I think she's really, really cool. I met her at a night out, and we have great fun, we clicked, and she came back to my place, but no sexing took place. We did sleep side by side though.

We've texted a few times back and forth. Very light, casual, and fun - that's how our interactions have been so far.

She won't be around my city for another few weeks. I would like to play this right and hopefully make a good FB out of her, or even an LTR (*gasp*).

I have her phone number, and I added her to MSN recently. She hasn't accepted the invite yet.. :-/

So, I can't text her for coffee. And I'm not sure what I could say to her.

Any advices?

Did you kiss her?
Did you let your Sexual Threat be felt?

If you didn't, why is she sleeping in your house, without you escalating?

If you did, then just contact her once or twice in the 3 weeks.

Gangster Of Love said:

Did you kiss her?
Did you let your Sexual Threat be felt?

If you didn't, why is she sleeping in your house, without you escalating?

If you did, then just contact her once or twice in the 3 weeks.

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Yeah, we made out. But she wasn't up for sex. I just knew from the beginning it would not happen.

Not so sure what you mean by letting the Sexual Threat be felt.. I think I may have been too light and casual with her.

She's into some martial arts (and so am I), and I was picking her up and throwing her over my back and showing her stuff, and she was loving it.

But I didn't "phase shift", or whatever it's called.

Once or twice seems a bit sparse, no? I don't want her forgetting about me...

Yeah I agree. Contact her a few times while she's gone but don't over do it. Don't be gay and ask how her day was and if she's having fun, just send her some crazy things going on in your world. Make her smile and laugh. Normally I'm not a fan of texting too early but in a situation like this you don't have much choice. After only really being with her one time, there's not enough there to keep her thinking of you for three weeks while she's away.

Ollie said:

Yeah I agree. Contact her a few times while she's gone but don't over do it. Don't be gay and ask how her day was and if she's having fun, just send her some crazy things going on in your world. Make her smile and laugh. Normally I'm not a fan of texting too early but in a situation like this you don't have much choice. After only really being with her one time, there's not enough there to keep her thinking of you for three weeks while she's away.

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I think you nailed it there. Thanks man.