“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl I'm "seeing" made out with another guy

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Okay, I don't even really know why I'm mad. I'm not dating her. I've only hung out with her like twice, but we hooked it up when we did.. and I've been no innocent angel sense then either. But last night the girl texted me saying she was gonna get drunk, and she wanted to call me drunk, I told her not to waste my time because I would be sleeping. Then I get a text a few hours later from her best friend telling me she's making out with some guy right now, and that she wanted to tell me to be a good friend. I was like whatever, but it still bothered me at the time. Maybe it's the fact this girl is playing me, and I like the one to play all the games. I think that's exactly it. But it's working, and making me kind of like her more. Help, I need to get out of this mindset. Advice from the wise please?
 
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meet and fvck other women.
 
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You've simply got to learn to emotionally disconnect from all chicks you are not going to be involved in a serious relationship with.

Enjoy their company, their time, the hooking up with them but do not attach beyond that.

This way when you reply to a stupid manipulative text message from some
b!tch of a friend you really mean it when you say "whatever" about your hookup buddy getting it on with someother guy.

To help you detach you need to learn to spin more plates and spend time with a different one when another one of them gets under your skin a bit too much and seems to be winning at game's playing with you. In this way you take back your power by removing your attention and time from the chick who was winning at the game's playing. You send the message of fading interest, not being hung up on her and most importantly that you have options and if she is not going to behave well towards you and be submissive to your whims you will indulge in your other options and walk completely away from her or at least keep her at arm's length until she starts treating you better.
 
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That makes a lot of sense. For the longest time that was my state of mind. I remember when I used to get a new girl every weekend. I had that mindset already because my options were much more open, so it was easy to just NGAF.

It just seems that lately my game has been down the drain. I think I need to stop spinning plates of girls who know each other. The past few times, I have been "caught". The girls have found out about each other, and they take it completely wrong. My games been really hurting lately. I've also been running back to the same old FBs because I haven't been getting ass anywhere else. I feel lame. I hope I snap out of this soon. My wingman just F-closed with a ****ing model. He's actually been doing really good lately, it just sucks I can't share any success stories with him these days.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Scars said:
That makes a lot of sense. For the longest time that was my state of mind. I remember when I used to get a new girl every weekend. I had that mindset already because my options were much more open, so it was easy to just NGAF.

It just seems that lately my game has been down the drain. I think I need to stop spinning plates of girls who know each other. The past few times, I have been "caught". The girls have found out about each other, and they take it completely wrong. My games been really hurting lately. I've also been running back to the same old FBs because I haven't been getting ass anywhere else. I feel lame. I hope I snap out of this soon. My wingman just F-closed with a ****ing model. He's actually been doing really good lately, it just sucks I can't share any success stories with him these days.
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Girls like it when you are a player but you have to know how to play them against each other... Always lie about the extent of your interactions with the other girls... believe me women F more players than they do dudes with 1 woman...
 
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Girls like it when you are a player but you have to know how to play them against each other... Always lie about the extent of your interactions with the other girls... believe me women F more players than they do dudes with 1 woman...
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as bad as this sounds, lol it's true. women do F more players than good men

but that's doesn't mean that they like players better.
most women who have had run in's with players often do not know that they are players, and then end up getting screwed in the process

but to the OP

who cares. you're only seeing her. you are not dating so her being with others guys should not be a big deal at all. what she does is her business, and what you do is yours.

only thing that should concern you is her sexual habits, and or past.
 
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most women who have had run in's with players often do not know that they are players, and then end up getting screwed in the process.
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FALSE!!!!!!!!!!!! women are attracted to the very fact that he is a player ... They seldom like a man who was only able to attract 1 woman..
 
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FALSE!!!!!!!!!!!! women are attracted to the very fact that he is a player ... They seldom like a man who was only able to attract 1 woman..
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lol not really

my best friend happens to be a girl. and she has had run in's with players and wannabe players. left them both upon finding out. no one is worth dealing with being dogged and played, especially for a piece of ass

Players are not stupid, they put on the image of being a good, desirable, sexy guy. they hide it. if they didn't they would tell everyone girl they get with that they have recently stuck it into 10 other pvssies.
not to mention whether a guy is a player or not means nothing to a girl looking for a fling. so then that point becomes mute.
 
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"The past few times, I have been "caught". The girls have found out about each other, and they take it completely wrong."

You missed the total point and meaning of Plate Spinning that Rollo laid out.

Which is...

You make it clear to each of these broads that you and she are adults and that she is one of many women you are currently "dating" and if you ever intend to become exclusive with her or any other woman you will let her or the other woman know.

You don't go around hiding that you get with other chicks from her.

Thats where and how guys fail with plate spinning.

They and you are doing it wrong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KontrollerX said:
You've simply got to learn to emotionally disconnect from all chicks you are not going to be involved in a serious relationship with.

Enjoy their company, their time, the hooking up with them but do not attach beyond that.

This way when you reply to a stupid manipulative text message from some
b!tch of a friend you really mean it when you say "whatever" about your hookup buddy getting it on with someother guy.

To help you detach you need to learn to spin more plates and spend time with a different one when another one of them gets under your skin a bit too much and seems to be winning at game's playing with you. In this way you take back your power by removing your attention and time from the chick who was winning at the game's playing. You send the message of fading interest, not being hung up on her and most importantly that you have options and if she is not going to behave well towards you and be submissive to your whims you will indulge in your other options and walk completely away from her or at least keep her at arm's length until she starts treating you better.
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Man Kontroller, you are the smartest person on here. Word up.
 
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this is very simple. she is not your girl so she is able to kiss/f*ck whoever she wants.
 
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I'm with KontrollerX.

She's never yours to begin with, so why are you hung up? You're having what we call Oneitis. It's cool, I get that too, we all do. Hence, the term "spin plates". when you have other options, other things going for you, you have no time to worry about one thing. It's like there are a million things to do and they all need you to focus you attention to. You can't focus on one chick that's playing stupid games. You have better things to do with your time.

If a chick play games, next. you gave her your heart, she disrespect it, someone else gets a chance at it. That's all there is.
 
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DonGorgon said:
FALSE!!!!!!!!!!!! women are attracted to the very fact that he is a player ... They seldom like a man who was only able to attract 1 woman..
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being a player is a huge turnoff for women actually.
even if they get that player vibe from you, they run.
 
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being a player is a huge turnoff for women actually.
even if they get that player vibe from you, they run.
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True and false. Depends on the person actually. If she's a nice girl, obviously, she doesn't want a player. if she's a slut, then she wants a player because after she finishes consuming him she can walk away without fear of any mess and neediness from him when she needs to walk away.
 
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Anyone considered that the friend might like the OP? She may be trying to let him know that her friend is not the right girl for him - which as far as LTRs are concerned, she would be right.

Anyway, if you want to get back at her, you could try phuckin' the friend. And for FSM' sake, please don't get emotionally attached to hors that you've only "seen" twice!
 
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I'll be a **** here. mad propz to me. Another girl from work had the guts to ask for my number and to hangout with her that night infront of the girl who is interested in me. I felt Gold there.
 
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and oh after the girl who asked for my number left, the other walks up to me and whispers "oh, i bet she would want a piece of that"
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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