Approach anxiety is a good thing.

What?!

No really.

I was in a relationship and started getting, you could say, a bit "settled?"

well anyways that ended but there was a end effect of it too.

I lost approach anxiety, or a want to approach at all.

For example, I would see a HB, and think to myself, "hey she's pretty", and that's it. after that thought i would just go on with my day, sometimes I would still go and approach but it wouldn't really feel like I was doing anything and end up bailing too soon because I just didn't care.

Well as you would imagine I didn't really get much done, yeah every now and then I'd interest a girl enough for them to get my #, but it wasn't often.

Fortunately, this spell didn't last too long and I'm starting to feel approach anxiety again, back to step one when I first found out all about this, but I'm hoping to move fast.

So moral of the story? WELCOME That approach anxiety, it's a challenger and over come it