It's never been part of my game to directly suggest to a chick that we get sexually intimate, so I cannot answer my own question. Has anyone been direct with a woman(a hot one of course) they just met and suggested getting sexually intimate with them? You know, just cut to the chase, "Why don't we sleep together", no beating around the bush bullsh*t? If so, how did it go? I'd like to hear your experiences, if you have any. I was thinking, if you portray yourself as an all around confident guy, especially when you suggest this to her, it could work.

I've done it at least half a dozen times, and had about a 95 percent yes reaction.

Tried it recently and got turned down because I was trying to get myself out of the friend zone...

Rejection is better than regret so I'm glad I went for it in this case but it's no longer my favorite approach, but since I've had positive results in the past I might try it again.

In some ways it's like kiss timing- you know or sense when the right time is.

I've also noticed just getting physical works much better. The only time I've verbalized my intentions were after make out sessions. It's easier to get them to be responsive after getting them hot and wet.

Most times I've gotten sex within a few days this way with different women. Just be aggressive with showing her physically how much you're into her and never apologize if she responds negatively. Just brush it off and do something else like watch tv or strike up a different conversation while maintaining subtle touches.

Hello Edger,
Both Juando and Danger are on the money for different circumstances...look if they are going to behave like ruptured Virgins they have their reaction sorted out,long before you get to do the evil deed...In the field Danger has the way,just push on and close with them,if you get them back to your place they are Putty in your hands...Don't judge them by what they say but how they behave...when they are hot,they are out of control tell them this thing is bigger than both of us,I have never ever met a Woman like you....once you have unzipped the dress and unhooked the bra or slid your hand between their legs they are yours in the hazy World of Cyber Sex well the failure rate is greater I generally say Honey we have so much in common,I want to talk to you,across a pillow lets have a fling...in a rather protracted correspondence I suggested we meet at a Holiday venue,said I was a believer in safe sex had been tested etc the thing is to give them the Idea that Sex is on the agenda,to get serious,as Danger suggests the dropout ratio is small...many of these cyber gals have been faffing around for years.....

I met this woman once in the subway system. I have seen her before and I have noticed she looking at me. She was married and extremely sexy.

Anyway, at the time she approached me and gave me her business card with a "funny" little comment that she scribbled in the back then went back to her sit. I smiled and took one of mine and wrote my own comment on the back of the card and gave it to her. Then went back to my sit. We did not talk or even look at each other again.

She emailed me (at work) the next morning with a one-liner. So, I called her (that's the first time we actually said a word to each other). After sharing pleasantries about the transportation system...our relationships (at the time)...and she telling me I was attractive...I went straight up and asked her what she wanted. She was cautious and hesitant, so I followed up by stating that we are both adults and understood the risks and consequences and pretty much told her I wanted to phuck her (not that blunt...but almost as blunt). I also told her I was not going to judge her for whatever action she decided to take. After that she felt relaxed and we came up with a plan and date where she could come to my place.

That's one of several experiences I can share on this issue. It worked with me in this case.

I have also been more conservative in other cases with other women and have not straight up told them...have simply seduced them.