pumptydumpty
12-02-2001, 11:16 AM
i've read this board for some time and got some nice tips and tricks to compliment my dj style.
i just wanted to share an experience i had
it's 1998 i'm living in london as a student and sharing a flat with 2 guys and 2 girls.
things have been slow all week and it's now fri night. we all get *****d up to the nine's and go hit the local bars in upscale west end (posh totty aplenty).
we're on the first pint and i see her sitting at the bar with 2 friends. she's a perfect 10 and the eye contact has been done once. it happens again i download from my long term memory the dj bible, smile and it's reciprocated. 10 second pause and he's in the blocks running shoes on , starters gun goes and he's off like a greased cougar from the planet itchy 8ollocks.
i'm over in a flash and talking away . it's going great for 15 mins, then her 3rd friend arrives who she's not seen for ages. fearing the brush off i go for the digits. to my surprise it's denied.
i don't get mad or feel bad just cooly say " well it's been nice talking and i better get back to my flatmates, as it's my round and they look thirsty."
so back i go and suffer the hard luck and your useless bs from guys and girls that have no clue and no sex as well.
An hour later in she comes it's a 5'10 stunner blonde nice suit etc... same deal and i'm in and leave with her at the end of the night.
the snooty one that dissed me sees me talking to more than her apearance equal and starts to observe. i held the door open for the blond bit and her friends as we leave getting me smiles and scowls from the other one. i get the digits and i'm good to go.
wait my mandatory 3 days to call (torture though, but never sooner than 3) and arrange to meet at a small coffee shop for a chat mid day. we're hitting it off eye contact it's all going great, smiles light hand touches etc... .finish my coffee and we decide on another one.
i'm at the counter about to pay when i get my shoulder tapped . it's the snooty beach from the other night that denied me.she has obvously seen the level of woman i've pulled and regretted her decision.
she's giving me some story about how she wasn't well and was so sorry sh'ed been rude , not herself etc.... so she offers me her digits alredy written down . i smile the same sickly evil one she gave while dissing me and respond, "no thanks, but thanks for offering anyway, better late than never". 3 guys at the bar who were scoping her have jaws that hit the floor. i give the last, depressed looking of them all the nod and grin and make my way back to my date who asks what the story was. i tell her and we piss ourself laughing well within earshot of the disser and he snooty pals. i dated this girl for 6 months and still havn't done better 3 years later.
the moral of the story is this
the respect i had for myself for turning the tables gave my confidence a huge booster shot and i tell u it felt dammmmmm goooood. everytime i thought about the scene i laughed and smiled so i used to think about it just prior to doing the approach. it seemed to boost me - i still do it.
never put any woman on a pedestal. the really pretty ones have the same fears as the normal looking ones. they are only more practiced in huting guys. this little hoor i bet had never had any guy reject her well she had now. and it was me heh heh.
the blond one confirmed my suspicion that really pretty women often don't get hit on nearly as often as you'd imagine. we look at them and assume they are spoken for or we are lacking in confidence to assume they would be into you. she didn't date that often btw
thirdly my final pearl of wisdom if you have a chance to get revenge on a woman who had dissed you. DO IT. !
do it now........ do it good............... do it twice !!! but the key phrase here is JUST DO IT.
peace and lots of poontang to ya all.
i just wanted to share an experience i had
it's 1998 i'm living in london as a student and sharing a flat with 2 guys and 2 girls.
things have been slow all week and it's now fri night. we all get *****d up to the nine's and go hit the local bars in upscale west end (posh totty aplenty).
we're on the first pint and i see her sitting at the bar with 2 friends. she's a perfect 10 and the eye contact has been done once. it happens again i download from my long term memory the dj bible, smile and it's reciprocated. 10 second pause and he's in the blocks running shoes on , starters gun goes and he's off like a greased cougar from the planet itchy 8ollocks.
i'm over in a flash and talking away . it's going great for 15 mins, then her 3rd friend arrives who she's not seen for ages. fearing the brush off i go for the digits. to my surprise it's denied.
i don't get mad or feel bad just cooly say " well it's been nice talking and i better get back to my flatmates, as it's my round and they look thirsty."
so back i go and suffer the hard luck and your useless bs from guys and girls that have no clue and no sex as well.
An hour later in she comes it's a 5'10 stunner blonde nice suit etc... same deal and i'm in and leave with her at the end of the night.
the snooty one that dissed me sees me talking to more than her apearance equal and starts to observe. i held the door open for the blond bit and her friends as we leave getting me smiles and scowls from the other one. i get the digits and i'm good to go.
wait my mandatory 3 days to call (torture though, but never sooner than 3) and arrange to meet at a small coffee shop for a chat mid day. we're hitting it off eye contact it's all going great, smiles light hand touches etc... .finish my coffee and we decide on another one.
i'm at the counter about to pay when i get my shoulder tapped . it's the snooty beach from the other night that denied me.she has obvously seen the level of woman i've pulled and regretted her decision.
she's giving me some story about how she wasn't well and was so sorry sh'ed been rude , not herself etc.... so she offers me her digits alredy written down . i smile the same sickly evil one she gave while dissing me and respond, "no thanks, but thanks for offering anyway, better late than never". 3 guys at the bar who were scoping her have jaws that hit the floor. i give the last, depressed looking of them all the nod and grin and make my way back to my date who asks what the story was. i tell her and we piss ourself laughing well within earshot of the disser and he snooty pals. i dated this girl for 6 months and still havn't done better 3 years later.
the moral of the story is this
the respect i had for myself for turning the tables gave my confidence a huge booster shot and i tell u it felt dammmmmm goooood. everytime i thought about the scene i laughed and smiled so i used to think about it just prior to doing the approach. it seemed to boost me - i still do it.
never put any woman on a pedestal. the really pretty ones have the same fears as the normal looking ones. they are only more practiced in huting guys. this little hoor i bet had never had any guy reject her well she had now. and it was me heh heh.
the blond one confirmed my suspicion that really pretty women often don't get hit on nearly as often as you'd imagine. we look at them and assume they are spoken for or we are lacking in confidence to assume they would be into you. she didn't date that often btw
thirdly my final pearl of wisdom if you have a chance to get revenge on a woman who had dissed you. DO IT. !
do it now........ do it good............... do it twice !!! but the key phrase here is JUST DO IT.
peace and lots of poontang to ya all.