I can't imagine how many people manage to act like they only know how to express one emotion. And that emotion looks like this. An average posture with a little smile maybe totally independent if they feel excited, sexy, way too confident or very lazy. They are afraid of showing how they feel and mostly women hate guys that can't be emotional.
Now you are maybe thinking that being emotional means that you are being a very nice person or a perfect man or even pretending to be the biggest pimp ever. Yet again you are trying only to show those emotions and are still hiding the real ones behind your eyes. This my friend is called being a FAKE. And women can smell who is fake and who is not as easy as we can drink beer.
Women love honest men. Not just saying what you have on your mind without trying to say it nice and polite. But being sincere with your whole self and this also includes being honest with how you're feeling and freely expressing your emotions. Be sincere and express how you really feel. If you feel happy let people see that! Be honest with your happiness. If you feel very, very confident. Let it glow from you! Express it! Learn how to express yourself as you really are! You can do it! After some time of doing it it will become an auto response.
* note * There will be events of crisis in your life. In that case you are not allowed to show how you really feel. You must remain a cool head and be confident about solving it out without any consequences.
You might think I forgot about fear, anxiety and being needy. Should you also sincerely express those ? The only answer is that you can't express them because as from now on you don't fear these things anymore. You are a confidant man. I am not needy because I am happy with who I am and I get what I want without seeking for approval or kissing somebodies ass. Remember: I don't need, I WANT!
Anxiety is not a problem because I do not care about what other people think of me and how they want me to act because I'm being my best self and I do what I want to do and I don't anybody dictate my own reality. I have nothing to prove them because I simply don't care about their opinion or how they feel about me. Neither I apologize for my actions because I wanted to do them and I did them. ( no criminal activities or what so ever )
Fear is nothing but a good emotion. I am able to see at fear as a sweet emotion because if fear occurs in that moment or place my victory after I succeed feels even sweeter and I can place another block on my inner-confidence castle ( your confidence grows every time you beat your own fear or success, failure, rejection ).
To remind you. If you feel excited don't try to hide it, express it without fear.
Sincerely express your thoughts. If you have something to say that bothers you about another person don't make it nicer and easier to accept by him. Tell him honestly that you don't like this and that about him. Might be rude but you honestly said what you had on your mind. Why should you ignore it if it is bothering you ? Are you a man or a *****. Tell him.
The same goes for girls. If you like her behind or her sense of humor. Just honestly tell her.
Sincerity to you as until now appears only as maybe a some kind of emotion. Being sincere, great! But it is not. With sincerity you can convey so many different emotions like happiness, rapport, trust, sadness, rudeness, excitement. Because you are not afraid to say what you have to say. Think out loud. Don't hide anything. If you want to take a girl home tell her what you intent is. I want to take you home. If she listens to music you don't like tell her I don't like this genre but I feel the same when I listen to rock.
Your world is so stable and strong and you are completely accepting and loving who you are that people, specially girls just can't help to get sucked in. From time to time you will meet people with some hardcore beliefs about themselves. Only then will you be able to see how strong your world really is. Will he be sucked into yours or you into his/hers. Support your world with small success and confidence blocks. Congratulate yourself that you did an awesome job. Really do it. You will be amazed how your inner confidence and love for yourself will start to grow.
Now you are maybe thinking that being emotional means that you are being a very nice person or a perfect man or even pretending to be the biggest pimp ever. Yet again you are trying only to show those emotions and are still hiding the real ones behind your eyes. This my friend is called being a FAKE. And women can smell who is fake and who is not as easy as we can drink beer.
Women love honest men. Not just saying what you have on your mind without trying to say it nice and polite. But being sincere with your whole self and this also includes being honest with how you're feeling and freely expressing your emotions. Be sincere and express how you really feel. If you feel happy let people see that! Be honest with your happiness. If you feel very, very confident. Let it glow from you! Express it! Learn how to express yourself as you really are! You can do it! After some time of doing it it will become an auto response.
* note * There will be events of crisis in your life. In that case you are not allowed to show how you really feel. You must remain a cool head and be confident about solving it out without any consequences.
You might think I forgot about fear, anxiety and being needy. Should you also sincerely express those ? The only answer is that you can't express them because as from now on you don't fear these things anymore. You are a confidant man. I am not needy because I am happy with who I am and I get what I want without seeking for approval or kissing somebodies ass. Remember: I don't need, I WANT!
Anxiety is not a problem because I do not care about what other people think of me and how they want me to act because I'm being my best self and I do what I want to do and I don't anybody dictate my own reality. I have nothing to prove them because I simply don't care about their opinion or how they feel about me. Neither I apologize for my actions because I wanted to do them and I did them. ( no criminal activities or what so ever )
Fear is nothing but a good emotion. I am able to see at fear as a sweet emotion because if fear occurs in that moment or place my victory after I succeed feels even sweeter and I can place another block on my inner-confidence castle ( your confidence grows every time you beat your own fear or success, failure, rejection ).
To remind you. If you feel excited don't try to hide it, express it without fear.
Sincerely express your thoughts. If you have something to say that bothers you about another person don't make it nicer and easier to accept by him. Tell him honestly that you don't like this and that about him. Might be rude but you honestly said what you had on your mind. Why should you ignore it if it is bothering you ? Are you a man or a *****. Tell him.
The same goes for girls. If you like her behind or her sense of humor. Just honestly tell her.
Sincerity to you as until now appears only as maybe a some kind of emotion. Being sincere, great! But it is not. With sincerity you can convey so many different emotions like happiness, rapport, trust, sadness, rudeness, excitement. Because you are not afraid to say what you have to say. Think out loud. Don't hide anything. If you want to take a girl home tell her what you intent is. I want to take you home. If she listens to music you don't like tell her I don't like this genre but I feel the same when I listen to rock.
Your world is so stable and strong and you are completely accepting and loving who you are that people, specially girls just can't help to get sucked in. From time to time you will meet people with some hardcore beliefs about themselves. Only then will you be able to see how strong your world really is. Will he be sucked into yours or you into his/hers. Support your world with small success and confidence blocks. Congratulate yourself that you did an awesome job. Really do it. You will be amazed how your inner confidence and love for yourself will start to grow.