Just wanted to say hi!

[Lishy]

Yo dudes (and dudettes!)

I have popped over from the good ole Loveshack to say hello to you all!:cheer:

So what is this site about then?

[MacAvoy]

This site is about improving yourself and become a better man. Which will lead to having more success with women. However the forums are littered with guys trying to get their ex g/f's back.

The most valuable thing on this site is not the feedback you get from posters but the knowledge in the articles and the bible. The Don Juan bible is on the bottom of the mainpage or there is a link in my signature. Bookmark it, you can get a wealth of knowledge there even though some guys here will date you some parts are slightly dated but the fundamentals are sound none the less.

There is also a DJ Bootcamp for those who want to improve at approaching women. Do a search and welcome to the site.

Like loveshack, we will also give you dating advice as thats what primarily the forum is used for. This site is alot more pro man than LS is, however with that comes some bitterness towards women by some posters. Also you'll get to know who the reputable posters are after awhile, watch out for keyboard jockeys, you can always tell by the threads that people start, their experience.

You can check that by clicking on their name, then view profile, then scroll down to see all threads started by so and so.

Thats Sosauve in a nutshell.

[Burrito Supreme]

Lishy, I find you to be so sexy. Hows about having a taste of my burrito supreme?:up:

[bigjohnson]

So what is this site about then?

We love you long time, pletty women. ;)

It's a place to BS and help other guys get their **** together. Also we won't summarily ban yo like I'm currently in the (likely) process of now over at LS just for expressing a different viewpoint.

[Nighthawk]

Hey Lishy. This site is about how to be awesome.

And BigJ, your doing a great job over there but yeah they will probably get rid of your non-compliant ass soon enough. I think you can get an infraction for having both a penis and a backbone, and a sense of humour is just plain offensive to the poor little poppets.

[Burrito Supreme]

If you all have such a problem over there in LS, then why are you even wasting your time there?

If any of the males over there want the advice or POV of anyone here, then they know where to go.

[In Motion]

If you all have such a problem over there in LS, then why are you even wasting your time there?

If any of the males over there want the advice or POV of anyone here, then they know where to go.

We are trying to help the poor and lost AFC that hang out over there. They are djs at heart, we just have to bring it out in them. The advice you get over there is stuff like:

- Respect her
- Listen to her
- be yourself
- Come in touch with your feminine side
- Be emotional
- be her friend and listen to her feelings

And thats a bunch of BULL****. You are retarding them and setting them back in their progress with women.

[ThunderMaverick]

If any of the males over there want the advice or POV of anyone here, then they know where to go.

NOW they know where to go! Lulz:D

[reset]

- Respect her
- Listen to her
- be yourself
- Come in touch with your feminine side
- Be emotional
- be her friend and listen to her feelings

And thats a bunch of BULL****. You are retarding them and setting them back in their progress with women.

Well the thing is, when a guy is in PAIN, from a woman, and not sure what he's doing, the first thing he's going to want to do is talk to other women and get their validation. If they tell him that he's actually in the right, then he can keep hoping. They want to hear what they want to hear.

Even I took female advice several months ago, because I wasn't strong enough to listen to myself and other guys. It didn't work.

Actually, in a way it did work. I learned to not do it.

[Lishy]

So can I ask for advice or is it only for men?

[mpimpin]

Feel free to ask for advice

[HOMBRE]

I'm here to give all the wimpy men advice on how to be a Real Man. I'm here and I'm at your service. I will not read the Bibles or whatever is on here. Take my advice or leave it. It's up to you.

Hi Lishy!

[HOMBRE]

Another thread closed. What a shame as I wanted to respond to some of the great posts on there. I was actually impressed by a few. I'm surprised. I agree with many of you.

As a former wimp who is no longer one, and hast gotten everything I want in life, I thought I had something to contribute here. Does it really matter what my gender is?

I support self-empowerment. I don't like whiners and victims....no matter what the gender. This is what I'm about.

I love men and I love women. Both deserve to be treated with respect and to be happy...with or without a mate. Just don't find happiness at the expense of another.

Again, maybe one day I'll read the rhetoric on here but for now I'll refrain. I'd rather keep an open mind based on what I see posted here.

[bigjohnson]

So can I ask for advice or is it only for men?

Heck, you can ask and offer advice, but we tend to be brutes so wear your helmet.

[bigjohnson]

I love men and I love women.

That would explain your gender ambiguity.

[HOMBRE]

That would explain your gender ambiguity.

