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Conversation Points (Keeping Long Interesting Conversation through Phone or Text)

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Anyone got any advice? Anything that works any typical interesting topics you bring up? Just wondering because currently I've engaged in some long term texting with this one girl (multiple hours) and just wondering what would be some good conversation points for future reference. I'm sure if we all gave some it would help everyone out if we had a little list in our head of stuff to talk about that bring about good conversation.


What's an AFC?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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AFC= Average Frustrated Chump.... i think.

but as far as texts, ask her to tell you a random fact about herself, make her think, then u can go from there by using what she gives you. Try not to text or call everyday, for me somtiems its boring i rather use text and phone to set up a date and talk then.
 
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Get to know a bit about her, tease her about some stuff, and you'll naturally find ways to connect the dots.
Basically, start conversation 'threads' with her.
 
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Alright thanks for the advice so far. I been trying to ask questions and talk about things that allow her to talk a bit more and then I use her words to create follow ups until I change the subject. From the way conversation is doing right now it sounds like I got it in the bag. She wants to hang out, she's talking about sexual things with me through texts. She was the one who stared and waved at me first to. I approached her after the SECOND wave.

So at this point is there any advice on how to add some more gasoline to this fire?

Also how can I seal the deal to make a good plan for this weekend.

I know all this stuff I just love getting extra advice and new stuff to work with.
 
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Dante420 said:
I know all this stuff I just love getting extra advice and new stuff to work with.
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If you know how to go about it, just do it your way. Do what works for you. Extra advice is unnecessary and can really mess things up.
 
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it's always going to be a continued learning process for me. I'm confident in myself and my skill since even before I read up on this stuff but I'm still young. I always try to incorporate my new tips into what i do. But I understand where extra advice can mess someone up with this.

Another factor, her sister of the same age, who was with her when I met her at the mall and actually remembered my name from a summer job even though I didn't even know her. Well anyway, she took it upon herself to later tell her sister that she should stay away from me because I'm trouble and because I cheat (I remind you I don't know this girl). so anyway. the most important part is that Girl A (The target) said that her sisters opinion ( she said it with a smiley face).

So my question to you is, does this have the potential for a negative or positive result?
 
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Dante420 said:
it's always going to be a continued learning process for me. I'm confident in myself and my skill since even before I read up on this stuff but I'm still young. I always try to incorporate my new tips into what i do. But I understand where extra advice can mess someone up with this.

Another factor, her sister of the same age, who was with her when I met her at the mall and actually remembered my name from a summer job even though I didn't even know her. Well anyway, she took it upon herself to later tell her sister that she should stay away from me because I'm trouble and because I cheat (I remind you I don't know this girl). so anyway. the most important part is that Girl A (The target) said that her sisters opinion ( she said it with a smiley face).

So my question to you is, does this have the potential for a negative or positive result?
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That's actually pretty good, as counter-intuitive as it seems. The smiley is a good sign. She is actually conveying that she is ready to go against her sister's wish.

Not being a predictable nice guy is actually a good thing. And she pretty much accepts that..and she is naughty enough to piss her sister off.

She's all yours. Just keep being that same awesome guy who attracted her, and close the deal.
 
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Thanks for the advice.

Can anyone tell me some good ideas for the next conversation? And when do you think I should text her again. I texted her for a long time the last two days but today I didn't text her at all. Is th. Should I tomorrow?
 
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Dante420 said:
Is everyone sure I shouldn't text her today? Isn't keeping me on her mind a good thing?
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Texting builds rapport/comfort,and too much comfort is always bad.

Keep your texts short, friendly and sometimes playful. Don't overdo it. You don't want to be that boring predictable guy who always sends her a text each day. Use them sparingly.

The aim is to see her again, and use your judgment to feel that tipping point when you feel there is enough rapport built through texts to ask her a date/time for seeing her in person.
 
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I still haven't hung out with her yet so I have to keep interest in order to make plans for next week. Should I text her tomorrow and for how long and what are some good things to say?
 
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I still haven't hung out with her yet so I have to keep interest in order to make plans for next week. Should I text her tomorrow and for how long and what are some good things to say?
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It should be fine to text her "when you want to" and not every single day as a routine. Trust your instincts, they will warn you when you are about to cross the creepy guy line.

You can start with a friendly hi or something like "hey, how was your day today".. and if she replies, you can start being playful and stuff...

For conversation topics, its better to pull something from a past interaction. Something funny and short.

If she is responsive, you can also add a bit of intrigue, and throw a cold read at her, that should keep her thinking about you. For instance,

"You seem like a very open and friendly girl, and I have a feeling that you try your best to keep everyone around you happy, but I'm guessing people still don't fully appreciate you sometimes. Isn't that true?"

^^Try that. It's a classic. :p
 
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