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aldaris
03-13-2008, 04:05 PM
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7291366.stm

they are a bunch of angry little men. this forum is filled with them.

Meanwhile, the report, originally featured in the journal of Evolution and Human Behaviour, said taller men may be less jealous because male height is associated with attractiveness, dominance and reproductive success.

amen! thank god i come from a long line of tall good looking types. :yes:

nightcrawler
03-13-2008, 04:27 PM
Finally, scientific proof.

anyways I've come terms with my height. I know that I can't change and I'm comfortable with that. Honestly, it doesn't bother me at all that all men tower over me and that most girls are my height. There's no point in crying over it anymore...

I did give up on women though...I simply stopped caring about them anymore.

I guess I'm happier this way:up:

stuka1939
03-13-2008, 06:25 PM
Finally, scientific proof.

anyways I've come terms with my height. I know that I can't change and I'm comfortable with that. Honestly, it doesn't bother me at all that all men tower over me and that most girls are my height. There's no point in crying over it anymore...

I did give up on women though...I simply stopped caring about them anymore.

I guess I'm happier this way:up:

Thank God I am 5'11.5".

Yes, it is common knowledge that MOST men under 5'9" have a chip on their shoulder.

Maxtro
03-13-2008, 06:42 PM
What's the point of this thread? The only thing the article says is that shorter people tend to be more jealous of members of the same sex.

Wired for Sound
03-13-2008, 07:40 PM
What's the point of this thread? The only thing the article says is that shorter people tend to be more jealous of members of the same sex.

He already told you. He's insecure, and thus made an attempt to seek validation from the rest of the forum by telling everyone that he's "tall and good-looking". He also criticizes the attributes of others in another attempt to feel better about himself, so I guess you could say it's a sort of "double-whammy" of compliment-seeking.

DJVladdy
03-13-2008, 07:50 PM
Lol, you know how sometimes you start writing a post, then leave to do something else... and then finish writing, click "post", and it says you're logged out, and all you wrote gets erased. WOW you gotta love it.

I wrote an elaborate scientific post explaining why this article is a useless piece of crap, so I won't rewrite it, ill just summarize it in a few words, ready?

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Ald, your purpose in life is to try and make people insecure just so you can feel better about your pathetic self. You also like to brag a lot, and I could say "post a pic" as proof... or show me a facebook profile of you, etc... But no, relax I'm not asking you that because you are so fake you can't even indicate your location and age, something that simple. You piece of
sh1t.

It feels good to sit behind a computer sceen pretending to be someone else, and trying to bring other people down? Does it also feel good to be a self hating, ex-soviet jew. You were abused as a child alot? And now you are axpressing your anger in the most passive-aggressive form here on so-suave.

Congratulations, you little bytch.

TyTe`EyEz
03-13-2008, 07:52 PM
I'm 5'8 and I don't have any kind of chip on my shoulder.

Maxtro
03-13-2008, 07:57 PM
He already told you. He's insecure, and thus made an attempt to seek validation from the rest of the forum by telling everyone that he's "tall and good-looking". He also criticizes the attributes of others in another attempt to feel better about himself, so I guess you could say it's a sort of "double-whammy" of compliment-seeking.
Ah, thank you.

stuka1939
03-13-2008, 08:09 PM
I'm 5'8 and I don't have any kind of chip on my shoulder.

I said MOST, not ALL and maybe that starts at 5'7", not 5'8"

oakraiderz2
03-13-2008, 09:10 PM
My landlord is about 5'4 or 5'3...he's ALWAYS pissed. Maybe thats cause his a beeeeyatch.

aldaris
03-13-2008, 10:36 PM
Lol, you know how sometimes you start writing a post, then leave to do something else... and then finish writing, click "post", and it says you're logged out, and all you wrote gets erased. WOW you gotta love it.

I wrote an elaborate scientific post explaining why this article is a useless piece of crap, so I won't rewrite it, ill just summarize it in a few words, ready?

