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mr.uk
04-08-2008, 02:52 PM
1. Are girls who sit on your lap always interested?

2. If you get a hard on while a girl is sitting on your lap (a girl who you have not been getting with) and she feels it poking her will she be freaked out or will she quite like it? considering that it was her choice to sit on your lap in the first place...
this is probably better answered by the women of the site! thanks

BlakeW5
04-08-2008, 03:03 PM
I don't see how they can always be interested. Yes, it can be indication of interest, but perhaps she is just comfortable with you as a friend or feels unthreatened by you. In general though I take it as a good sign. Really just depends on the situation and context of whats going on.

In general I try to avoid popping wood. You never really know how the girl will take it.

mr.uk
04-08-2008, 03:06 PM
yeah i try to avoid it too..but sometimes it cannot be helped if she is mega hot!

Purple-Haze
04-08-2008, 03:07 PM
1. Are girls who sit on your lap always interested?

2. If you get a hard on while a girl is sitting on your lap (a girl who you have not been getting with) and she feels it poking her will she be freaked out or will she quite like it? considering that it was her choice to sit on your lap in the first place...
this is probably better answered by the women of the site! thanks

From my experience, a girl will sit on your lap because she is either very comfortable with you (read: she sees you as a friend) OR she likes you and is flirting with you (read: she is teasing you, sexually enticing you).

That said, most women I know don't go around sitting in a man's lap (friend or not). So you may want to consider the calibre of the said woman if she is sitting in your lap and you two just met or are acquaintances.

In terms of her feeling an erection... If she's bold enough and suggestive enough to sit in your lap, chances are she'll be excited/flattered by the erection. BUT always be prepared for a freak out (a strange look on her face), she may back off thinking you are too easy to excite.

Papermoon
04-08-2008, 03:14 PM
You're 18, so I am assuming the girls in question are about the same age.
Sitting on a lap is usually flirtatious, if you had been friendzoned that much, you'd know. So, if a girl you do not know since childhood, sits on your lap: she is flirting. A hard-on might not get you applause, anyway, because it's too much, too fast. Sitting on a lap is playful flirtation. Showing her you have an erection is foreplay.

Try to have some unsexy thoughts and go for the phone number.

Purple-Haze
04-08-2008, 03:17 PM
You're 18, so I am assuming the girls in question are about the same age.
Sitting on a lap is usually flirtatious, if you had been friendzoned that much, you'd know. So, if a girl you do not know since childhood, sits on your lap: she is flirting. A hard-on might not get you applause, anyway, because it's too much, too fast. Sitting on a lap is playful flirtation. Showing her you have an erection is foreplay.

Try to have some unsexy thoughts and go for the phone number.

Yeah, she may not be used to it and may therefore get weirded out. So think about something else.

Jitterbug
04-08-2008, 03:32 PM
If you get a hard-on - which isn't something you can fully control (if we could, we wouldn't get those Viagra spam mails) - the key thing to remember is to be nonchalant about it. Be playful & joke around if she is uncomfortable (I doubt it - the ones who sit on your lap are sh!t-testing you & they know what'd happen). You're a man, an attractive woman sits on your ****, you get a hard-on. That's perfectly normal. Do not be ashamed of your sexuality. Society tries to make men embarassed for being men. Don't let it affect you.

Groovy
04-08-2008, 03:47 PM
I say if an attractive girl sits on your lap let it affect you, because it's natural! (Unless you hate her! XD)

And when it affects you, (It will :D ) don't let THAT affect you! (If you get it...)

But take it in moderation. ;)

DJVladdy
04-08-2008, 06:02 PM
I agree with krazy:

You guys are pondering and analyzing this too much... remember how the wise men of this site told/keep telling you that you should embrace your natural self, not be afraid of your testosterone, let your sexuality flow............. does this ring the bell??

How come we forget this knowledge, at moments like these. If I'm in the club and im dancing with a girl and my **** is like half-hard, and she can feel it....... i NEVER act "ashamed" or "embarassed" about it. What, now you are gonna start apologizing for having a dyck??

Girls don't want u to apologize... they'll pretend to want to do this, in order to filter out the chumps, dweebs, etc

slaog
04-08-2008, 06:41 PM
i don't see how you can NOT have a hardon when a woman sits her azz onto your crotch
My thoughts exactly! Is it possible to not have one?

stand
04-08-2008, 06:58 PM
yeah if you don't pop a woody if her ass is on your c0ck she'll probably figure you're a fag!

I've had this happen where a girl said something, lol..

