There is one thing I have learned while starting out. It's better to go wth a Guinea Pig and try new things then someone your interested in. Who's makes a good Guinea Pig you ask. That girl down the street, across the way, at work in another dept., or female friend who you aren't really attracted to who may like you a bit or is neutral. For instance a girl that works on the opposite side of the building as me, I can see she likes me a bit. She was trying to act, indifferent or something all of a sudden the other day. I kinda mocked what she said as i was walking slightly ahead of her. When we got to a door, I told her "I'll let you hold the door for me". Now the reaction was comical, she stop, looked stunned, laughed, and then held the door. After that she wasn't acting so non-chalant, she went out of her way to speak to me. I tried it out on a girl I kinda liked that was acting kinda dis-interested, it's comical and works pretty good for making you the prize. I have tried out some of the things on this girl I know and have been friends with for +13 years. God looking at least an 8. I had 2 chancs in my life to have sex and blew it with her. Both times we were drunk, one time I found out she was on the rag (Ick!) and once I was too drunk to get it up, bad me! After that things died down. Now this weekend I said "I'm going to come out Sat. and get you out of the house" she tried to say she wasn't sure. I told her "Cool no prob. I got someone else I can go do" (Yes I said it like that a fake freudian slip) She practically tripped over her tongue to retract her previous statment.

Now this being said don't do this with someone who could affect your career, or life, this is supposed to be a no-lose situation to try new things. But it has worked pretty good the last couple of weeks to find out what works and truthfully to feel more like a Man instead of an AFC *****.

BTW as a side note really like the Professional Bachelor's Book especially the profiling section for women. I did like this one girl that I finally told off. I looked up what she was (Survivor) and realized I was wasting time from the get-go. Some women just aren't worth the time and effort.