so here is how it went.

im a senior nursing student at a smaller tech school here in PA. Very hard to sarge because classes all let out at different times and there is no real spot to socialize. so u never know when ull see a HB ur interested in getting to know. About a year ago a professor asked me to come in and teach her freshman class (i was a junior at this point) how to make medication information cards on the computer...a drug fact card basically. i went in and did the power point on them lasted maybe 15 minutes...i have a good personality, im "hip" told jokes...came off as lighthearted. at the end of the pp i said "so if anyone has any questions about the cards and you see me in the halls feel free to stop and ask and i can give you a more detailed lesson in the computer lab" completely thinking about med cards... one hb 7 approached me said she couldn't print them out. so i made appointment with her for end of week to show her again. at the end of the tutoring i said "now if you have any questions here is my number...text me and i can show u on ur own computer" she txtd me same night and said she was drinking and wanted me to come out. i did...and she informed me she got the med cards to work fine but she found me cute and wanted to get to know me more. at this point i laughed hahahahaah...i had no intention of sarging when i went into the room. it happened on complete accident.

so now the new freshman class is here. and i immediately capitalized on it and told a professor im good friends with that i have a program id like to show her class that i made. she gave me control of the powerpoint and i went off on it. told jokes..stories about funny things that happened to me..had the class smiling during the presentation. i used the same line as before right before i left "if you guys have any questions or problems my name is August and i can help ya out in the computer lab." as soon as i left the room i heard some girls just snickering LOUD AS HELL. like a "hehehe" type of thing...i knew something was up. i could feel some strikes on my fishing pole. now it was time to reel a few in.

next day i was outside before class and same teacher who let me do the power point came upto me and said "so which one do you want" i said "lol what do you mean" she said "oh well most of the girls thought u were very cute"
(right in front of my buddies..we always talk about the hb's in the class) hahaha. i said "well i think the girl in the front is cute, what did she say?" she said "well she didn't say you were but she didn't say no either


its honestly nearly impossible to get together with ppl from different classes. Because of the different break times.. i saw hb i was interested in outside three days after presentation and knew it might be a week before i saw her again. immediately went up to her...she was eating nachos and i asked if i could have one. i talked all about food and learned that they leave 20 minutes earlier for dinner than us so i said
(me) so you guys bring food back then?
(her) yea i usually go with my two friends here..we go to subway
(me) well that's convenient i love subway..subway melt all the way! my two friends like subway too. so since you get out earlier than us.. maybe you could bring us some back some food, so when we get out of class we have something waiting..you know u help us out we'll help you guys out."
(her) yea (laughing) maybe
(me) that could definitely work..i don't have your number so why don't you go ahead and give it to me..it wont be anything serious like maybe one or two orders like once or twice a week.
(her) ok.

she had darting eye contact with me..seemed nervous?

got the number on Friday called yesterday (Sunday)..got voice mail and my phone died in the middle of it. i txtd her immediately after i got it on the charger and said "hey my phone died..this is August...this is my cell. give me a call back"

she txtd me back minimal conversation nothing more than a sentence from her (but some people are like that in texting)

told me she was going to a party..and i said i was having a cookout.

i txtd her today and told her i went to Canada with my friends...she said "omg u should have told me" i said "well ive only talked to u for that little bit outside of school..i hardly know u i wasn't sure if ud wanna go or not..u seem like a pretty fun person do u go gambling a lot up there'

she didn't respond yet and i sent last txt a while ago.

not sure if i should keep texting her or call her maybe Wednesday?


i know the purpose is to create attraction and waiting for her to call u is just wasting ur time in the beginning. if i call her i can foresee me doing all the talking and being viewed as the aggressor..aka her being the prize. i might need to really keep it short like 3 minutes..get a date set up and get some drinks going to loosen her up?

Wait till you see her in class. You were busy, and be sure to explain to her you were out doing things that were much more important than her.

Rhoto said:

Wait till you see her in class. You were busy, and be sure to explain to her you were out doing things that were much more important than her.

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class is only two days a week for us, man. we have our internships in the hospitals Tuesday-Thursday. and like i said only chance i can see her is before it starts or possibly, maybe on a smoke break...but thats only if she goes down to visit. if she doesnt go downstairs..i cant walk into classroom b/c only person i know is her. and that is too obvious

Are you both of legal drinking age?

Rhoto said:

Are you both of legal drinking age?

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shes 19 and has a fake im 21

Before any interaction with a girl, ask youself "What do I want to accomplish from this?"
Following the m3 model. Attraction -> Comfort -> Seduce.
At this stage you're either trying to create attraction or assume attraction and start qualifying.
If you're going to create attraction you have to use DHVs to get her attracted to you.
You will not be seen as the agressor if all you're doing is demonstrating value.
But you will be seen as the agressor if you start complimenting her looks, hitting on her, and forcing rapport.

The August Sky said:

i txtd her today and told her i went to Canada with my friends...she said "omg u should have told me" i said "well ive only talked to u for that little bit outside of school..i hardly know u i wasn't sure if ud wanna go or not..u seem like a pretty fun person do u go gambling a lot up there'

she didn't respond yet and i sent last txt a while ago.

not sure if i should keep texting her or call her maybe Wednesday?

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Look man, stick this in your head:

Girls tend to not respond to long texts/long voicemails because they reek of AFCness.

Also, you don't have to lock yourself out "I hardly know you." - there is a more subtle way of acting like a prize... and immediately after "I hardly know you" you go into AFC mode - "do you go gambling a lot?" and sent her another text.. and now want to call her.

My advice would be... let her see you with another girl. OR forget about this day, and try to send her a short invite to the coolest event she could ever be at... like a big fest or camping trip or something completely radically appealing to her.. and keep it cool and short.

PS: Next time when you say "I hardly know you" DO NOT forget to add "but I'm curious".

-----UPDATE-----


today is Wednesday obviously a normal clinical day and were in the hospital. But today we had a presentation on sexual harassment to get a certification, so we were pulled back into school for a day. I was under the impression it was just our class. I walked in late by about 5 minutes and sat in the 2nd to last row from the back.

I was side stepping thru a tight row and i noticed the hb im interested in sitting next to a girl, i acted like i didn't see her and kelp walking and as i passed them someone grabbed my ass. now im not sure if it was the hb im interested in or her friend sitting next to her...but when i sat down i turned around and they both had papers covering their face laughing about it.

the irony eh'? a sexual harassment presentation and i get my booty slapped. I had my phone on silent and i checked the time...i notice a text from the HB and it says "my friend wants to sexually ravage your body." my body is ok....i workout 4X week w/ weights.

i sent one back to her that said "Oh is that her name..well it sounds like i have a fan group back there..u guys keep giggling."

shortly after this we took a break and i asked my friend for a smoke (i don't smoke..but she does) so i went over to her and her friend and said...

(me) so which one was it exactly
(some girl Ive never seen) it was her ....pointing to hb's friend
(me) so it was you huh? im not completely convinced...i think it was you! (talking to hb)
(hb) doesn't say a word.....but laughs and looks away....
(hb's friend) points to her wedding ring and says..you see this?
(me) yea i see it. do you see this? (pointing to a phone number for a local sexual harassment center) i say "let me see here...what type of harassment exactly was that?...its not statutory b/c of the age. it could be abuse..i mean i might have a mark i haven't looked yet..but there could be one. i even have a form to fill out a complaint in here!! how convenient." (playing around wit em...hb was laughing...then hb walks away and says she hast to make a phone call)

i walk away and talk to my friends...and hb walks inside and i was too far away to talk to her (call lasted 10 minutes)

we go back inside..and i txt hb "i like how you always run away..haha its cute'

hb does not respond and after presentation is over i turn around and ask hb if she is leaving after this or if they're staying...she says "i think were staying" then looks away again and tries to squeeze away.

ppl moving everywhere i cant stand around and hold **** up so im forced to walk away. they end up leaving before we do and i don't get a chance to ask her out on date. **** i think to myself...if she hadn't of made that phone call that lasted almost the whole break i would have had enough time when i was toying with her friend and her on how i was gonna use my new information to report em i could have asked...

i don't know what the ALL THE TIME darting eye contact means...and she talks minimally to me. maybe shes nervous? im assuming shes interested in me since she gave me digits. and responds to most texts....

think i will call in a few hours after i do dead lifts...

whats ur guy's input on current situation?

p.s. i tried to describe events as accurately and best my memory would allow. so its all accurate.