I know . Most of you shake when it comes approaching womens . I shake too . Everyone shakes . Everyone have approach anxiety . Just some people know how to use it better , how to take advantage of it .

And we all know , approaching like crazy robot is going to improve your game alot . So , lets do this , and have fun doing it .

A little story :

I used to set myself 2 days in the week to approach . And most of the times it was very stressful . I used to think of it all night .

But one day , i told one of my friends about all this seduction thing . He was so interested and thenkfull . So we started doing things together . And we had a lot of fun doing them .



So , im trying to tell you something . FIND A WING . A guy with same interests as you , that is interested steping out of comfort zone and doing some stuff that is going to change his life .

Than use these methods


Method 1 : MONEY MAKER ( credit:RSDNATION )

Get a jar . For each rejection put $5 dollars . For each successful approach put 3$ . And open it at the end of the year . Youll have a lot of money .

Method 2 : GETTING YOUR MONEY BACK ( credit:MYSTERY )

Give your wing $200 dollars . And after each approach he is going to give you $10 dollars back . If you dont do the approach , he will keep 5 dollars for himself.

Method 3 : Filming

Tell your wing to record you with video camera doing approaches . They can be very funny sometimes

Method 4 : Each other

Choose any opener you want for your wing . Any type of opener . And just wait and see reactions . Priceless . But , be careful . He's going to choose one for you too .

Method 5 : Set yourself a number ( credit:TD )

As title said , set yourself a number . The number of approaches you're going to do . I doesnt matter if its 3 or 100 . Just set it . And you are going to do them no matter what .


Thats it guys . Dont take it too seriously . Find some other ways to have fun doing this . Peace

And dont forget . Some sticking points before approaching .

Look best of yourself before going out . Its going to give you more confidence

• Memorize 5-6 openers
• Use 3 second rule which means approaching target within 3 seconds of seeing her .
• Use false time constrain
• Tease
• Neg
• Demostrate higher value (through stories , routines , magic tricks , accessories , items ) - prepare before going out

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I wanted to bump this sh1t and add another way .

Its similar to " Method 4 : EACH OTHER " .

One day you are the boss , one day your wing is the boss . Give each other missions on approaching sets in different ways .

Make him do some crazy weird sh1t . He'll make you too . Great way to get out of comfort zone , approach "because its your job " .

Give it a try

Some solid approach advice here,

Might I also add that I had the routine of going out once a week to a mall a few towns over with one of my wings and each week it was REALLY stressful. Some days you feel like a sex god with unlimited social power, those are the days you open huge groups, girls with their moms, HB10's etc. Other days your afraid to open your mouth, look for any and every excuse to leave the obligation, and just plain feel lousy.

The key is to not designate days of the week or hours spent walking around a mall looking for girls to "approach". You must impliment a lifestyle change wherever you go otherwise IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK. I did that for about a year and saw no improvement, and it was hell going out each week. Like jumping into a cold pool. You have to chat up girls everyday. At least try.

The guys who get really good go through a period where they spend 6 days a week going out and practicing. And even when you get to a really good level some of the highest know lay closes are like 1/10 approaches. So you can see from this perspective how much approaching is needed to get good. But if you're not lazy and want a truly rewarding future it's well worth it.

I like the wing idea and especially method #4. Guys are competitive and this is probably one good way to get over the hump of approaching women...

good post. good ideas.

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This is awesome man. I wish I had seen this sooner.

Furyguy said:

This is awesome man. I wish I had seen this sooner.

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Lol glad you liked it . I wrote this months ago . I used to do these tricks to make approaching more fun . Now , its funny to see how I NEED to approach everywhere . Now if i dont approach , ill feel AFC . This is the way i put myself on state .

Daddy The Pimp said:

And dont forget . Some sticking points before approaching .

Look best of yourself before going out . Its going to give you more confidence

• Memorize 5-6 openers
• Use 3 second rule which means approaching target within 3 seconds of seeing her .
• Use false time constrain
• Tease
• Neg
• Demostrate higher value (through stories , routines , magic tricks , accessories , items ) - prepare before going out

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Lol and i dont use these things anymore . Scripted game sucks . Natural kicks ass :rockon: