I created a profile on plentyoffish.com, without a display pic. I have had several replies (i have 2 pics set on private and send them out to the girls that reply to me). I'm 21 right now, and I consider myself to be fairly good looking. However whenever I reply to their replies (with my pic if they request it, which they usually do), I don't hear back from any of them. I don't get it...

I'm of an average build, 5'10", 170lbs, brown hair and eyes...like I said, I condsider myself to be fairly good looking, however after I send them my pic, it seems like they ignore me.

I've never been good with ladies, and I've had more than my fair share of ONEITIS...but this is starting to worry me, though only slightly. What do you all think?

I think you should stop worrying. We have pretty much the same build from your description (I hover about 180) and am seeing 2 girls right now.

It's all about doing something with yourself. I'm studying languages in my spare time for fun, girls love to hear about it (apparently). So get yourself a hobby, devote yourself to that, talk about it avidly, and it will spark their interest more than a photo.

Oh, and exercise at least twice a week. It does all kinds of good things for you. Physically and mentally. Even if you never mention it and you keep a paunch, the girls can tell if you exercise from your attitude.

I'm doing p90x and I've been playing guitar for 6 years...so yeah, I think we've got something going there lol. I did not mention any of that in the profile, although I probably should have.

Well, it depends on what you actually say to these girls. You should definitely put up a picture, don't be afraid to do so, it's 2009.