12-13-2000, 10:11 PM
The best way to initiate sex is to start of by touching the girl. Ex: You are at a resteraunt having drinks and you are lightly touching her arm, back, thigh, and hands. This subcontiously works on the girl. it also allows her to get used to her touch. Eye contact and smiling are also ver y important. Make sure to get physical with a date before you take her back to your place for sex. Then at your place you can start to get physical without any awkwardness.
12-13-2000, 11:21 PM
But the question is how do you avoid the ackwardness?
First off most importantly make sure you have a clean home. That means no close all over the place, no empty pizza boxes, etc..This is importent because if you are going to ingage in some love, you want her to feel comfortable. You don't want her have to feel like she has to weed through your crib just have sex. Just like you , your home should knock your chick off her feet, and speak for herself.
Another importent thing is to make sure that your don't have guy funk in your crib. I know it is hard to help but you can do it. Women are very sensitive to smell too. A few candles may not hurt but are not needed. Just make sure it smells good.
Now that we have covered the basics it is time to avoid that ackwardness. Invite her in..Key word invite! It is a privlidge for you to allow her to come in. Don't act like sex is the only thing on your mind, as a matter of fact don't even think about sex.Sound weird? Well if you are just thinking about sex you are not going to be ablel to talk, if you can't talk thing get ackward and you get none.
You should next offer her a comfortable place to sit(there is that theme of comfort again). Make sure to keep some wine in your house. Wine also aid's in comfort. But don't over do it. Don't keep her glass full, then you will not only look desprate but you will also look like a perv. Also don't substitute hard liquor for wine. You are a distinguished Don Juan, hard liquor and drunkeness are below you. You want evry conscience drop of lust/love that, that women can offer you.
One more thing, try to not to let her make the first move. Why you ask? Well, you are a Don Juan, be confident, you are being nice to her by giving her sexual pleasure.
Last once you do get her in your bed (and you will :-)} don't get in there and try allow her to do al the work. Put all the effort possible into it. Yes that includes fore-play. All fore-play except oral. If you give that up you have given up everything. The girl will expect that, and she will assume a form of control. You want to keep all contro. So finaly if you adapt that tips I just gave you will be a success. Also remember the effort you put in to sex is importent. You want her to have a reason to get up and make you breakfast, even though she won't cause she has not yet earned that privlage, so a phone call will do. Think, and try to blow her back out....
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