Ok I am moderatly inexperienced when it comes to sex. I am dating a girl that is more experience than me and I can warm her up real good during foreplay, but when it comes to intercourse it's a problem. She says she doesn't like it because instead of an escalating thing that leads to orgasm, it feels more like a frusturating up and down feeling.

I honestly don't know how to fix this and no other girls have had this problem with me. I am thinking about going slower and maybe that would work? She also used to have a piercing down there but it's out now and not as sensative so maybe that could be a factor. I feel like a huge loser though because I can't please this girl. Any tips? Everytime I search the net it's all about foreplay.

50% of turning on a woman is confidence. You can be a virgin and still with a little confidence, turn a woman on.

I remember when I lost my V-card to the school slut back in 8th grade, I had no idea what I was doing. However, she didn't even know I was a virgin because I acted like I knew what I was doing.

Take time with your girl and learn what she likes. Don't get it twisted, sex isn't always smooth the first few times with someone you are dating, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. Worrying leads to a drop in sexual confidence, which you don't need.

Take these first few times of sex with this woman in stride. Chances are that within a month or so you'll have no problem pleasing her after you learn what turns her on.

A few tips?
-Don't do the same thing all the time.. major turn off
-Don't DO IT in the same place all the time
-Don't be so desperate for sex. Your woman should be craving it just as much if not more than you.
-Throw new positions in frequently
-Different strokes = Different feelings.. you'll get to know what I mean
-Don't give it to her so quickly when she wants it.. women who grow impatient during sex are usually the most turned on

Bottom line, don't sweat it. I doubt this will be your last girlfriend. Have fun learning. If your chick is telling you that you're not pleasing her, don't take offense. A man should never feel insecure about himself because of sex. We are men and want sex but DON'T need it. As long as you present yourself this way to your woman, then theres a good chance that she'll be more patient sexually. It sounds to be like you just started dating. Don't get into the habit of feeling like you have to please her, or she will expect it throughout the rest of the relationship. Remember, you are the prize and she should be thankful to have sex with someone like you.

SamMalone said:

Ok I am moderatly inexperienced when it comes to sex. I am dating a girl that is more experience than me and I can warm her up real good during foreplay, but when it comes to intercourse it's a problem. She says she doesn't like it because instead of an escalating thing that leads to orgasm, it feels more like a frusturating up and down feeling.

I honestly don't know how to fix this and no other girls have had this problem with me. I am thinking about going slower and maybe that would work? She also used to have a piercing down there but it's out now and not as sensative so maybe that could be a factor. I feel like a huge loser though because I can't please this girl. Any tips? Everytime I search the net it's all about foreplay.

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Ok, if she had a peircing down there. She could loose the feelings down there. Only if they peirce the cl!t or fvck up on the peircing. Hopefully, for her sake that is not the problem...

When, your fvcking her missionary. The patch of skin between your d!ck and belly button should be rubbing against her Cl!t. Real sex is up close not, porn star sh!t. Yeah, when you get it down you can fvck like porn stars do and make her cvm.. Anyways, like WC2 said, switch things up. In the bible there is a good thread about keeping the sex good. Read that if you haven't

Lack of sexual attraction I am not sure how you can solve it.. Maybe hit da gym and buff up.. try being more confident an rough with her...

SamMalone said:

. She says she doesn't like it because instead of an escalating thing that leads to orgasm, it feels more like a frusturating up and down feeling.

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What position is this?

^^^One that does not work for her...LOL

Thanks Don but no. I'm already buff and she has actually told me the only reason she came over the first time was because she was sextually attracted to me and not even my personality.

She prefers being on top now because it's better for her because she can control it. The escalating up and down comes from missionary positition. We do doggy as well but I don't think that's the problem.