I just learned something tonight. I learned that I should've said and done something a long time ago, but I didn't because I had no balls. I wouldn't otherwise be in the situation I am now. Funny thing is, I had always known this but for some reason, I didn't see it the way I see it now.

Whenever you've been presented with options, you should not completely rely on what your logic brain is telling you -- that you want avoid conflicts, that you don't have time for that ****, that you are too old, that you are too high-class to be dealing with that kind of stuff, that other people could do it, that it's not your thing, that it costs too much money, that it makes her sad, that it's not polite, that whatever. When your gut says otherwise, listen to it, say and do what needs to be said and done.

We, men, don't have the same life as them, women, even though we walk on the same planet. We don't wait for opportunities to come by, we seek and create them ourselves. We are not waiting for a lady in a sexy armor to sweep us off our feet. We are not waiting for a dumb salesman offering your dream house/boat/mansion for a penny. We pave our own road, and we choose the direction.

This is what your thought process should be like whenever some manly actions need to be done:

Balls -> Brain -> Heart


Don't do this all the time, however. You wouldn't survive very long.

"All of our life problems start with us having no balls."

QFT

This is so true.

If you don't have balls you will have people walk all over you which brings up issues. This in turn will cause you to have troubles because 100% of the time these people using you will not leave you happy or in a favorable state.

Therefore you must always do what is best for yourself and to do that you must be able to have balls and stand up for yourself.

I believe there is a balance. You need to think with your brain;Speak with your heart, and act with your balls.

Problems start when someone is thinking too much with one aspect of their person. Following the heart too much leads to attachment and acting clingy. Think with your brain too much and you will over analyze everything. And if your TOO "balsy", you will come off as super aggressive.

Balance is key.