One may find themselves in a position that isn't satisfactory but must be dealt with. For you see; when one is of Deep Love; we wish to share and be completely open with all that is. To do so; only a Child with no Self-Control; would do so. Those who do similar open themselves to more issues, problems and concerns; a type of Creation of them; in other words. There are always parts of ourselves; we are not meant to share because it is not needed to do so; it's also best not to share because it can be used against us or put us in harm's way also. If we have conversations with Individuals and we are asked to keep it confidential; we are intended to keep that promise if agreed to. It doesn't matter; whether it involves Physical Form matters or Spiritual One's; thusly likewise. Meaning it applies to many matters. If we do not; we are showing a lack of Love; which can be seen as a form of Respect; which in turn builds Trust; which is essential to the entire Family Being. We also may be inflicting un-necessary hardship upon the individual (s) who you do not do so; also doing it upon ourselves too. You cannot solve their problems for them; they must do it themselves; often we cannot even assist in these matters. Realize this. It is just like an obsessive parent; who doesn't wish to let go; so wherever their Child goes off to; they are very close behind. They wish to protect them but it's not protecting; it is hurting them inside. It is like they wish to wipe their butts; though they can do it themselves. So then the Parent gets in the way of everything and doesn't even allow one to live for themselves; choices or decisions are apart of Living. Doesnt matter if its a few instances or a lot; the result is identical. That involves Free Will of Expression and by interfering with such a process; by becoming involved in such matters that aren't even of your need to do so; you are interfering with the Higher Source's Design. You must release; let them flourish and grow themselves; even if what they make; isn't a pleasant decision. If they ask for advice; give it to them but make sure it is on the lines of; non-influencing. For they will get there eventually; if you don't get in the way; if you do; you surely defeat the purpose of them even being here to begin with. It is easy to discern which situation is which; you just need to be patient and not jump the gun. Take as long as possible; if you are confusing yourself or are not sure; then waiting is the best possible option. You cannot expect continual growth by any measures imaginable; if you have not applied the trait of Patience. There are other times when we must keep our Mouths shut; for we are not meant to speak. To do what is best for them; includes keeping your Mouth shut when you are supposed to and not intefering with the process; delaying the overall growth situations. How do you know when to speak or when not to? You ask the Higher Source; this is in relevance to sensitive data or understanding. You feel it out; with a clean Mind. You know when not to; and when to do so. If any sensitive data or understanding is released before a given period of "time" this may impact the harmonic state of flow; that allows for the process of development to go as planned and as smoothly as possible. For one will know which they should not know; just like a Relationship Partner; then they are out pestering that individual or looking for them while not being themselves. Therefore; they alter what is to come immediately. I wish for the best for everyone; but I do not know what is best for them; they know themselves and so does the one who created us all. I cannot fight their battles for them; to do so, they begin to have no need to do their parts. I do not interfere with their situations when they are intended to solve it; for to do so also; results in complete negativity because usually we are not meant to get involved to begin with. Realize if you are given portions in confidentiality and are asked to keep it; this applies to everyone; not just a one individual. Recall not learning as lesson; in this case. If you don't apply the lesson to everything or everyone in this scenario; you have no learned it. If you surely love them and realize that you wish to help; helping would be to keep your mouth shut; unless you feel completely compelled by the Higher Source to Assist. Remember this is not about you; this is about everyone else. If you do not have the compelled factor; then you are not meant to help or share to begin with; if you Love them so; you will let them be and let the problem resolve itself. Come to the Realization of this; seek this within yourself; the answer is there. This concludes the General Synopsis of such an Issue.
Peace be with you All
Peace be with you All
