Frustrated of being an lonley AFC, I got a whole bunch of ebooks the one day. DJ Bible, Without Embarrassment by Michael Pilinski, Carlos Xuma stuff, How to become an alpha Male by John Alexander.

Now I know why the new DJ Bible PDF is recommended so much. It's really all you need and much better to just stick with it instead of heeding the advice of 5 other books. You're just cramming your head with so much information from so many different books they you lose track. Obviously if you want to do be a pickup artist, you need to read other material.

But for the guys like me who just want to not be so shy and afraid of woman and have no intentions of being a PUA, isn't much better to just stick with the DJ Bible? Concentrate on ONE book instead of reading 6-7 of them?

I'm sure there's a ton of other guys like me who picked up all these ebooks to get maximum material, when all they need is the bible and get out of the house.

Razor,
there's no difference if you stick to one book or method, or you take a bunch of them in.
And honestly, no one will shoot you or threaten you if you feel like reading just whatever the fvck you feel like reading.

I say, dont limit the amount of information by quantity, look at the Quality and then decide if you want to invest your time in it or not.

Read as much as you like to get a good grasp of the things YOU want in your life.
And incorporate them and integrate them at YOUR speed.

Life is for living.
It's not all some continuous 'test'.
You live AND learn.
So read and inform yourself, and go out and have fun.
All men have to find their own personal balance of street smarts and book smarts.

And the most successful men, in any field really, all have informing themselves about the subject and integrating the principles as a common theme.
Dont be the KDJ. Go out and experience life.

And dont place too much importance on certain external aspects of life.

Dont let people play games with your heart and head, man.
Your peace of mind is valueable, respect it.

I recommend David Deangelo's Deep Inner Game and On Being a Man.

And David Deida's Way of the Superior Man.
And Eckahrt Tolle's The Power of Now.

Remember, that the majority of most guys' issues are at heart their lack of or a very weak and vague concept of masculinity, and lack of the inherent traits...not the 'perfect pickup line'.
Work on being the MAN YOU want to Be.
Not some dude who has a goofy pickup line.
That means Character and Personality.


Good luck.

I think your probably right. I haven't been on this site for very long, but long enough to see that the majority of it is about self improvement and bettering yourself. I'd rather succeed in that than becoming the world's best PUA.

Trying to take in as much knowledge as possible is understandable when one wants to change the results from what they've been getting. I think you were spot on in your post though, sticking with the bible because it's full of great insight, but more importantly, and getting out of the house is the best choice you could ever make.

Bump.....

I like to think of the DJB as more of a reference. It isn't one book. It's MANY small references that help you at certain times in your life.

The difference between DJs and PUAs is that PUAs shape their goals around women, while DJs shape their goals around themselves, while attracting women at the same time.

As Int said, read whatever you want. However, remember there are different schools of thought for everything.

You want to ask yourself; Do I want to read from someone who has shaped his whole life around attracting women, or do I want to read from somebody who has shaped his life around being successful and in turn attracts a lot of the time, MORE women.

There are tons of little tips and tricks to picking up women, but the true value of yourself to another woman lies in your inner-self. And there are no tips or lessons for this. Just action.

I honestly think the DJ Bible needs some reworkings. I think there is better stuff out there, but it is def worth a read. The DJBible is overrated imo. But i give it credit for getting me out there to approach after having social anxiety.

The bootcamp is good, but i think it should also mention of scenarios of how girls act and wat to expect and what not.

I mean Pook's stuff is good...but it won't do jack sh1t unless u deep down have belief in the long term. A guy can feel pumped up and excited in the short run, but won't do him jack when he has to put in the commitment.

I think the bible should be a little more condensed. Some stuff can be do-ed away with while more better new stuff, added.