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Ald, your purpose in life is to try and make people insecure just so you can feel better about your pathetic self. You also like to brag a lot, and I could say "post a pic" as proof... or show me a facebook profile of you, etc... But no, relax I'm not asking you that because you are so fake you can't even indicate your location and age, something that simple. You piece of
sh1t.

It feels good to sit behind a computer sceen pretending to be someone else, and trying to bring other people down? Does it also feel good to be a self hating, ex-soviet jew. You were abused as a child alot? And now you are axpressing your anger in the most passive-aggressive form here on so-suave.

Congratulations, you little bytch.

hey skip!!!!
yes this is skip. he sends me angry messages. they usually end with, "i'm not skip. i promise." skip, you want me to post a message you sent me? it really isn't the way you should be treating a guy who racked up as many yards as an all-purpose offensive stud in high school as i did. and no! i am not al bundy!

stuka1939
03-13-2008, 10:47 PM
My landlord is about 5'4 or 5'3...he's ALWAYS pissed. Maybe thats cause his a beeeeyatch.

I would be pissed to if I were short, because there is NOTHING you can do about it.

Want to know what it feels like? I am 6'0, but there is a 6'7" guy we have at work. Next to him I almost feel like less of a man. However, only like 1 in a 1000 men are 6'4" and over.

Now imagine being a 5'4-5'5" guy where MOST guys have 4 to 5 inches on you easily. You constantly have to look up to everyone (mostly men and even some women), people don't respect you as much or take you seriously and MOST women won't even look at you because of your height (even if you are handsome)

Wouldn't all of the above make you angry at the world? I sure would be....

nightcrawler
03-13-2008, 10:56 PM
I think there's a surgery that is able to add as much as 3 inches to height...anybody know what its called? I wanna do some research in it.

Colin O'Brien
03-13-2008, 10:57 PM
You can't change your height.. but you can change yourself.

HandyAndy
03-13-2008, 11:07 PM
bla bla, im glad im tall

Jitterbug
03-13-2008, 11:09 PM
Want to know what it feels like? I am 6'0, but there is a 6'7" guy we have at work. Next to him I almost feel like less of a man. However, only like 1 in a 1000 men are 6'4" and over.

Poor you.

I'm 5'8". I have two friends who are 6'4" and 6'5". I always have a strong presence in any social setting with them. Or in hobbies, like sports - I run faster and I'm more agile - or dancing - very tall guys often look really awkward and uncoordinated. I also don't suffer from joint problems. I wouldn't exchange my height with theirs.

The key is to use your height effectively.

Bruce Lee was 5'7". He dominated everywhere he went because of his strong personality and charisma. Nobody thinks that he's just a 5'7" guy. If your height is all you have got going for you, that really sucks.

stuka1939
03-13-2008, 11:12 PM
I think there's a surgery that is able to add as much as 3 inches to height...anybody know what its called? I wanna do some research in it.

Yeah they do, but it costs like 60K and you have to take like a year off from work.

How tall are you?

oakraiderz2
03-13-2008, 11:12 PM
I would be pissed to if I were short, because there is NOTHING you can do about it.

Want to know what it feels like? I am 6'0, but there is a 6'7" guy we have at work. Next to him I almost feel like less of a man. However, only like 1 in a 1000 men are 6'4" and over.

Now imagine being a 5'4-5'5" guy where MOST guys have 4 to 5 inches on you easily. You constantly have to look up to everyone (mostly men and even some women), people don't respect you as much or take you seriously and MOST women won't even look at you because of your height (even if you are handsome)

Wouldn't all of the above make you angry at the world? I sure would be....

That doesnt justify such anger, it just gives them an early grave. Im 6'4 so i dont have that problem. When theres someone taller than me i give them **** that i get for being tall in a joking way, so its cool. Being a short is one thing, but being short and an ******* makes it worse. Trying to prove to the world that youre a tough guy doesnt really work if youre bit size, it just makes you a deusche.

