Thought this would be useful for some.
It doesn't really matter what you did. It may have been completely justified. It may have been nothing big at all. But whatever it is, she is now redlined furious with you. Your relationship with her has just experienced an extreme shock and is all but over. Which is fine.
But now to top that, she has threatened to Slash & Burn. It may be a circle of friends, bars / clubs, or worse - a work place or something else of much greater importance. She intends to poison the waters and fvck things up for you in that scene going forward because of what just happened.
In many cases - Big Fvcking Deal, as the scene she is talking about is of little real importance. However, it can lead to embarrassing situations down the road. For example, you are in a club trying to have a good time with a group of girls and she shows up and blows up or catches them in the ladies room and spits a bunch of made up scandal...
What are some tips for how to handle this? How do you counter it when the scene or situation is important to you? Thanks!
It doesn't really matter what you did. It may have been completely justified. It may have been nothing big at all. But whatever it is, she is now redlined furious with you. Your relationship with her has just experienced an extreme shock and is all but over. Which is fine.
But now to top that, she has threatened to Slash & Burn. It may be a circle of friends, bars / clubs, or worse - a work place or something else of much greater importance. She intends to poison the waters and fvck things up for you in that scene going forward because of what just happened.
In many cases - Big Fvcking Deal, as the scene she is talking about is of little real importance. However, it can lead to embarrassing situations down the road. For example, you are in a club trying to have a good time with a group of girls and she shows up and blows up or catches them in the ladies room and spits a bunch of made up scandal...
What are some tips for how to handle this? How do you counter it when the scene or situation is important to you? Thanks!
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