Well I have been reading and reading and kind of took the guess work out of a lot of my game and went out to experiment with what really works well for me.

So I know I had some sort of "game" but I struggled in the bar/club scene. If I could be introduced to someone through a mutual friend, it seemed to put me in a better place. Otherwise I think I just kinda came off weird to a complete stranger.

Long story, good looking bartender...I ask the male bartender about her, he told me a few things but summed it up by saying I was wasting my time. She was hot, but had that "I am female hear me roar" kind of attitude.

I got her out to dance and ask her to come party with my friends after she closes. She said "Hun I don't date men I meet from work"...I started laughing and said "Date?". I could tell she was in shock and it really did hurt her feelings. So to defuse it I twisted her around on the dance floor a few times lol.

After that she was ready to go. She got closed up about 30 minutes later and spent an hour trying to qualify herself as girlfriend material while drinking tequila straight from the bottle. (Yah, right sounds good to me? LOL) I just listened...ended up taking her home. She was still asleep when I went to work, but now that I'm back from lunch I have a big THANK YOU written in lipstick on my freakin bathroom mirror.

perfect example of not really caring what she "says" but more of "how she acts".

and the fact that you let her know that she was jumping the gun with the whole dating thing. it made her more comfortable with you because she knew you were not expecting anything.

its always good to take a learning experience from the negative, but its even more important to REALIZE the things you did well from the postive.

good job brother

Awesome dude, nice pull there.

hi

Hello, this was the right thing that you have done. I don’t think that you were wrong.
All the best!

Well played and luck was on your side too..

You didn't pay for the tequila, did you?