“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you say after you've opened ?

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mackdaddy27

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Guys,

The part of the game that i have problem with I can open ,

basically i use anything to open, but I am not sure what to say

next. What to talk about , besides the usually where you from etc?

I always end up with those questions anyway what do you do ..

I am trying to try talking about her likes/dislikes and make funny of her..etc

what suggestions do you guys have?

Thanks.
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
Guys,

The part of the game that i have problem with I can open ,

basically i use anything to open, but I am not sure what to say

next. What to talk about , besides the usually where you from etc?

I always end up with those questions anyway what do you do ..

I am trying to try talking about her likes/dislikes and make funny of her..etc

what suggestions do you guys have?

Thanks.
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How are you a senior Don Juan? you have newbie questions. But no disrespect, here is what you do:

Instead of trying to get to know her - "what do you do etc".. Demonstrate YOUR personality first.

So after opening, here are your options:

1. Bust on her for something funny that you might notice.
2. Ask open ended questions - what do think of this city/college/major/anything..
3. Go into a value demonstrating story. Or just keep discussing general stuff which will let her understand your personality more... and keep pumping buying temperature by being playful (there a lot of ideas out there)

I do this without alteration - gets immediate attraction:
After OPENER:
Transitioning:
"you are not from this college are you?"
"really..? whats your major?"
"Wow.. that is a good major.. Respect" (KINO with a punch or Hi-5)

So you see I am giving value, rather than taking it.
 
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daygameguy said:
How are you a senior Don Juan? you have newbie questions. But no disrespect, here is what you do:

Instead of trying to get to know her - "what do you do etc".. Demonstrate YOUR personality first.

So after opening, here are your options:

1. Bust on her for something funny that you might notice.
2. Ask open ended questions - what do think of this city/college/major/anything..
3. Go into a value demonstrating story. Or just keep discussing general stuff which will let her understand your personality more... and keep pumping buying temperature by being playful (there a lot of ideas out there)

I do this without alteration - gets immediate attraction:
After OPENER:
Transitioning:
"you are not from this college are you?"
"really..? whats your major?"
"Wow.. that is a good major.. Respect" (KINO with a punch or Hi-5)

So you see I am giving value, rather than taking it.
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excellent post dude ..you really know the game...

I guess, the general consensus is to get her talkig emotionality

funny busting , ****y funny, role playing etc. ,asking her about what she likes ,what she thinks about the location,being playful

your demostrating frame, by being the judge of her in your post.

I know its a newbie question, but thats the one thing i need to work on , if I get this done, i am literally inches from ****ing girls every day.
 
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Learn how to tell good stories. Do a research on DHVs. Or you can also throw a time constraint and ask for her #. Then get the F out
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Be giving, cuz YOU are the cool higher value guy, she still has to win you over.
 
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I keep it short and sweet on the first meeting and close for the # ASAP. If I'm at a club or bar and I'm trying to get laid that night, I just talk about whatever comes to mind, even if some might view it as offensive or brash. Your internal monologue will do nothing but hamper your game; let your id reign.
 
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Ask some questions that spike her emotions. Don't be predictable or ask interview questions. Throw off the wall questions at her.

Examples:
Hey, did you ever play freezeout? Did you win? I bet your nipples got hard.

Hey, what was your last boyfriend's name? What did you like about him? Wait, I really don't care. So, have you ever made out in a club?

Or you could lean over and whisper to her that she has a bugger hanging (I love this one).

Introduce her to some random person as your wife. If she plays along, you'll be spiking her emotions. She'll be having fun acting like she's your wife. She'll have fun with that one, but you have to dictate most of the little game.

No matter what you do, you have to have a stronger reality. You are inviting her into your realm, and don't let her think you want to be in her realm.
 
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Mavrick said:
Ask some questions that spike her emotions. Don't be predictable or ask interview questions. Throw off the wall questions at her.

Examples:
Hey, did you ever play freezeout? Did you win? I bet your nipples got hard.

Hey, what was your last boyfriend's name? What did you like about him? Wait, I really don't care. So, have you ever made out in a club?

Or you could lean over and whisper to her that she has a bugger hanging (I love this one).

Introduce her to some random person as your wife. If she plays along, you'll be spiking her emotions. She'll be having fun acting like she's your wife. She'll have fun with that one, but you have to dictate most of the little game.

No matter what you do, you have to have a stronger reality. You are inviting her into your realm, and don't let her think you want to be in her realm.
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I agree. You cannot write your pick up on a piece of paper. You have to improvise along with some canned stuff ready to go.

The way you get them hooked is you pull them into YOUR world, which of course you make interesting and fun using your "game".
 
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