Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
high IOI to say the least.What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You brought yourself up by putting her down. Not good. Instead, you could have said "You do look great and I would love to spend some time with you to see what we have in common, how about coffee at 12:00?" If she says, yes, you're in, if she says no, then you know she wasn't worth it anyway.mtlwlu said:Im not sure what PUA used this first. but I this HB 8 in my class was going on and on about how guys think shes gorgeous and all that...after class I walk with her and say "Looks arent everything...what else do you have?" she seemed dumbfounded, and I said, "let me know soon" and then when I checked my fb inbox she gave me a list