“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stopping trying to impress her!

Neg

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Whilst on this forum, I have been noticing a reoccurring theme in many of the threads here. This is “How do I impress her”.
(I have noticed a few others but I’ll stick to this as I feel it is the most important)

If we are all Don Juan then we should not have to impress anyone, they should impress us!

However this mindset of they should impress us seem to be a hard one for many Don Juans to grasp.
Why is this?

Any answers…….?

Well….there is two reasons I can think of.

One is that, change seems to be difficult for many individual. The human mind likes routine and dislikes change. This dislike for change prevents them bettering themselves.

The key to overcoming this is simply self determination and motivation.

The other reason is that they don’t see any value in themselves. Therefore they must prove themselves worthy of her love. Such a mindset is poison to anyone.

If you don’t see any value in yourself, why would anyone else?

Why would she (or anyone for that many) want to dedicate their time for you?

Well, do not fear if this is you, as there is a way to rid yourself of such a destructive mindset.
That is to become the great catch. As the great catch you are so god damn amazing that you no longer need to impress that one amazing girl you were chasing for years, rather she needs to impress you as now you have many amazing girls after you.

Check “Kill that desperation” by Pook for more information on becoming the great catch

“Hold on one sec, I have heard this before. Why are you repeating what has already been mentioned to us many times before?” a Don Juan shouts out

Why…..Because I feel that this message should be repeated many times until everyone understand just how important it is to not only getting women but to enjoying life itself.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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brilliant. i believe most of us are all works-in-progress here. its hard, but im sure all of us will get there soon! :)
 

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Neg said:
If you don’t see any value in yourself, why would anyone else?

Why would she (or anyone for that many) want to dedicate their time for you?

This is the big one for me. I've used to value myself at one time, but wasn't even aware I was doing it. Now that am trying to build value in myself (via goals, etc.), I'm having a hard a time as ever. It's clear that girls don't value me sometimes because I'm never happy with myself, no matter how high up the ladder I get or how fast I improve myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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