The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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I just returned to college this past weekend, and a girl that I've kept in touch with over the summer - a stunning HB9 at that - wants to hang out with me. I just got back a day or two ago, but we haven't seen each other yet, and now I'm starting to think she's playing games or "tests."
I'll keep this background short, but I feel it's important to provide it. I've seen this girl twice ever - I met her at a party towards the end of last school year and then I ran into her the next day and we talked for a few minutes. I must have made some impression in those 2-3 minutes total...
...because in mid-July, she asks me for my # via a Facebook message (may have been sent to a few people, who knows). I didn't really know her, but I figured I had nothing to lose, slipped her the # and asked how her summer was going. This snowballed into us keeping in touch often, and she said she was "really looking forward" to seeing me when I'm back at school. She (and a friend or two) took a trip to a major city I live close to a couple weeks ago and contacted me about possibly meeting up, but I wasn't around so unfortunately I couldn't.
Anyway, I'm back at school and we have called/talked. She's had to cover a few shifts at her work lately so I got a nice little phone call at 1:30am, as she was leaving her job. We talked for a few minutes, and she told me what days during the week she's normally free. She also said we could hang out the following night, either at a bar or at a apartment (I think it was a frat) of a guy she knows.
Today, she apparently decides she's going to play games. I got a call later in the evening from her, she just finished dinner with a bunch of her girlfriends and was on her way back to campus (she told me the place too and where it was located lol). She had a few ideas about how we could hang out tonight (she'd be with a few of her friends too of course) and ASKS ME which I prefer! :nervous: I normally can make a decision here, but because it involves her friends (who I haven't met), I came up with the smooth line of, "whichever of those things you want to do most is fine, all that matters to me is that I can hang out with you
). She said she'll talk to a few of her girl friends and call me back (she didn't...normally she does, since I've tried to call once or twice when she had work and I didn't know her work schedule) :box: . She also told me she has to cover a shift tomorrow (she went into detail too about how some co-worker threw a tantrum and asked her to cover for a few hours, etc.) and two of her best friends are returning, but that I was "more than welcome" to go hang out with them (I guess it could work, but I'd feel awkward with two of her best friends there with her).
So, in short, I am very confused. I've been getting good vibes from her lately and it appears she's interested - I mean she usually calls and seems as if she really wants to see me, but who really knows. It seems she's being honest about her schedule, and she has asked me to hang out although no plans have really been made yet. However, I don't know what my next move should be. Any help here is appreciated.
I'll keep this background short, but I feel it's important to provide it. I've seen this girl twice ever - I met her at a party towards the end of last school year and then I ran into her the next day and we talked for a few minutes. I must have made some impression in those 2-3 minutes total...
...because in mid-July, she asks me for my # via a Facebook message (may have been sent to a few people, who knows). I didn't really know her, but I figured I had nothing to lose, slipped her the # and asked how her summer was going. This snowballed into us keeping in touch often, and she said she was "really looking forward" to seeing me when I'm back at school. She (and a friend or two) took a trip to a major city I live close to a couple weeks ago and contacted me about possibly meeting up, but I wasn't around so unfortunately I couldn't.
Anyway, I'm back at school and we have called/talked. She's had to cover a few shifts at her work lately so I got a nice little phone call at 1:30am, as she was leaving her job. We talked for a few minutes, and she told me what days during the week she's normally free. She also said we could hang out the following night, either at a bar or at a apartment (I think it was a frat) of a guy she knows.
Today, she apparently decides she's going to play games. I got a call later in the evening from her, she just finished dinner with a bunch of her girlfriends and was on her way back to campus (she told me the place too and where it was located lol). She had a few ideas about how we could hang out tonight (she'd be with a few of her friends too of course) and ASKS ME which I prefer! :nervous: I normally can make a decision here, but because it involves her friends (who I haven't met), I came up with the smooth line of, "whichever of those things you want to do most is fine, all that matters to me is that I can hang out with you
). She said she'll talk to a few of her girl friends and call me back (she didn't...normally she does, since I've tried to call once or twice when she had work and I didn't know her work schedule) :box: . She also told me she has to cover a shift tomorrow (she went into detail too about how some co-worker threw a tantrum and asked her to cover for a few hours, etc.) and two of her best friends are returning, but that I was "more than welcome" to go hang out with them (I guess it could work, but I'd feel awkward with two of her best friends there with her).So, in short, I am very confused. I've been getting good vibes from her lately and it appears she's interested - I mean she usually calls and seems as if she really wants to see me, but who really knows. It seems she's being honest about her schedule, and she has asked me to hang out although no plans have really been made yet. However, I don't know what my next move should be. Any help here is appreciated.
