I will break this down for you into very simple steps that will give you everything you need to do to be successful with women.
1) Clearly define what you want. Is it casual dating to get laid, or are you looking for something long-term?
2) Study the subject objectively. Realize that there are fundamentals which apply to how the world works, and then everything else (which is 90% of what's written).
3) Leave this site with the fundamentals in your mind. Go out, try, screw up, make adjustments, reap success, repeat successful actions, screw up some more, and continually improve yourself.
3.5) Embrace failure. Let it hurt so much that it forces you to change, and laugh at it the next time, when you don't make that same mistake.
4) Return here only for reminders. Your goal is to NEVER come back.
The only fundamentals that matter.
1) Focus on what you want. What you want out of women, what you want in life, and how you want to operate.
2) Her interest matters more than yours does. If she's not interested, whatever you want is NOT happening.
3) Always have a good time, all the time.
4) Do not settle on a woman for a relationship. Make sure she has the key qualities you are looking for. Make sure you know what key qualities you want.
5) You are a rare, one-of-a-kind person. Let her win you over, give her enough that she wants more. If you ever find yourself giving too much early on all you have to do is find something else to do for a week and it will make her wonder why you're not calling.
Now leave, and I hope you never come back.
1) Clearly define what you want. Is it casual dating to get laid, or are you looking for something long-term?
2) Study the subject objectively. Realize that there are fundamentals which apply to how the world works, and then everything else (which is 90% of what's written).
3) Leave this site with the fundamentals in your mind. Go out, try, screw up, make adjustments, reap success, repeat successful actions, screw up some more, and continually improve yourself.
3.5) Embrace failure. Let it hurt so much that it forces you to change, and laugh at it the next time, when you don't make that same mistake.
4) Return here only for reminders. Your goal is to NEVER come back.
The only fundamentals that matter.
1) Focus on what you want. What you want out of women, what you want in life, and how you want to operate.
2) Her interest matters more than yours does. If she's not interested, whatever you want is NOT happening.
3) Always have a good time, all the time.
4) Do not settle on a woman for a relationship. Make sure she has the key qualities you are looking for. Make sure you know what key qualities you want.
5) You are a rare, one-of-a-kind person. Let her win you over, give her enough that she wants more. If you ever find yourself giving too much early on all you have to do is find something else to do for a week and it will make her wonder why you're not calling.
Now leave, and I hope you never come back.