i had this HB 2 weeks ago who i made out with several times with on the 1st date, touched her up a bit. tried to fvck close when i got her back to her dorms and pressed the issue a bit too much. (mistake)

anyway i dont know what's going through her head but when i went to call her 4 days later she picked up (good sign) and tried to set up a 2nd date she wouldn't give me a definite time. it was the start of uni so lots of parties to go to etc and wants to find out what her friends are doing 1st before committing.

then that led to a spiral of me calling day after day 3 days consecutively to see if she was free that night (i know big afc error) but that isn't the original reason why she wouldnt give me a def time.

what could the reason be? even if she may think i'm just after one thing it doesn't make sense what's happened.

obviously now i've f'd up by calling too much so it's over. (she's been ignoring my calls the past 2 days even tho i left it about a week since i last called)

i've been advised to on here just cut contact.. is that too late now? and can i just tell her the score via text that i'm not contacting/chasing her anymore and it's in her court, take it or leave it?

or is it better just to not say anything?

so you're calling her again, to tell her you're not calling her again.

honesty i'm not sure what's wrong with you. you keep making the exact same mistakes over and over again. do you not ever learn?

it doesn't really matter what you do at this point because she has less than zero interest in you. take a hint. she never picked up because she didn't want to talk to you. if you text her and "leave the ball in her court" that would be kinda sad and pathetic on your part. just try and save some remnants of pride, man.

God i feel sorry for us men look at how sad this is... while she has many many men calling her offering her this and that... and for every 1 yeas she says 50 no's... so do the math you need to have 50 female options...