PS Jitterbug...5'8 isnt short. People who have the napolean complex are what most people would be referring to here...so no need to validate yourself.

Jitterbug
03-13-2008, 11:27 PM
PS Jitterbug...5'8 isnt short. People who have the napolean complex are what most people would be referring to here...so no need to validate yourself.

I agree. I didn't say that 5'8" is short, but my 5'8" to my friends' 6'5" is a much bigger gap than aldaris' 6'0" to the other guy's 6'7", and yet I'm cool with mine, but he's insecure with his.

Fluffy
03-13-2008, 11:43 PM
And yes, ALL the 20 something virgins on this board are under 5'9.

The guys I really feel sorry for are those under 5'5-5'6....they really can't do anything...or ever really be loved...I've never met a guy under 5'5/5'6 that's married, etc. And there's no where in the world they can go where they'll be a good height.

I have a friend who is 21, good looking and tall. He cannot pick up at all, never been laid or even kissed. Girls laugh at the idea of him being with another chick.

I have another friend 18 years old, about 5'6 and fat as fvck. This guy is a loud mofo and gets laid constantly by talent that most my friends would not be able to pull.
He is always making jokes about being a shorty and if a chick belittles him he will make a massive scene embarrassing her in the process (does it jokingly too).

HandyAndy
03-13-2008, 11:48 PM
This kid at my school, he doesnt even hit 5'1. He has the one of the hottest girl friends at school. Lol, idk about him but he must have a rockin personality.

LostAndConfused
03-13-2008, 11:53 PM
I'm 5'6.5-5'7". This is worse than being a tiny bit taller, and its worse than being shorter too, the reason why is that your just UNDER the height where you actually get taken seriously. But you are still under it. When you are even shorter, girls don't take you seriously, but they do give you a fighting chance, and when you are taller, girls are just naturally attracted to you. Most of my friends my height don't even get the opportunity to use game.

And yes its a pain in the *ss knowing that you can beat shyt in a fight out of the guys disrespecting you who only have a couple of inches on you, but they still disrespect you nonetheless.

My only option is to hit the gym, honestly, because an average build short guy apparently looks pathetic to women.

Jitterbug
03-13-2008, 11:57 PM
yo, Jitterbug-do you get girls though?
I felt fine about my height until last year (I'm almost 23) after being rejected for it non-stop. Sometimes, you can feel confident about it, but it doesn't help. I'm 5'8 too. Just be glad you aren't an inch shorter. It's funny, a 5'7 guy looks so much shorter than me, cuz once you get below 5'8 every inch makes you look tiny.

I do get girls. I've never thought about my height, let alone feel self-conscious about it when I'm around people. It's all about your presence as a Protector - which is one major thing women respond to. Height is a physical representation of a Protector. However, there are other things that can do the same job: strength (physical and mental), voice projection, speed & agility, stamina, strong balance etc. If girls feel safe & protected around you, that's all that matters. They often have a height preference because often that's their only way of interpreting their attraction for the Protector type.

I know plenty of guys who are taller than me (there are a lot of very tall Aussie guys around here) who look like they've shrunken down a great deal when I see them in a social situation. They aren't getting sh!t.

Of course all things being equal, taller is better, BUT things are never equal. Human beings are very dynamic individuals.

aldaris
03-14-2008, 01:08 AM
I'm 5'6.5-5'7". This is worse than being a tiny bit taller, and its worse than being shorter too, the reason why is that your just UNDER the height where you actually get taken seriously. But you are still under it. When you are even shorter, girls don't take you seriously, but they do give you a fighting chance, and when you are taller, girls are just naturally attracted to you. Most of my friends my height don't even get the opportunity to use game.

And yes its a pain in the *ss knowing that you can beat shyt in a fight out of the guys disrespecting you who only have a couple of inches on you, but they still disrespect you nonetheless.

