Its just dawned on me that everything I needed was always inside me. Thanks in part to BondJamesBond's posts. In the past few months after reading the DJ bible my life has taken a U-turn but I cant help reflect wondering why I had to learn all of this in the first place. I *WAS* an extremely shy person I would fumble words, draw blanks and literally drive off every woman that showed any interest in me all due to my insecurities.

The curious thing is when I was 10/11 and started noticing girls I was a natural DJ and didnt know it. I was *THE* man with all the neighborhood girls. I wasnt scared of them hell I was the smoothest SOB this side of sean connery. I would have them follow me around they were my *****es. One of my tricks was this so called PATTERN technique but this was all natural to me .....as a 10 yr old! I would KINO, Isolate and Escalate without even realizing I was doing it.

Once I started High school tho all that disappeared in an instant. Once your put into your social circle in that place it sticks to your soul like glue. Im 21 now and since redefining myself from the inside out, I met up with my 10yr old self (sad I know getting tips from a 10yr old) and have realized once you see woman as the little girls they actually are and see your self as that ultra confident kid that you were you WILL change believe me. I went from an embarrassing *talking* to one girl a year to chatting up everything I like when I like with no hang ups.

It amazes me how I changed so significantly since a child without me even noticing it just feeling sorry for myself thinking "thats just life" FCK THAT!
Ive come to realize that all these seduction tips you read are there in you already. You just have to completely overhaul your INNER Game and they will flow through you without you even noticing.

you kinoed, isolated and escalated when you were 10?

am I to understand that metaphorically?

hahah ye by my calculation I believe holding hands was as far as it got back then.

lol

you lied then

and here I was picturing Too Short as a kid

I know what it's like. My natural persona always attracted, it was only the suggestion that I needed to change it that caused the trouble.

I swear high school is a curse! But a good one. Once you defeat, you become stronger.

Yep. There are some good things that come out of forums. Being realistic about *any one random girl*, logistics, etc. There is a point though were too much advice and too much worry over tatics just gets in the way of one's success.

The problem a lot of guys have is turning off all the cognitive overload and the last thing one of these guys is more fretting over every minute movement or utterance. This is why some guys seem to only be able to socialize when drinking. One thing I've noticed about guys who have this problem is they seem to have unrealistic beliefs about women. They don't realize women have all the same issues that guys (just like them) have.