I propose a new law of the universe:
Relationships can't be MADE, just found.
Why do I say this? Because any attempt to FORCE things has always gone wrong and only came out of insecurity or desperation. If a person doesn't like you, what the hell do you want to make them like you for? The fact that they dislike you is a perfect reason to dislike them in return.
On the flip side, you can FIND common ground with everyone. We're all human and have similar natures and similar desires. So perhaps it takes a bit of tuning in to reach the common ground, but there almost always is one. At the very least, you both like friendships, humour, beauty, excitement and sex, don't you? Few people don't
But you can't MAKE this common ground.
Discuss.
Relationships can't be MADE, just found.
Why do I say this? Because any attempt to FORCE things has always gone wrong and only came out of insecurity or desperation. If a person doesn't like you, what the hell do you want to make them like you for? The fact that they dislike you is a perfect reason to dislike them in return.
On the flip side, you can FIND common ground with everyone. We're all human and have similar natures and similar desires. So perhaps it takes a bit of tuning in to reach the common ground, but there almost always is one. At the very least, you both like friendships, humour, beauty, excitement and sex, don't you? Few people don't
But you can't MAKE this common ground.
Discuss.