My only option is to hit the gym, honestly, because an average build short guy apparently looks pathetic to women.

i respect this post. you are honest. it does suck to be short. that is why a lot of short guys have a chip on their shoulders. like they have to pick on bigger guys like me when they are with some hor. shortness for a guy is like age on a broad. both denote lack of fertility (at least in the mind of the opposite sex).

now, that doesn't mean you will never find love or a hor to keep your love stick warm at night. of course not. you just have a handicap. just keep on giving it your best shot. as coach use to say, "you lil' *****es need to start acting like you don't really need tampons." i just realized that quote has nothing to do with any of this. oh well, it is a good quote.

pumping iron for little guys? i see tons of little guys at the gym. sometimes i am afraid i will drop a weight on one of them. my advice? m-u-s-i-c. music was made so that little guys could attract the opposite sex. think about it. ever see a rocker and say, "i could take that guy."?

Mctwist4
03-14-2008, 03:29 AM
I tend to go with freud's idea that there are 2 things that drive humans: Aggression and Sex. I would say that physical appearance is a trait based on attraction on the sexual side. Aggression, however, can have nothing to do with appearance. For example, in the caveman days, a woman might find the male who was most aggressive in the hunt for food most attractive. This doesn't necessarily hold true anymore, but there are other forms of aggression. The best example of an aggressive trait that most women are attracted to today would be social aggression. My point. Yes appearance plays a part. You can definitley even up the odds though, if you don't let it get to you.

AgonyUncle
03-14-2008, 06:38 AM
This is really an American thing. I have never seen people as obsessed by height as what you guys are. I have no idea where it comes from.

American women LURVE tall guys? When was the last time you saw the way your women act in Europe? I can promise you, the french, italians and greeks are hardly tall people. They would be the chip on the shoulder under 5' 9 ers you blokes are talking about. They are banging American holiday makers left and right.

I swear, sometimes its as if you are LOOKING for an excuse for your lack of results. Men who think that height matters are actually creating the problem. Women are starting to desire it because you are convincing them that taller men are higher status.

Seriously. WTF?

Trinitron
03-14-2008, 07:31 AM
He already told you. He's insecure, and thus made an attempt to seek validation from the rest of the forum by telling everyone that he's "tall and good-looking". He also criticizes the attributes of others in another attempt to feel better about himself, so I guess you could say it's a sort of "double-whammy" of compliment-seeking.

Ha You said what I was thinking. So long as you cna make your way in life, have a job and get laid it shouldn't be a problem. I do know a couple of short people who just can't get over it and feel the need to stare people every where they go.

TyTe`EyEz
03-14-2008, 03:52 PM
yo, Jitterbug-do you get girls though?
I felt fine about my height until last year (I'm almost 23) after being rejected for it non-stop. Sometimes, you can feel confident about it, but it doesn't help. I'm 5'8 too. Just be glad you aren't an inch shorter. It's funny, a 5'7 guy looks so much shorter than me, cuz once you get below 5'8 every inch makes you look tiny.

And yes, ALL the 20 something virgins on this board are under 5'9.

The best solution? GO TO ANOTHER COUNTRY....namely Mexico! anything over 5'6 is a good height in Mexico!

The guys I really feel sorry for are those under 5'5-5'6....they really can't do anything...or ever really be loved...I've never met a guy under 5'5/5'6 that's married, etc. And there's no where in the world they can go where they'll be a good height.


Geez. That attitude isn't going to get you anywhere, buddy. I'm your height and I don't have a problem getting laid. You ever thought it might be your personality? Cheer the fvck up.

Girls love confidence, by the way. Fake it if you have to.

TyTe`EyEz
03-14-2008, 04:00 PM
I actually agree with Aldaris, though. Short guys are often pricks, or overly dominating in conversation. But, you have to understand just how awful their lives are. I read somewhere that the suicide rate for short guys is 4 X that of tall guys.


Stop feeling so sorry for yourself. Nobody wants to be around a negative person. The goal is to make girls feel better when you're around.