At a party some girl comes and sits on my lap and kinda slides over and then puts her hand on my d!ck and gives me a really funny look. I say what? She says how come you're not hard? I laugh and tell her I just got done fhking to give me a minute.

redspicyflag
04-08-2008, 08:09 PM
I think personally it's fun when I get a woody

if you're comfortable with it, she probably will be too

armadon
04-08-2008, 08:49 PM
I used to be afraid of the woody in high school, now the woody is afraid of me!

DJVladdy
04-08-2008, 09:11 PM
damn armadon, kinda early for that isnt it? ur 32

L B
04-09-2008, 01:28 AM
She should know what she's getting into if she is sitting on your lap. You will be doing her a disservice if you don't get a hard on.

Daddy The Pimp
04-09-2008, 10:02 AM
If she's the girl your gaming and she sits there its IoI :D .

If your not gaming her she's sitting there for other reasons ( no other place to sit , to give you fake IoI's , make someone jealous , being friendly with you , kinoing you and other reasons like this )

Just as Purple Haze said . They are just comfortable with you .
But being comfortable around you can be great advantage sometimes :D .

About getting boner , i dont wanna get boner because i try to play cool , like its something normal that happens to me everyday. But if it gets , just put it in the right position (not in her ass lol) and continue talking and joking just like nothing happened :D.

Latinoman
04-09-2008, 10:43 AM
1. Are girls who sit on your lap always interested?

2. If you get a hard on while a girl is sitting on your lap (a girl who you have not been getting with) and she feels it poking her will she be freaked out or will she quite like it? considering that it was her choice to sit on your lap in the first place...
this is probably better answered by the women of the site! thanks

1- She probably sees you as her gay little brother. Think about it...unless that girl is already involved with you or unless she is kind of "loose"...the likelihood of she sitting on the lap of a boy she likes are slim (I mean, she probably feel shy).

2- You might freak her out. But who cares? She should have known better...after all, she is sitting on your lap. It is not as you stood behind her and rubbed your groin against her arse.

Latinoman
04-09-2008, 10:48 AM
Note: You can control your erection. You can control ANYTHING you want with your sexuallity. It just takes experience. If you have had sex for over 1000 times...and for many years...you can rest assure that you can control your erections and even the time you want to ejaculate during intercourse.

Jitterbug
04-09-2008, 02:34 PM
^^ Interesting, Latinoman. I can control when I nut, but my boners are another story. I guess I'll find out through more experience.

DonGorgon
04-09-2008, 05:12 PM
1. Are girls who sit on your lap always interested?

2. If you get a hard on while a girl is sitting on your lap (a girl who you have not been getting with) and she feels it poking her will she be freaked out or will she quite like it? considering that it was her choice to sit on your lap in the first place...
this is probably better answered by the women of the site! thanks

Any girl who sits on my lap will get fondled... Cause that is what she wants.

LostAndConfused
04-09-2008, 05:16 PM
One strategy that I've learned is to lean back, and have her ass sit between your naval and your crotch, so if you pop wood there, it will be out in front of her own crotch, in between her legs, instead of poking her in the holiest of holies.

ThunderMaverick
04-09-2008, 06:12 PM
OH my GAWD there use to be this hot little asian girl who would ALWAYS sit on my lap when I was in high school.

You should have seen the look on my face when I tried to keep my whoo ha down. It was so hard. I mean, hard as in difficult.

Now if a girl sits on my lap she'd better not be offended if I...well you know.

To tell you the the truth, only girls who sit on my lap are girls who are interested in me sexually. I always let a woman know that I'm a sexual guy and if they come on to me in a sexual way I will respond.

Don't ever feel bad for growing one if she sits on your lap. If she gets offended tell her she shouldn't be. Tell her she should be offended if you DON'T get one. It means she's U-G-L-Y!!:cheer:


Have you let on that you're a sexual guy mr. uk?

smooth guy
04-10-2008, 05:54 AM
If a girl is sitting on your lap you don't just sit there like a moron with a hard on. You make some playful moves.

lordson
04-10-2008, 07:46 AM
You should have seen the look on my face when I tried to keep my whoo ha down. It was so hard. I mean, hard as in difficult.



HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

thats the funniest thing i've heard all day

if a girl sits on your lap, she is definately way already into you

or she considers you her girlfriend

i can easily control not getting a hard on, but sometimes when i want one, its harder to come up

Lust
04-10-2008, 07:57 AM
I like to insert sexual innuendo into the interaction.

So if I get a hard on, I'll let her know but saying something like "Get off you're making me hard".