The title says it all. What are some of your experiences with those sites? I read that Adult Friend Finder was a scam AFAICT. But it may not be. What do you guys think about using those sites? Does it live up to the hype?

The odds are stacked against you on AFF as a single male. Your best bets to get laid are finding a woman who is either cheating on her husband or into group sex. If you won't do either of these, then don't waste your time on the site. You might as well use myspace for free.

There is some scamming involved on AFF. I have heard that the site is run by a seedy offshore organization. Guys whose membership is about to expire will often receive a fake email from a girl wanting to hook up - the idea is to get them to renew membership. As long as you're not too naive, it is not hard to see the spam.

There is no real deal there is only you against the world...

I have a thread outlining my experiences on AFF on November 2006, and it was a blast: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK3L6ccMQ4U I often use this song as an anthem for that particular phase in my life going on that site and on adult-lavalife.

I have a thread you can access on the search that shows my 'adult online ad'. In the middle of November, it was a virgin Muslim girl I connected with. Then about a few other people were prepared to meet me if I pursued it. It ended in a cliff-hanger where I had to decide at the last minute at the end of November, whether to leave November 2006 a virgin or a non-virgin. I aborted at the last minute on an arranged casual hook-up and have been a virgin up to this date. I have never gone back on since. All I can remember is it was just a blast, but it's something that's just in my memory,.

I had a theory that I would get lucky on that site because I had rotten luck with a woman I really loved and felt I'd cash on my rotten luck by trying my luck on that site for a random hook-up and just hit gold. But there were allot of rejections, etc... but it appears people were able to connect with my blog, which was in effect a reality-tv version being broadcasted about how I was making out trying to find someone to lose my virginity with.

Anyway, that's over two years ago, and I only have purposed to go on those sites if I'm feeling that I have real rotten luck with women in real life and want to cash in on my rotten luck -- wierd belief I guess. If I failed to get a hook-up the next step would have to be seeing a prostitute. However, I'm glad I found a woman to connect with me or a few women, who thought I was a cute guy and was prepared to meet me.

Well, heck I don't have STDs. I tell my mom on dad all the time as a perpetual revenge. If he has porn, condoms, or any stuff that doesn't belong, I make it known to my mom....but I dont regret my dad's influence -- I don't think I'm one for random hook-ups.