Edit - Come to think of it, I'm almost positive that you are Stuka. Doucebag.

darwinian_sympathiser
03-14-2008, 04:14 PM
I actually agree with Aldaris, though. Short guys are often pricks, or overly dominating in conversation. But, you have to understand just how awful their lives are. I read somewhere that the suicide rate for short guys is 4 X that of tall guys.

How many times do people need to tell you: you are NOT short. But you are also not tall either.

Why are you so obsessed about your height. If you are 5' 4", then yes, you are classified as short. If you are 5' 8" then no, you are not short.

The character trait in short guys that you are referring to is called the Napolean complex. Not all of them have it though.

Cesare Cardinali
03-14-2008, 04:43 PM
In 2005 I hung out with Neil Strauss (Style) author of the book "the Game" for a weekend. He is around 5'6, bald, and very skinny. He was able to approach and pick up tons of chicks, even pull girls from their boyfriends. This was before his book came out and he was not some celebrity. In fact, Mystery was also with us and Style clearly had better game than Mystery who was a good foot taller than Style.

Sometimes, when you argue for a deficiency you have you can find so many points to back it up. And in reality if you look in the other direction, you'll find an equal number of points to refute your limiting belief.

Cesare Cardinali

aldaris
03-14-2008, 04:51 PM
In 2005 I hung out with Neil Strauss (Style) author of the book "the Game" for a weekend. He is around 5'6, bald, and very skinny. He was able to approach and pick up tons of chicks, even pull girls from their boyfriends. This was before his book came out and he was not some celebrity. In fact, Mystery was also with us and Style clearly had better game than Mystery who was a good foot taller than Style.

Sometimes, when you argue for a deficiency you have you can find so many points to back it up. And in reality if you look in the other direction, you'll find an equal number of points to refute your limiting belief.

Cesare Cardinali

what? here i thought that this was a thread on guys who dig chicks. easy for gay guys to be the center of attention around broads.

SAFC
03-14-2008, 05:00 PM
what? here i thought that this was a thread on guys who dig chicks. easy for gay guys to be the center of attention around broads.
Cesare said that Style was picking up lots of women... now, unless I'm misinterpreting things, surely that makes him hetrosexual?

All of my friends are of average height or above. I'm 6'1, most of my friends are around 6'0. My shortest friend is 5'8/5'9, and out of all of us, he has the best-looking girl.

nightcrawler
03-14-2008, 09:03 PM
Yeah they do, but it costs like 60K and you have to take like a year off from work.

How tall are you?

well damn:down:

well I'm 5'9" with sneakers..I guess that makes me a solid 5'8" barefoot.

I'm just bitter at my genetics. I mean chicks are as tall as me ffs, and men tower over me. I hate that so much.

I'm hoping I get taller by the time I'm 23...I'm hoping for a miracle and hope to grow 2 inches.

SAFC
03-14-2008, 09:30 PM
well damn:down:

well I'm 5'9" with sneakers..I guess that makes me a solid 5'8" barefoot.

I'm just bitter at my genetics. I mean chicks are as tall as me ffs, and men tower over me. I hate that so much.

I'm hoping I get taller by the time I'm 23...I'm hoping for a miracle and hope to grow 2 inches.
Mate, as I said, my "short" friend has the best-looking girlfriend out of our group.

When I go out, the women that I think are hot tend to be with guys that are smaller than me. I think it's your attitude more than anything. If you were 6'0, I'd be willing to bet you'd find something else to be upset about.

Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-14-2008, 10:00 PM
i'm 5'4". i'm confident, i carry myself well, and i'm pretty respected.

i mean when you're asian, it's expected to be a short person... so what? it's worse when you're a white, or black person that's my height... because it's unusual for non-stereotypical short races to be short.

and while i'm on the subject about asian stereotypes... it's a blessing in disguise to be stereotyped about the small penis thing.

