An MPUA suggested me this..if you are going out with a girl and you cant control your frame(like she gives you a **** test) and end up screwing yourself and looking like an idiot..he says model your idol..it can be anyone you look up to that is good with women..follow his body language, communication style and everything you can relate to..however i'm wondering until when should i model him? what do you think?

i personally do this alot. If Im ever nervous or unsure what to do, i just model someone that I view as a role model. At the same time, as pook said, "imitation is suicide", so i guess your screwing yourself out of experience but i personally prefer this way

thanks

dice said:

iAt the same time, as pook said, "imitation is suicide", so i guess your screwing yourself out of experience but i personally prefer this way

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Pook was quoting Emerson, and the original line was, "There comes a time in every man's education where HE comes to realize that imitation is suicide." if you're not there yet and don't understand it, don't worry about it. Emerson also said, "All life is an experiment." so figure it out for yourself.

Another saying is 'fake it till ya make it'. Keep pretending to be somebody and eventually you'll see why that personality works and you'll understand things better.

thanks guys..what if you model someone you know for some time and you know his bad side too..you want to copy his good traits only right? how do you do that in front of that person? what do you think about visualizing that person?just creating an image of him or a video-like?

another thing i have a close friend and i feel like i was depending too much on him before and now were not so close because i feel like i want to have my own life and i think he doesnt really like it that i'm doing this and he feels that i forgot about him..yeah i agree i rely too much on him before maybe thats why?