Here’s something simple I do that seems to work and increase the chances of you getting a number.
Most guys say something along the lines of “so uh can I get your number?”
This sets her up to easily say no and puts her in control.
Here’s what I do:
“Give me your number” and I hand her the phone.
Simple. Right? It’s great for two reasons. First it keeps you in control, you are leading and telling her what to do. Second it makes it a lot harder to reject you and if the phone is in her hand she is more likely to just do it. She doesn’t get time to think about it. Of course you should put it in context and everything else.
Hey it works for me, I don’t know who else does this but must guys just seem to ask. Of course the most important thing is a solid interaction to start with. There’s no point getting her number if she isn’t really interested and is going to flake. I’ll leave that bit up to you
Most guys say something along the lines of “so uh can I get your number?”
This sets her up to easily say no and puts her in control.
Here’s what I do:
“Give me your number” and I hand her the phone.
Simple. Right? It’s great for two reasons. First it keeps you in control, you are leading and telling her what to do. Second it makes it a lot harder to reject you and if the phone is in her hand she is more likely to just do it. She doesn’t get time to think about it. Of course you should put it in context and everything else.
Hey it works for me, I don’t know who else does this but must guys just seem to ask. Of course the most important thing is a solid interaction to start with. There’s no point getting her number if she isn’t really interested and is going to flake. I’ll leave that bit up to you