Jitterbug
03-14-2008, 10:26 PM
This is sounding more and more like some short guy outgamed aldaris and stole his girl.

Quiksilver
03-15-2008, 01:51 AM
An old friend of mine is 5'6 and he's going out with one of the hottest chicks I've ever seen.

I have another friend who has to duck to get into rooms, he's 6'6 easy. He's dating a pretty bangin girl as well.

Guys, height doesn't matter. Sure some chicks will be turned off by a shorter guy, but for every girl that finds it a turnoff, another girl won't care.

Get over yourselves, stop gazing in the mirror, and cheer the fvck up! :D

aldaris
03-15-2008, 02:28 AM
http://www.webmd.com/news/20000112/women-tall-men

more proof that height does matter. i reference scientific research.

Seρor Fingers
03-15-2008, 08:23 AM
I'm 5'7" myself... statistically short. I also have a gap in my front teeth and wear glasses due to poor vision. Some girls have even called me funny looking.

Now I had a choice. I could either focus on all of these things and get depressed about how unfair life is..

OR

I could focus on my strengths, which far outweigh my weaknesses.

I encourage all you guys that are down in the dumps about these disadvantages to also pay attention to what makes you attractive. Remember, women are not just looking for one particular quality in a man, she is eyeing the whole package ;)

For inspiration, here's a list of what I bring to the table on a character level:

• Charming & friendly
• Good conversationalist
• Good listener
• Sharp sense of humor
• A wealth of interesting things going on in my life
• Well educated
• Know exactly what I want
• Passionate about living
• Persistent in the pursuit of my goals
• NEVER bored, ALWAYS learning or having fun
• Strong sense of adventure
• Emotionally uninhibited
• Open-minded towards all subjects and people

Here's a list of what I offer physically:

• Clear complexion
• Exotic features
• Well proportioned and toned body
• Strong hands (surprisingly BIG turn-on for women)
• Healthy appetite..love to eat (and cook)
• Well groomed
• Fashion sensibility
• Wicked in the sack

You can pull out all the statistics you want about my deficiencies, but notice how much MORE I have going for me.. it makes my shortcomings seem trivial by comparison.

I've even managed to turn things around and appreciate my imperfections

• Glasses make me look intellectual and classy
• Being short only highlights how big of a character I am
• The gap in my teeth gives my smile character too..wouldn't change it for anything.

I'm not saying that looks dont play a factor.. they definitely do. If you are a midget, or have some kind of severe physical deformity, then yeah.. you really got your work cut out for you and maybe dating supermodels is not a realistic goal.

But I've seen pictures of some of you who complain about your appearance and all I see is a decent looking dude who is looking for a reason to fail.

I've said it countless times but:

Worrying about things you have no control over is a massive waste of personal power.. you could be investing that into making yourself attractive in hundreds of other ways.

ZenGodMod
03-15-2008, 09:28 AM
http://www.webmd.com/news/20000112/women-tall-men

more proof that height does matter. i reference scientific research.

God when will anybody learn!?

Does height play a factor? Yes. Does Hair play a factor? Yess. Does eye color play a factor? Yesssss .Does watching TV all day play a factor? Yessssss Does smiling at a girl play a factor? Yessssss etc

You can put statics on just about and body part, social standing, intelligence and finance if you wanted to.

But NONE and I meant NONE guarantee their results are ABSOLUTE!

Fingers, placed it best. Don't waste personal energy on something that you can't control/change, because they are not ABSOLUTE!

stuka1939
03-15-2008, 10:32 AM
http://www.webmd.com/news/20000112/women-tall-men

more proof that height does matter. i reference scientific research.

Old news, I knew about that article 5 years ago.

stuka1939
03-15-2008, 10:35 AM
I'm 5'7" myself... statistically short. I also have a gap in my front teeth and wear glasses due to poor vision. Some girls have even called me funny looking.

Now I had a choice. I could either focus on all of these things and get depressed about how unfair life is..

