First Glance...
That's all you get one take, one picture - that one glance can determine if you are seen as a sexual god or a mindless chump, as Brad Pitt or Steve Urkel.
its important to know your first will be based on your physical appearance and your mannerism:
cloths
posture
health
facial expressions
fitness
voice tone
and a whole lot more!
What we are getting judged on is our overall attractiveness
However by improving upon these things you can increase your approachable-ness by ten times
Be Someone's Sun
Imagine your the sun. Feel your rays shining, warming them up bringing some love and joy into there life.
with this I mean radiate that glow to any and everybody you meet. Try this: go to the mall and walk around imagine your a warm fire of love and joy and see how peoples reactions to you seem to change instantly.
Always Smile
Not a cheesy kool-aid smile but a sly tongue-in-cheek, I have a secret kind of smile. This goes hand and hand with being the sun. Nothing brings joy more then a smile.
again try it, go to the mall, and smile at people - smile is the biggest plague of them all, its so contagious.
Talk to Everyone
Nothing beats being friendly. Everywhere you go talk to people, say hi to strangers walking past you on the sidewalk approach the elderly person sitting in the park bench. Social proof is a great thing and when people see your talking to many people the first thing they ask themselves " what does he have?" it makes people what to talk to you to approach you, to be your friend its a wonderful thing.
Dress to Impress
I don't have to go on about this do I? your cloths play a big part in how people judge you. always look your best. Irons are your friends
Follow these tips and you my friends can start to have the first impressions that make people want to meet you!
until we meet again
love life, and be free
That's all you get one take, one picture - that one glance can determine if you are seen as a sexual god or a mindless chump, as Brad Pitt or Steve Urkel.
its important to know your first will be based on your physical appearance and your mannerism:
cloths
posture
health
facial expressions
fitness
voice tone
and a whole lot more!
What we are getting judged on is our overall attractiveness
However by improving upon these things you can increase your approachable-ness by ten times
Be Someone's Sun
Imagine your the sun. Feel your rays shining, warming them up bringing some love and joy into there life.
with this I mean radiate that glow to any and everybody you meet. Try this: go to the mall and walk around imagine your a warm fire of love and joy and see how peoples reactions to you seem to change instantly.
Always Smile
Not a cheesy kool-aid smile but a sly tongue-in-cheek, I have a secret kind of smile. This goes hand and hand with being the sun. Nothing brings joy more then a smile.
again try it, go to the mall, and smile at people - smile is the biggest plague of them all, its so contagious.
Talk to Everyone
Nothing beats being friendly. Everywhere you go talk to people, say hi to strangers walking past you on the sidewalk approach the elderly person sitting in the park bench. Social proof is a great thing and when people see your talking to many people the first thing they ask themselves " what does he have?" it makes people what to talk to you to approach you, to be your friend its a wonderful thing.
Dress to Impress
I don't have to go on about this do I? your cloths play a big part in how people judge you. always look your best. Irons are your friends
Follow these tips and you my friends can start to have the first impressions that make people want to meet you!
until we meet again
love life, and be free