“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I realized what a bunch of pussies most of the human beings with BALLS are. I have met a woman that's more of a man than anybody else I've ever talked or seen. And if this description of how a woman can be so much better than an average man could be won't make you find your long lost balls then you should better consider a sex change. And face it, if you're a *****, you might just wanna have one.

I went out with my friend. And we met a group of ladies of which most of them were some classy ladies that were so damn boring. But there were these two best friends. One of them was hot, the other was a little strong. But her character ****ing impressed me. She made me realize what a big gap is between ***** and a man.

I talked to her about many things. I wasn't picking on her. And her energy. I could just feel how self-confident she is. She feared nothing. Literary. She told me dozens of ****ing touchy stories to me. And I just knew she doesn't take crap like it's nothing. She stands up for herself. She beat up a few men who thought she's not worth of respect. She beat up many women who would argue with her and disrespect her. She tells them in the face what she doesn't like. She speaks her mind about what she likes.

She walks the street like there's no death at all. Fearless. I didn't ask her if she fears death because I was sure she doesn't. She respects herself so much she doesn't even care WHO or WHAT could jump on her out of a corner. Because she knows she would **** him up like a little sissy. She is a strong women in physical terms. But it doesn't even pop up in your head as a first thing when you see someone like that. I didn't even notice. Because she's got herself together.

She respects and loves every cell of her body. She thinks out loud. Such a honest person I have never seen in my life. She really does not give a **** because she fears nothing! She clearly knows that everybody dies once. Might be the next hour or the next day. She doesn't give a ****. She has nothing to hide. She expresses herself totally.

Now if I look at myself a few years back and every man I've known. There's no one so confident as she is. And by confident I mean you can go anywhere you want and just care about your feelings and what you want. And you see people as PEOPLE. You don't make judgments by his or hers physical traits. You walk down the road. A bunch of pumped up gorillas come by and you're not afraid. Because you don't judge them by their looks and think OMFG look at the muscles.. they can beat me up with ease. No ****ing way. You FEEL like you are THE ****. Like you can **** up anything or anyone if he disrespects you.

If you feel somewhere in your gut this person hides something from you. You ****ing tell him what you think. You don't care about the outcome. You never, ever care about the outcome. Outcome thinking is for pussies. You just there, speaking your mind, your feelings and your thoughts. You don't go over analyze what you're gonna say. You just ****ing say it and you do not, i repeat again, do not GIVE A **** about the outcome. That's the true power of not giving a ****.

Not giving a **** doesn't mean you don't care about others. That you are selfish. **** no. Not giving a **** means that you do not care about the OUTCOME. You just focus on the NOW. On the process. You're so self assured that you just think out loud.

This is what you must change. You instantly think of the outcome when you see a hot girl. You might see how you're ****ing her or how you get rejected. Depends on your frame. But when you don't give a **** about the outcome you think of nothing. You get that feeling that you must go talk to her and you just do. You're not thinking. You're just there knowing what you want and doing it.

Stop thinking about the ****ing OUTCOME! NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW is where you are and what you want. And you will feel what confidence is. You will feel how it's like just doing what comes through your head, your heart. You'll just feel how it's like knowing what you want and doing it.

Respect to this girl that taught me how it's like not giving a ****.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You're forgetting the linchpin characteristic: smart.

I love your post. You define and create your own world. You set the boundaries, and you make the rules that you adhere to. You don't expect anyone else to follow your laws. If they want to, then great...tag along, they'll make great companions and you'll learn from each other. If they don't want to, then good luck and good bye in their own journey.

But be smart enough to know when you need to change your world, your boundaries, and your laws. Be smart enough to know when and how you can set yourself up for success. Be smart enough to know when your life isn't being enhanced or isn't being progressive. Be smart enough to know the little or the big adjustments you need to make to your world even more priceless. Above all, be smart enough to know when to continue on your path and when to find a way around the wall.
 

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slaog said:
She doesn't sound very feminine to me! Sounds like the sort of women I'd advise people to stay clear of.
Yep.

She sounds like a real ball buster.

Stay away from these types guys.

I bet this chick is probably covered with tattoos and smokes like a chimney and drinks like a fish as well. :crackup:
 

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This all boils down to having a mature perspective. One that doesnt operate on fear and the NEED for security. It is important to not project fear on to situations or circumstances, and create mountains out of molehills.

In that it is all about placing things in the proper place, and perspective..and having the presence of mind to truly cateogrize something and assess it's actual Importance and EFFECT on you and your lifestyle.

Being a martial artist, I would advise anyone to not simply imagine you can fight back with ease if you havent properly trained. I dont think its good to be delusional, especially in life or death situations.
Beware of the 'paper tiger' and false confidence. If you havent been under those situations, and expereinces, do not blindly assume you will respond in the best possible manner.
Better to be humble and go out there and start training.
Stress inoculation is a true confidence method.
Self confidence is GOOD. But being delusional is NOT.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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