OR

I could focus on my strengths, which far outweigh my weaknesses.

I encourage all you guys that are down in the dumps about these disadvantages to also pay attention to what makes you attractive. Remember, women are not just looking for one particular quality in a man, she is eyeing the whole package ;)

For inspiration, here's a list of what I bring to the table on a character level:

• Charming & friendly
• Good conversationalist
• Good listener
• Sharp sense of humor
• A wealth of interesting things going on in my life
• Well educated
• Know exactly what I want
• Passionate about living
• Persistent in the pursuit of my goals
• NEVER bored, ALWAYS learning or having fun
• Strong sense of adventure
• Emotionally uninhibited
• Open-minded towards all subjects and people

Here's a list of what I offer physically:

• Clear complexion
• Exotic features
• Well proportioned and toned body
• Strong hands (surprisingly BIG turn-on for women)
• Healthy appetite..love to eat (and cook)
• Well groomed
• Fashion sensibility
• Wicked in the sack

You can pull out all the statistics you want about my deficiencies, but notice how much MORE I have going for me.. it makes my shortcomings seem trivial by comparison.

I've even managed to turn things around and appreciate my imperfections

• Glasses make me look intellectual and classy
• Being short only highlights how big of a character I am
• The gap in my teeth gives my smile character too..wouldn't change it for anything.

I'm not saying that looks dont play a factor.. they definitely do. If you are a midget, or have some kind of severe physical deformity, then yeah.. you really got your work cut out for you and maybe dating supermodels is not a realistic goal.

But I've seen pictures of some of you who complain about your appearance and all I see is a decent looking dude who is looking for a reason to fail.

I've said it countless times but:

Worrying about things you have no control over is a massive waste of personal power.. you could be investing that into making yourself attractive in hundreds of other ways.

Why don't you get contacts or Lasik Surgery and go see a cosmetic dentist to get your gap fixed. You say you are happy with it, but I am sure you would change it if you could.

The point is, YOU CAN CHANGE IT, so stop feeling sorry for yourself and do it.

Ugly teeth is ONE thing people are not to forgiving of these days.

Seρor Fingers
03-15-2008, 11:05 AM
Why don't you get contacts or Lasik Surgery and go see a cosmetic dentist to get your gap fixed. You say you are happy with it, but I am sure you would change it if you could.

Let me put it this way, it doesn't upset me enough to throw thousands of dollars at it. There are things I'd much rather spend my hard-earned money on.

If I could afford it, then yah I would do LASIK, not to look better, but because its more comfortable than wearing glasses... its an ergonomic issue.

As far as my teeth, I wouldn't change it even if I got offered free service. I actually LIKE my gap now. :D

The point is, YOU CAN CHANGE IT, so stop feeling sorry for yourself and do it.

Why are you are projecting your insecurities on me? Not everyone needs a Hollywood makeover to feel like they are worth something.

Just because looks are EVERYTHING to you, that doesn't make it a universal fact.

ChrizZ
03-16-2008, 03:27 AM
Man, I just got back from the clubs. A lot of short dudes with dime pieces. Of course, they're loaded and drive expensive whips. But hey, maybe it's a blessing in disguise-I don't feel like I can just lay around and expect pvssy to come to me-I have to actually make a way for myself.

Funny, two attractive girls (with bf's) said I was very good looking and asked me why I didn't have a GF. Imagine if I responded, "oh well, I'm an insecure pvssy who hates his height..."-I just said "I'm not trying to focus on a real relationship right now"

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.
You should have asked them how important they think height is.

And telling you that you are good looking is a massive IOI.

Seρor Fingers
03-16-2008, 08:09 AM
Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

I have a preference for WOMEN actually. And yes, I've had quite a few of them, from all walks of life and all shapes and sizes (no fatties tho ;) ).

Right now I am married so that phase of my life is done. What's ironic is that now I get more blatant IOI's than before. Maybe married guys have a taboo appeal, or my aloofness drives them crazy, but I get the "Too bad you're married" speech all the time and I've had to distance myself from some chicks who try to get too comfy.

