Hey all, I figured I'd start a field report for new guys who are looking for some pointers. I'm still quite new myself but I am a very quick learner, and would like some feedback as well. I've only decided to really start playing the field in the past few weeks, but I'll keep the reports flowing.
All names have been changed to protect the 'innocent'
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Tuesday, November 25th
Myself and a bunch of friends go out to a bar in Dayton, one of which had a black girl with him. There's a reason I mention her. Anyway we head in, .50 cent draft nights so everyone's getting slobbered. I get this great idea while we're getting drinks for a prop: I had taken out an extra dollar from my pocket and didn't need it, so instead of putting it in my pocket I tucked it in my collar so everyone could see it. If anyone asked about it, I'd say "There's a dolla in my colla yo", cracked people up. Got a lot of looks just from that.
We grab some drinks, chill at the somewhat crowded bar, then decide to go for a smoke break on the balcony patio. While we're out there, I'm chillin next to my dude who's with the chick and I give him props for looking out for the 'sistas' because they are some lovely ladies. She's digging this pretty hard and I'm not trying to c0ckblock so I lay off a bit. Everyone starts to head in and I kind of chilling with my back to the balcony fence and "Swing" by Savage comes on, so I start bobbin my head to the beat and this girl with another guy sees me, gives me this huge smile (I still have the dollar in my collar) and runs over and tells me she had to get a picture with me, with the guy she was with as the photographer. We pose, get the picture taken and she introduces herself to me as "Laura", and I do the same. I tell her then with a wink that I definitely need to see that picture on the Internet. She's all bubbly and giggly, pretty cute too. I decide to play it a little cold and head inside at that point to meet up with my friends, because I'm there to have fun, not to chase tail all night.
So I meet up with my buds and have a few more brews over by the dance floor when "Tina", the girl my buddy was with, asks me to dance with her, a.k.a. grind me like a cement mixer. So we start grinding good, she turns around while we're dancing and takes the dollar out of my collar with her TEETH, I'm just lookin' at her like "Dayum that was slick." So we both have a good laugh, song ends, we head back to the bar where I tell my buddy to start dancing with her (not a c0ckblocker, like I said)
...and that's when I make eye contact with a girl cattycorner across the rounded bar, and she greets me with a gigantic smile and looks away, now that I'm noticing her. I look back every once and a while to catch her spyin on me, so I'm nodding my head towards the dance floor in a gesture like "Let's dance", but she's surrounded by guys, maybe one of them was her man, and she's acting all shy and shaking her head no. I just shrug and have another beer.
I'm pretty tipsy at this point so I'm going back and forth dancing around the dance floor going from girl to girl and I see the girl at the bar is still looking at me. I give her the 'come hither' finger gesture and she still won't come out, big shy grin and looking away. Finally after someone moved out of the way she walks towards me when I was done dancing and we introduce ourselves. Apparently she's a school teacher (that's what I'm studying to be as well) so we kind of hit it off. I gave her some guff for not dancing with me and I can't remember her excuse but it was weak. I said nice to meet you and left it at that.
So we head back home around 2:30am and my friend drops myself, my buddy and Tina at our cars so we can go the rest of the way on our own. I give daps to my friend and Tina gives me a giant hug and tells me that "I'm awesome", so we part well and it was a great night. I go home alone but it doesn't matter, I can't remember another TUESDAY night where I had so much fun doing random sh!t.
All names have been changed to protect the 'innocent'
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Tuesday, November 25th
Myself and a bunch of friends go out to a bar in Dayton, one of which had a black girl with him. There's a reason I mention her. Anyway we head in, .50 cent draft nights so everyone's getting slobbered. I get this great idea while we're getting drinks for a prop: I had taken out an extra dollar from my pocket and didn't need it, so instead of putting it in my pocket I tucked it in my collar so everyone could see it. If anyone asked about it, I'd say "There's a dolla in my colla yo", cracked people up. Got a lot of looks just from that.
We grab some drinks, chill at the somewhat crowded bar, then decide to go for a smoke break on the balcony patio. While we're out there, I'm chillin next to my dude who's with the chick and I give him props for looking out for the 'sistas' because they are some lovely ladies. She's digging this pretty hard and I'm not trying to c0ckblock so I lay off a bit. Everyone starts to head in and I kind of chilling with my back to the balcony fence and "Swing" by Savage comes on, so I start bobbin my head to the beat and this girl with another guy sees me, gives me this huge smile (I still have the dollar in my collar) and runs over and tells me she had to get a picture with me, with the guy she was with as the photographer. We pose, get the picture taken and she introduces herself to me as "Laura", and I do the same. I tell her then with a wink that I definitely need to see that picture on the Internet. She's all bubbly and giggly, pretty cute too. I decide to play it a little cold and head inside at that point to meet up with my friends, because I'm there to have fun, not to chase tail all night.
So I meet up with my buds and have a few more brews over by the dance floor when "Tina", the girl my buddy was with, asks me to dance with her, a.k.a. grind me like a cement mixer. So we start grinding good, she turns around while we're dancing and takes the dollar out of my collar with her TEETH, I'm just lookin' at her like "Dayum that was slick." So we both have a good laugh, song ends, we head back to the bar where I tell my buddy to start dancing with her (not a c0ckblocker, like I said)
...and that's when I make eye contact with a girl cattycorner across the rounded bar, and she greets me with a gigantic smile and looks away, now that I'm noticing her. I look back every once and a while to catch her spyin on me, so I'm nodding my head towards the dance floor in a gesture like "Let's dance", but she's surrounded by guys, maybe one of them was her man, and she's acting all shy and shaking her head no. I just shrug and have another beer.
I'm pretty tipsy at this point so I'm going back and forth dancing around the dance floor going from girl to girl and I see the girl at the bar is still looking at me. I give her the 'come hither' finger gesture and she still won't come out, big shy grin and looking away. Finally after someone moved out of the way she walks towards me when I was done dancing and we introduce ourselves. Apparently she's a school teacher (that's what I'm studying to be as well) so we kind of hit it off. I gave her some guff for not dancing with me and I can't remember her excuse but it was weak. I said nice to meet you and left it at that.
So we head back home around 2:30am and my friend drops myself, my buddy and Tina at our cars so we can go the rest of the way on our own. I give daps to my friend and Tina gives me a giant hug and tells me that "I'm awesome", so we part well and it was a great night. I go home alone but it doesn't matter, I can't remember another TUESDAY night where I had so much fun doing random sh!t.