Hahah, very funny. Nope I'm really very heterosexual. I just would rather not reveal my gender. What's the difference?

[bigjohnson]

Now that the invasion is over some viewpoints seem like they are softening. A few have actually come to this place and survived to report back that although we are savages we do in fact have our merits and perhaps, just maybe, a few points worth the very briefest consideration. Also we possess trinkets the natives of the LS find useful, whatever that means. I didn't understand that part really.


I'd declare victory and have a beer on that one fellas. It's all you're gonna get! :)

[HOMBRE]

Now that the invasion is over some viewpoints seem like they are softening. A few have actually come to this place and survived to report back that although we are savages we do in fact have our merits and perhaps, just maybe, a few points worth the very briefest consideration. Also we possess trinkets the natives of the LS find useful, whatever that means. I didn't understand that part really.


I'd declare victory and have a beer on that one fellas. It's all you're gonna get! :)

There's no "victory" and there's no loss. Why do you think you "won?" And what did you win? Some of us are open to some of your views? Are some of you open to some of our views? If so, everyone wins and gains. There are no losers. There's no battle.

But I'll take the beer anyway!:up:

[bigjohnson]

.... But I'll take the beer anyway!:up:

Will it help you grow a sense of humor? Good lord.

[HOMBRE]

Will it help you grow a sense of humor? Good lord.

I absolutely have a sense of humor. That's why I'm here.:crackup:

If you knew me, you'd know that, man with the big penis...err I mean bigjohnson.

[bigjohnson]

I absolutely have a sense of humor. That's why I'm here.:crackup:

If you knew me, you'd know that, man with the big penis...err I mean bigjohnson.

I told you to stop with the peeking, dammit. I'm gonna stop wearing dresses around you.

[ketostix]

I just wondering if any of the LSers or anyone else knows which poster over there is the poster formerly known as Wyldfire. I'm thinking it might be Lizzie60.

[bigjohnson]

I just wondering if any of the LSers or anyone else knows which poster over there is the poster formerly known as Wyldfire. I'm thinking it might be Lizzie60.

I was going with TrialByFire simply due to the idiotic name and vitrol she was spewing.

PS -

Liz is pretty hot for an old lady.

[HOMBRE]

I told you to stop with the peeking, dammit. I'm gonna stop wearing dresses around you.

Ok, now that's funny...and believable.:p

I don't remember Wyldfire Keto but I don't think so. I think Lizzie is relatively new on there and is who she says she is. You weren't fooled with that fake avvy were you? You do know what she does for a living part-time don't you?

[ketostix]

I was going with TrialByFire simply due to the idiotic name and vitrol she was spewing.

PS -

Liz is pretty hot for an old lady.

I think as bad as Wyldfire was/is even she doesn't hold a candle to the TBF chick. That poster seems like an out and out man-hater :yawn: .

[ketostix]

You weren't fooled with that fake avvy were you? You do know what she does for a living part-time don't you?

I wouldn't say fooled by the fake avatar, but being my first time there maybe cautiously optimistic? No I don't know what she does part-time. What? This is starting to seem caty and I think I like it :D .

[HOMBRE]

I was going with TrialByFire simply due to the idiotic name and vitrol she was spewing.

PS -

Liz is pretty hot for an old lady.

What do you mean about TBF? She's not Lizzie..not by a long shot...Lizzie is not half the woman TBF is.

Lizzie, hot? :crackup: I guess there's no accounting for taste. And you're saying she's hot based solely on her body? Have you seen her face? Not that fake avatar face but her REAL face?

[HOMBRE]

I wouldn't say fooled by the fake avatar, but being my first time there maybe cautiously optimistic? No I don't know what she does part-time. What? This is starting to seem caty and I think I like it :D .

Ok, well I don't want to sound like a woman or anything and be all catty,..but since you asked.

No, that's not her real picture on the avvy although I think the one in her profile is. She's a part-time prostitute. She also does massages with "happy endings.":up:

[bigjohnson]

I think Lizzie is relatively new on there and is who she says she is. .... You do know what she does for a living part-time don't you?

Umm, god I sort of hope it involves charging by the hour.


No, that's not her real picture on the avvy although I think the one in her profile is. She's a part-time prostitute. She also does massages with "happy endings.":up:

Yeah baby I knew I liked her. Also if that IS WyldFire .... hahahahaha .... awesome. I'd definately have to see what Canada has to offer.

