I always wondered: What is the best way to progress as a Don Juan? There seemed to be so many aspects I had to change or work on that sometimes it is easy to loose sight of the picture.
So here I am, going to share a strategie with you, that will lift your DJ-level from bottom to top in a short time. This is however not the end of your journey. Those are mainpoints, easy to achive yet effective and a good foundation to build on.
So what is the most important aspect an aspriring Dj has to achive? And what is at the same time effective?
Three mainpoints:
- Mindset
- Conversation
- Kino
By working on the most important aspects in these three categories at the same time and not loosing sight of the big picture you are going to experience fast progress. Let's take a look at what I am exactly talking about:
MINDSET
Pook said: Kill that desperation! And this really is it, read his post and you are going to have anything you need at this point. Think of yourself as The Great Catch and it becomes a self fullfilling prophecy. Keypoint here is to alway conciously maintain this mindset while you are making your progress. Also, treat all people the same, there is no special treatment for HBs.
CONVERSATION
"Conversation for maximum attraction" is a really good article. Keypoints are to make her talk a lot, ask questions, make me-too statements etc. Now that we treat everyone the same, here comes the key to your fast progress: I don't care who you are talking to in the next weeks, be it you mother, your brother, an old woman on a bench, the busdriver, the kid in the super market, your friend or an HB. You are always going to converse for maximun attraction. These techniques makes everyone talk a lot about themselves and they are all going to like you at the same time. You are going to learn a lot about people and at the same time practice, practice, practice, so when this HB8 walks around the corner, you'll not just have the reputation of a good conversationalist, but you automatically do the right things.
KINO
Again, since we treat all people the same, kino everyone!
"WTF???"
Alright, I am not talking about sexual kino. I am talking about gesturing, touching people on the arm or shoulder while talking. This basic kino should flow with your conversation and be automatic. It reinforces this feeling of being at ease with you, this feeling of comfort in EVERYONE.
If you talk to an HB, you can carry the kino further if you like to.
Now, if all of this isn't enough for you, try to speak with a strong and deep voice all the time.
So lets sum it up: Think of youself as the great catch and kill that desperation and treat all people the same. Converse with everyone for maximum attraction and do basic kino with everyone.
This is the fastest way to see good improvements that I know, at least for newbys. Try not to apply more until you are really good at these things because I found trying to apply too much at the same time is going to make everything almost worthless.
Have fun!
So here I am, going to share a strategie with you, that will lift your DJ-level from bottom to top in a short time. This is however not the end of your journey. Those are mainpoints, easy to achive yet effective and a good foundation to build on.
So what is the most important aspect an aspriring Dj has to achive? And what is at the same time effective?
Three mainpoints:
- Mindset
- Conversation
- Kino
By working on the most important aspects in these three categories at the same time and not loosing sight of the big picture you are going to experience fast progress. Let's take a look at what I am exactly talking about:
MINDSET
Pook said: Kill that desperation! And this really is it, read his post and you are going to have anything you need at this point. Think of yourself as The Great Catch and it becomes a self fullfilling prophecy. Keypoint here is to alway conciously maintain this mindset while you are making your progress. Also, treat all people the same, there is no special treatment for HBs.
CONVERSATION
"Conversation for maximum attraction" is a really good article. Keypoints are to make her talk a lot, ask questions, make me-too statements etc. Now that we treat everyone the same, here comes the key to your fast progress: I don't care who you are talking to in the next weeks, be it you mother, your brother, an old woman on a bench, the busdriver, the kid in the super market, your friend or an HB. You are always going to converse for maximun attraction. These techniques makes everyone talk a lot about themselves and they are all going to like you at the same time. You are going to learn a lot about people and at the same time practice, practice, practice, so when this HB8 walks around the corner, you'll not just have the reputation of a good conversationalist, but you automatically do the right things.
KINO
Again, since we treat all people the same, kino everyone!
"WTF???"
Alright, I am not talking about sexual kino. I am talking about gesturing, touching people on the arm or shoulder while talking. This basic kino should flow with your conversation and be automatic. It reinforces this feeling of being at ease with you, this feeling of comfort in EVERYONE.
If you talk to an HB, you can carry the kino further if you like to.
Now, if all of this isn't enough for you, try to speak with a strong and deep voice all the time.
So lets sum it up: Think of youself as the great catch and kill that desperation and treat all people the same. Converse with everyone for maximum attraction and do basic kino with everyone.
This is the fastest way to see good improvements that I know, at least for newbys. Try not to apply more until you are really good at these things because I found trying to apply too much at the same time is going to make everything almost worthless.
Have fun!
