This post is dedicated to all the rookies out there, I post this in tips forum cause it's not a discussion, if I want replies to my post, I would post it in the discussion forum.
You come here to this site, thinking you might have found the holy grail, but the truth of the matter is that you haven't. You have found a source of information which excist out of a small portion of good information and a very large amount of bullsh*t. Therefor I advise you, whenever you read a post, to have an open mind. Don't believe everything that is written down. Alot of the posters on this forum don't have a clue what they are saying but still find it necesairry to bring their very unusefull advice.
As you read throught this forum you will find intresting stuff, you might feel uplifted, thinking, now that you've read this you're a true "Don juan", to which I can only say: "Putting feathers up your @ss does not make you a chicken". You will have to practice, you will have to find stuff out on yourself, you will have to apply stuff, you'll have to get hurt.
You might not understand why, but this is the simple fact of life. Without sacrifice, there is no improvement. If the first man-ape wouldn't have put his hand in fire and burned his hand, the man-apes would never have known that you shouldn't do that. Without sending out the first space monkey, we wouldn't know space travel would be doable for organisms. That just life, without sacrifice, without pain there is no knowledge... Deal with it.
You do not have to look like a versace model, you don't have to be the funiest guy in the world, you don't have to be the smartest guy in the world, and you mostcertainly don't have to act like a fag. That's all bullsh*t!
You don't need the IKEA house, you don't need a name on your underwear and you don't have to be a millionaire. If these are your lifedreams, I'm glad I'm not stuck up with your nightmare. But then again, I'm not here to judge your dreams and lifegoals. There are three kind of people:
1) The happy person
2) The person in pursuit of happyness
3) The sick person, who doesn't understand the concept of happyness, nor is he willing to pursuit it.
Now, considering you're here, wasting time reading my post, you are the second kind of person, meaning there's hope for you after all. My suggestion would be stop pursuiting happyness, instead pursuit your lifegoals and dreams, it is the road towards them that are going to make you happy.
The next thing you'll read about is about self-improvement. Let me tell you something about self-improvement, the only self-improvement is mastrubation, the rest is self-destruction. You are who you are, and that will be that way forever. You can adapt your situation, but you can never avoid yourself, you'll have to live with the fact that there will be one person there your whole life, and that is YOU. That also means the best person you can trust is YOURSELF. (!) Having peace with yourself is thus, the first step for *improvement*.
You come here to this site, thinking you might have found the holy grail, but the truth of the matter is that you haven't. You have found a source of information which excist out of a small portion of good information and a very large amount of bullsh*t. Therefor I advise you, whenever you read a post, to have an open mind. Don't believe everything that is written down. Alot of the posters on this forum don't have a clue what they are saying but still find it necesairry to bring their very unusefull advice.
As you read throught this forum you will find intresting stuff, you might feel uplifted, thinking, now that you've read this you're a true "Don juan", to which I can only say: "Putting feathers up your @ss does not make you a chicken". You will have to practice, you will have to find stuff out on yourself, you will have to apply stuff, you'll have to get hurt.
You might not understand why, but this is the simple fact of life. Without sacrifice, there is no improvement. If the first man-ape wouldn't have put his hand in fire and burned his hand, the man-apes would never have known that you shouldn't do that. Without sending out the first space monkey, we wouldn't know space travel would be doable for organisms. That just life, without sacrifice, without pain there is no knowledge... Deal with it.
You do not have to look like a versace model, you don't have to be the funiest guy in the world, you don't have to be the smartest guy in the world, and you mostcertainly don't have to act like a fag. That's all bullsh*t!
You don't need the IKEA house, you don't need a name on your underwear and you don't have to be a millionaire. If these are your lifedreams, I'm glad I'm not stuck up with your nightmare. But then again, I'm not here to judge your dreams and lifegoals. There are three kind of people:
1) The happy person
2) The person in pursuit of happyness
3) The sick person, who doesn't understand the concept of happyness, nor is he willing to pursuit it.
Now, considering you're here, wasting time reading my post, you are the second kind of person, meaning there's hope for you after all. My suggestion would be stop pursuiting happyness, instead pursuit your lifegoals and dreams, it is the road towards them that are going to make you happy.
The next thing you'll read about is about self-improvement. Let me tell you something about self-improvement, the only self-improvement is mastrubation, the rest is self-destruction. You are who you are, and that will be that way forever. You can adapt your situation, but you can never avoid yourself, you'll have to live with the fact that there will be one person there your whole life, and that is YOU. That also means the best person you can trust is YOURSELF. (!) Having peace with yourself is thus, the first step for *improvement*.