Rejoice!
And be glad! All those frustrations, all those hesitations, the nervousness, the burning, the butterflies of unease, the confusions, and the errors that manifest itself when your mind says "Do this" and your body and personality do not follow- all of these can be washed away... forever.
Yes, you thought yourself ignorant about women, so inexperienced, so confused, and you just seemed to be following an evil circle. Maybe you were like me, a super mega dork who slept through life until now. And, perhaps like I did, you read and reread all material on women and life you could get your hands on.
But what if I told you that you were always a Don Juan at one point in time? And I do not mean in a specific situation or hour, I mean at one point in your life you KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT WOMEN and handled them WITH PERFECT EASE, so perfect that it was 100% NATURAL and if anyone told you to view a website or books for 'information' you would laugh yourself silly!
Well, well, pook, I do remember. The pieces fall into place, looking at my own childhood. There were no pedestals. There was just fun.
You had one eternal enemy in childhood, boredom. Like a void, it encroached on you in school, ensnared you with a stupid trip with the parents, and enveloped you as you stepped on the school bus. You embraced every chance for play.
If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace your youth and live again for the first time.
Being a fun guy is being an exciting guy. And if you have fun, she has fun, because as you feel, she feels!
The Nice Guy kept trying to EXPRESS his emotions through our language. Flowers, poetry, declarations of love, and so on.
The player kept trying to CREATE INTEREST by doing things like kino, mirroring, eliciting values, and so on. He is just trying to get her to feel something and put a mirror to it, so it reflects to her. The player is providing mental masturbation in hopes she uses him as a boy toy for physical masturbation.
But the Don Juan is already full of joy and the emotions carry over to the women via ********.
Remember, what YOU feel, SHE feels. She will ALWAYS be trying to FEEL you.
If you feel frustrated, she feels frustrated.
If you feel despair, she feels despair.
If you feel happy, she feels happy.
If you feel playful, she feels playful.
If you feel horny, well… It has been shown that male lust turns women on.
This is why the focus must be on you. As you think, YOU shall become. But as you feel, so shall she feel. Women cannot love a wall, so they want to knock it down.
So connect! Get that feeling of joy in your world AND LET IT OUT. Let it live in your walk, let it live in your speech, let it live in your eyes. The sexiest thing a man can do is SMILE. But smile not with just your lips, smile with your eyes, smile in your walk, smile with your talk.
Where I live, they have a big indoor playground for kids 4 to 10 years old were you can ride little cars, climb over barriers, jump on a trampoline and stuff like that. Once every month however, they close it for kids and open it for adults.
So one of my friends suggested going there and we did. What a great night! Haven’t had so much fun in a while and at the same time all those childhood memories came back.
What I also noticed was that everything worked out so well with other people. You know those nights when you go out and everything just seems to work for you? You are having such a great time, you are on top of your game.
I found that those situations are created by yourself having a good time, having a lot of fun! This holds true for everything in life.
Focus on having fun then on avoiding the pain of rejection or loneliness. The carrot is more attractive to her then the stick.
Quit taking this so seriously! These are GIRLS. GIRLS! What are they going to do to you? Beat you up?
You like having fun, right? Then do it! Be playful. Be crazy. Do what makes YOU have fun, and see if she'll go along for the ride.
No more nervousness! No more shyness! Those originate in you worrying how you will be percieved. Rather, everything is in how you percieve yourself.
This makes the difference.
This is why action dates are great. But what really kills the fun is us worrying about acting right.
Ooh la la! That is my philosophy! Let it be written in the sky, written in the stars, so your mind will wash away those old toxic analyzations.
Ooh la la! And this is our mission and destiny. Some people have so confused the easy life and the hard life as to think that the path of security of walking on eggshells throughout life will make their life easier. But it is when you throw yourself into the fire that you learn everything.
Analyzations, good-bye! And self-doubt, farewell! No glory lives on the back of such. And Don Juan, dream on. Life awaits!
Ooh la la! Come sirs, drink this tonic I am handing you. No more doubts, no more 'what ifs', no more stupid suspicion of whether she is 'manipulating' us or not. Drink, drink, and put it down the hatch!
Our own education has brainwashed us! We think: Now, we are adults, we aren’t supposed to make mistakes anymore, aren’t we? We think that our life is boring so we are looking for excitement, but we end up with drama that we secretly like because it makes life more exciting. Do this no more!
Forget about all those Don Juan techniques when you approach her!
Alas! Whenever the young man approached a woman, a thousand Don Juan philosophies came to thwart his peace. All these IDEAS clogged his action!
Then he remembered how AWESOME he was with women when he was a little kid. He was always the Don Juan of the sandbox.
He wondered, “Have women really CHANGED?” No, only in his mind. At heart, women are still little girls. So when he saw the luscious babe sitting there, he smiled and saw a bored little girl looking for fun. He would make fun of her, do physical action things with her, take her by the hand to lead her somewhere, and she thought he was the perfect guy.
“I understand now the source of ****y and Funny…” he smiled..
“Charm is treating women like little girls.”
C+F is not a technique, but rather a mindset of having fun and being confident.
When you are with a woman and a thousand Don Juan philosophies and tactics come to thwart your peace, remember the kid that you were... and how he looked on life. Yes, she might be a twenty-something vixen. But underneath those milk-sacs and fat deposits that drive your chemicals mad, is a little girl. Rather than being nervous about some date, view the date as if you were seven years old. Everything becomes simple and fun (as it should be!).
One thing is for certain, women go NUTS over a guy who keeps his boyhood charm as women want an ESCAPE. They do not want to hear your views on the world. They want to have the happiness and fun of their childhood back (as everyone does!). They will FIGHT for the rare men who truly live like this (this also explains the mystery why uneducated men often seem to do BETTER with women than many men with PhDs who are so 'smart' they intellectualized life out of existence).
What more can I say? It is the downfall of the philosopher, who thinks life out of existence. We heard it before, love is not rocket-science, even though rocket-science really isn’t that difficult
It’s the child that discovers the world by trying out stuff and running around. It’s the AFC who tries to discover love by endlessly thinking about it and running a simulation inside his head. This is obviously not connected to nature.
So in the end, have fun! You don’t even realize how interesting life can be, how interesting the world is. Look around, there are so many things to discover, if we could just break one routine. Pay attention and you’ll get more information than everyone else. Right now I am looking out my window into our garden, watching the tree in front of our car, hiding it. I never thought about it, but this already tells anyone that my mother is in charge of the garden, because my father likes cars, and she thinks it destroy the garden atmosphere. Ha!
I don’t know what you’ll do, but I’ll be gone in a few days, going on beach vacation and guess what? Having fun
Boredom is where all evils enter the world. And when a person is bored, he is bored with himself. Interesting people, in their daily lives, are never bored as they find everything interesting.
