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does the lead up to xmas affect a girl's lonliness and can u use it to ur advantage?

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say u started dating a girl beginning of december/end of november and u mess it up somehow within the first week or so. if u know she was really into you physically and in general but somehow u turned her off with your afc-ness.. with xmas coming up can u use that to your advantage to get her back?

she might be feeling lonley.. we're assuming here she doesn't have a stream of guys she pick from and isn't necessarily a HB7+ etc.

can u make up for your prior mistakes wishing her a merry xmas and hope she does well in whatever she does and say it's a pity the two of u couldn't have made it into something more?

i know girls feel lonley around valentines but does it apply to xmas too?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You should probably move on.

If you need to 'exploit' something in a woman to get with her the relationship is doomed to failure anyway, as youre both doing it for the wrong reasons.

That being said, if your goal is to trick the girl and you think you can, then it depends on her situation. She could have lots of family, etc, and be very hung up in the past, etc, or she could not. If you really want her back you should go with genuine honesty, integrity, and joy, first to yourself and then to her.
 

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That's the Christmas spirit right there....
 

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im thinking more along the lines of i've only started dating her and haven't banged her yet and want to do so.. do i stand a better chance utilizing this holiday as a point of contact?

she's not talking to me anymore and refuses to take my calls.
 
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