega Man 4.

So, can I at least take hope in the fact that there are girls that actually enjoy my company and like me....albeit in a platonic sense?

Female friends can be good social proof. You don't look like a loner to women and guys will envy you.

Can I at least tell myself that I'm headed in the right direction?

Hell yes!
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Nismo has spoken. Time to get back to Mega Man 4.
 
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What you need to concentrate on now is become more outgoing and social.

Hang out where there's life, gather up at popular events, learn more about women. It's time to break away from your WAFC -- if that's what you want to term it -- shell.

As soon as you grow more comfortable around new faces and people, you'll gradually liberate yourself from the tangles of WAFC'sm.
 
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