Bottom line is I look at the mirror and don't see perfection, but I see an attractive dude with a lot to offer, not only to women but to the world at large. I also see someone who deserves the best things in life and won't settle for anything less.

How you see and relate to yourself plays such a HUGE part in how "hot" you are.

The Ty
03-16-2008, 08:53 AM
Some of you guys should feel ashamed of yourselves. DJ's? Yeah, right...

Go read some posts by Fingers in the DJ Bible, not once does he ever whinge about height etc. No, he just accepted what was, made himself into an awesome guy, and got on with it.

And THAT's why he's good with women.

You can be 6 ft but if your'e a whiny loser full of excuses, women just ain't gonna be interested.

I used to think that any guy could be good with women, it's a mentality I like to get across. I was wrong though, not every guy can get good with women.

I'll be honest, if you're a whiny loser full of excuses, you will never be good with women, and even more importantly, your life in general will suck.

Women don't want guys with more problems with them, they want FUN and to feel like women.

You can pull all these surveys and 'research' out your ass, short guys with a grip on their life will still be banging hotter women than you.

I'm about 5'7, possibly shorter, and not so great looking (although I do dress well), and I get decent women because I'm not pulling whiny excuses out my ass.

If you're a whiny loser then you deserve everything you ****ing get.

SAFC
03-16-2008, 08:57 AM
Some of you guys should feel ashamed of yourselves. DJ's? Yeah, right...

Go read some posts by Fingers in the DJ Bible, not once does he ever whinge about height etc. No, he just accepted what was, made himself into an awesome guy, and got on with it.

And THAT's why he's good with women.

You can be 6 ft but if your'e a whiny loser full of excuses, women just ain't gonna be interested.

I used to think that any guy could be good with women, it's a mentality I like to get across. I was wrong though, not every guy can get good with women.

I'll be honest, if you're a whiny loser full of excuses, you will never be good with women, and even more importantly, your life in general will suck.

Women don't want guys with more problems with them, they want FUN and to feel like women.

You can pull all these surveys and 'research' out your ass, short guys with a grip on their life will still be banging hotter women than you.

I'm about 5'7, possibly shorter, and not so great looking (although I do dress well), and I get decent women because I'm not pulling whiny excuses out my ass.

If you're a whiny loser then you deserve everything you ****ing get.
Great post, mate. If you don't love yourself, how the hell can you expect anyone else (other than your mother) to love you?

stuka1939
03-16-2008, 09:03 AM
Man, I just got back from the clubs. A lot of short dudes with dime pieces. Of course, they're loaded and drive expensive whips. But hey, maybe it's a blessing in disguise-I don't feel like I can just lay around and expect pvssy to come to me-I have to actually make a way for myself.

Funny, two attractive girls (with bf's) said I was very good looking and asked me why I didn't have a GF. Imagine if I responded, "oh well, I'm an insecure pvssy who hates his height..."-I just said "I'm not trying to focus on a real relationship right now"

Also, do you get girls, Senor Fingers? Really just curious.

Funny you say that, I witnessed the same thing last night at the clubs.

One guy was around 5'4-5'5" and his girl was smoking hot. I think some girls don't mind or actually prefer being eye level to their man.

taiyuu_otoko
03-16-2008, 10:22 AM
I'm 5'6, 5'7 depending on my shoes. I don't know why, but I've never EVER even THOUGHT about my height. It seriously NEVER occured to me. EVER. Even here in japan most dudes are taller than me.

I once knew a guy that was a frikking DOCTOR for krisssakes, and he refused to evey TRY because he was convinced girls don't like short guys.

I knew this other guy that was like 5'2, no crap, but he was this super cool super alpha super smart inventor guy that worked at my biomedical engineering company. When he walked into a room, even the 5'11 HB8 marketing director would swoon and kiss is A$$.


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