So i have a friend here.
he is one of my best friends. he's also black.
he's got the usual blessed looks like 6ft 230lbs purely muscle pushes more than his weight on the bench and works out everyday kinda dude.

girls fall for him alot.but hes just not one of those guys that approaches women. and he doesnt entertain females that chase him.

he got out of LTR with a single mom. she was very cool..and most dinner dates that i would go on, we would double date and id get her to meet the girl and give me their opinion on her before continuing kind of rltnshp.

anyway he broke up with the ltr due to various reasons.

3 months later.

we are at the club and this chic comes stands next to us and starts talking to us.i find her kind of wierd because
1. she was alone.
2. she dressed wierd..like she had a long 3/4 skirt on but it square shape and her top was also square shape..she looked like she was 30 and dressed like they did in the 70s
3 she had no boundary of personal space, she kept nudging and barging into our conversations.

anyway we left the club.

next week..same chic, same type of clothes..same actions.

only this time. my idiot mate tells her where we hang through the week.

so.

monday comes around, we're at our usual cafe chilling..and she walks in.
sits with us uninvited.
tuesday, wednesday, thursday, friday same story.

saturday she's at the club..everytime
she's alone, she comes in straight to us and sits and starts talking.

but my friends an i notice that it only happens when he's around..otherwise she doesnt come in as much.

then we find out that she tried getting his address and somehow got his phone number.
she turns up at his work 6 days a week to see him.

we told him to turn and run.

but what does he do?!

he says.wow! im so happy that a girl puts this much effort into me..i like her..
ive called her and we've defined out relationship..she is not my girlfriend..she's my miracle!!

WTF!!!!

i wanna slap sense into him...but DAMNIT!!!

he's known her less than a month and she's a miracle!!!!amazing..more mushy words...

That's good, he found some square love, obviously what he was looking for. This makes a great love story.

Fvck him, theres nothing you can do and besides, these mistakes are what shape us and give us character, unfortunate for your mate he's going to find his pet rabbit in a pot of boiling water with this particular trial but we all have our own tests to endure.

im not mad that hes got a girl you know..coz literally he has NEVER! wingman'd anyof us on our endevours with females.

but he gets hit on and he'll just shy away. we did hook him up with some hott women but he always ends up dumping them coz he doesnt find them attractive.

he is pretty intense about his books and politics and world issues. etc so a conversation with him usually is pretty intense and revolves around deep stuff..like rightn ow he's on his Obama trip.

anyway yeh i told him personally im happy if he's happy and he doesnt get hurt.
ive tried giving him the tips and lessons ive learnts here, like dont get too close too fast but it seems they spend every night till about 12 at a coffee club.
he also told us he wont be able to the boys alot anymore coz he's locked.

im like dude!! in 3 days you've decided to lock yourself down to a lil clown suit wearing chic..wtf!!.
he changed his FB status to in a relationship and his saying is "im takenm, sorry ladies"

this is only going to end up in a big mess and alot of pain..but live and learn i suppose..

slickaz said:

live and learn i suppose..

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You know it, and he will aswell soon enough.

I do admire the crazy little minx's balls and persaverance in getting what she wants though. For some reason I'm imagining her getting all sweaty and flustered, hoping she will bump into your mate before going to the club. I've seen these strange, weirdly dressed types of chicks you talk of.

Probably go off like a cracker in the sack.