hey fellas...
Here's a story from years back that I think exemplifies whats happening between both sexes when it comes to relational dynamics and how guys can improve themselves. This sticks out in my mind. I actually can't believe I expereinced this looking back on it.
When I was 24 I met and was dating a nice, sweet, good girl. We'll call her girl A. We were semi-serious and met through friends. She was attractive and we would go to movies, go out to dinner and go hang out with our common friends togeather.
During this time I was in school part-time and had a couple classes with girl B. Both B and A were attractive
Girl A: Was good mannered, very sweet and had definate reservations about the wild life. We'd make out and fool around. We slept togeather a few times and it was decent (or so I thought).
Girl B: Was a stripper, had fun personality, liked to party, worked a day job part time and lived with two other strippers. Wasn't into drugs or anything of that nature but definately ran with a wilder crowd.
Girl B and I started chatting it up about 3 months after A and I started dating. It was innocent the first couple times at first but later I could tell she was into me. I resisted this initially because I wanted to focus on making things more serious with A.
One night a short time later I was at a party with a group of buddies. Girl A wasn't with, she didn't like the type of party we were at anyway.
I was chivalrous and gave B a ride home at the end of the night, as her friends went off somewhere else. On the way in the car she made a move and that was it. I took her into her apartment and laid pipe like a plumbers son. :rockon:
Awesome are the only words to describe it. Pure awesomeness. Primal, animalistic sex. Period. :yes: She had skills too. Pretty much made me forget about girl A until she mentioned her and how she thought I should be hers instead of A's.
A and I continued dating. A couple times I went on a date with A and then dropped her off and spent the night with B. It starting getting pretty messed up.
A and I broke up and I continued on with B until the fire ran out and we just stopped.
Whats the dynamic here? Guys, girl B had a blatant female sexuality, that oozed from her when she walked in the room. Girl A was uptight, worried and self-conscious about herself in unecessary ways.
When it comes to us guys we have the same issue. Are you sexual enough? Do you let your desires as a man show through? A and B were roughly the same in attractiveness but B just had that certain something about her that was very enjoyable.
You hear women say the same things about guys all the time. The same holds true in reverse both ways.
If you're not creating that dynamic for her, and someone else gives her that rush at the wrong time, you may be heartbroken.
Also, I had to admit and be honset with myself about what I really wanted. I dated girl A b/c she was more of a warm feeling in my stomach. Girl B brought me far more desire. I could be sexual around her more openly b/c she was willing to reciprocate.
If you make a woman comfortable sexually, she'll give you things you wouldn't otherwise have gotten.
Just thought it might be nice to see this dynamic from our perspective so you could understand it better.
Here's a story from years back that I think exemplifies whats happening between both sexes when it comes to relational dynamics and how guys can improve themselves. This sticks out in my mind. I actually can't believe I expereinced this looking back on it.
When I was 24 I met and was dating a nice, sweet, good girl. We'll call her girl A. We were semi-serious and met through friends. She was attractive and we would go to movies, go out to dinner and go hang out with our common friends togeather.
During this time I was in school part-time and had a couple classes with girl B. Both B and A were attractive
Girl A: Was good mannered, very sweet and had definate reservations about the wild life. We'd make out and fool around. We slept togeather a few times and it was decent (or so I thought).
Girl B: Was a stripper, had fun personality, liked to party, worked a day job part time and lived with two other strippers. Wasn't into drugs or anything of that nature but definately ran with a wilder crowd.
Girl B and I started chatting it up about 3 months after A and I started dating. It was innocent the first couple times at first but later I could tell she was into me. I resisted this initially because I wanted to focus on making things more serious with A.
One night a short time later I was at a party with a group of buddies. Girl A wasn't with, she didn't like the type of party we were at anyway.
I was chivalrous and gave B a ride home at the end of the night, as her friends went off somewhere else. On the way in the car she made a move and that was it. I took her into her apartment and laid pipe like a plumbers son. :rockon:
Awesome are the only words to describe it. Pure awesomeness. Primal, animalistic sex. Period. :yes: She had skills too. Pretty much made me forget about girl A until she mentioned her and how she thought I should be hers instead of A's.
A and I continued dating. A couple times I went on a date with A and then dropped her off and spent the night with B. It starting getting pretty messed up.
A and I broke up and I continued on with B until the fire ran out and we just stopped.
Whats the dynamic here? Guys, girl B had a blatant female sexuality, that oozed from her when she walked in the room. Girl A was uptight, worried and self-conscious about herself in unecessary ways.
When it comes to us guys we have the same issue. Are you sexual enough? Do you let your desires as a man show through? A and B were roughly the same in attractiveness but B just had that certain something about her that was very enjoyable.
You hear women say the same things about guys all the time. The same holds true in reverse both ways.
If you're not creating that dynamic for her, and someone else gives her that rush at the wrong time, you may be heartbroken.
Also, I had to admit and be honset with myself about what I really wanted. I dated girl A b/c she was more of a warm feeling in my stomach. Girl B brought me far more desire. I could be sexual around her more openly b/c she was willing to reciprocate.
If you make a woman comfortable sexually, she'll give you things you wouldn't otherwise have gotten.
Just thought it might be nice to see this dynamic from our perspective so you could understand it better.