[ketostix]

What do you mean about TBF? She's not Lizzie..not by a long shot...Lizzie is not half the woman TBF is.

Lizzie, hot? :crackup: I guess there's no accounting for taste. And you're saying she's hot based solely on her body? Have you seen her face? Not that fake avatar face but her REAL face?

No I haven;t seen her real face or TBF's either. But feel free to expose away. Juicy gossip and catfights, yay!

[ketostix]

Ok, well I don't want to sound like a woman or anything and be all catty,..but since you asked.

No, that's not her real picture on the avvy although I think the one in her profile is. She's a part-time prostitute. She also does massages with "happy endings.":up:


Hmm, Didn't I make a prostitute thread over there in my short time there? You got to come up with juicer stuff than that lol.

[HOMBRE]

No I haven;t seen her real face or TBF's either. But feel free to expose away. Juicy gossip and catfights, yay!

TBF can have any one of you drooling and begging. Hahah. She's gorgeous and smart and very accomplished and educated. She can have any man she wants pretty much...no lie.

Keto, you sure you're not a woman?:crackup:

[ketostix]

Tell Lizzie to come over here. Isn't it ironic one of the cooler girls at LS is accused of being a pro lol?

[bigjohnson]

Not sure accused is the right term but yeah, ah, bring her on down.

[penkitten]

welcome to the board all newbies!
as soon as everyone else is done with the latest episode of "as my stomach turns"... let's focus all this EXTRA time and energy into picking sunday night's chat topic. please pm them to me.

[HOMBRE]

Tell Lizzie to come over here. Isn't it ironic one of the cooler girls at LS is accused of being a pro lol?

It's not surprising at ALL that you'd think that. She caters to men for MONEY. She'll do and say whatever you want her to say. Do you want a prostitute or a real woman? Can you handle a real woman? Ask yourself those questions.

[bigjohnson]

Prostitutes are real women too! They just set the rates in advance.

[HOMBRE]

Not sure accused is the right term but yeah, ah, bring her on down.

You're all such men, bring her on down yourself!:crackup:

Anyway, I didn't "accuse." You're right on that score. It's nothing she didn't reveal herself on LS if you just go back and read her past posts.

[HOMBRE]

Prostitutes are real women too! They just set the rates in advance.

That was hilarious. And men don't have a "price" for being with them, right?

[bigjohnson]

That was hilarious. And men don't have a "price" for being with them, right?

If you call offering to give women half our stuff a price then I guess so, sure.

[HOMBRE]

If you call offering to give women half our stuff a price then I guess so, sure.

Nope. That's not what I meant....but carry on in your delusion.

Anyway, what kind of man are you if you can't end up with most of your "stuff" at the end of it?

[Burrito Supreme]

NOW they know where to go! Lulz:D

Exactly, so you may now stop with the preaching over there.

[Quiksilver]

Welcome to sosuave.

I was also over there for a brief time under the name Quiksilver ca.

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We tolerate many different perspectives on this forum, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion.

One thing we do not tolerate, and try to crack down on, is people who are not here to actively learn and improve their lives. For this reason we ask you to please read some of the material that this site is based around(Sosuave.com (http://www.sosuave.com/), The DJ Bible (http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/), and the Tips forum (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=20)) before making too many posts.

[ThunderMaverick]

So can I ask for advice or is it only for men?


As a male I can only give you my perspective and what I would do in a situation. Can we really say that males and females react the same most of the time when it comes to situations involving the opposite sex?

I thinks not.

It helps to see the other side's perspective no doubt!

[IPalindromeI]

Lishy, just wanted to sneak over here from LS and say hi! Think I'll lurk around for a bit... :cool:

[Nighthawk]

Exactly, so you may now stop with the preaching over there.

Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?

[ketostix]

Well I was nice enough to use my username on LS (and no it wasn't because I was too dumb to realize I would blow my cover). Is it too much to ask for the LSers to identify themselves by their LS usernames?

You know what I think, since SoSuave doesn't ban people for just being on LS and you guys feel free to admit you're from there anyway, I think you LS people are hiding your LS usernames because you know your forum is intolerant. You're afraid of what will happen to you there if you reveal your LS ids here. What say you to that?

[The tin man]

I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.

[ketostix]

Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?


Yeah, you notice the mods over there never answer to anyone like they do here. They hide and continually push the ban and delete button like a bunch of communist China internet censors that they are :up: .

[ketostix]

I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.


Exactly you don't want to be traced to your identity on LS because you know they are intolerant at LS. That's what I said.