background info quickly
1) no dj boot camp for me, yet
2) 28yrs old, 145lb, white, athletic/handsome, borderline good/ great job
3) met 5 or 6 girls off myspace (for a quick breakfast) & my afcness assured no second dates, none
4) have had flashes of dj-ness for long periods, mostly when i used to drink
5) i dont drink, i have began an anti depressant recently which has had a positve effect

ok, so...
1) i have been talking to this girl on myspace & and am assertive & attractive to her therein---i get long email replies, explanations, and some bull**** testing from her
2) she is moving away in less than three weeks
3) i have just gotten her phone number
4) she has stated that unless we "hit it off" (upon meeting)i have little chance of getting any play

the questions are
1) can i call her today(friday) and break the sun/mon/tues call rule? i have told her i am very busy, which i am, i usually work 7 night p/week & i have this weekend off, a true rarity
2) should i even bother-if i am looking to get some play?
3) can i break the 'quick' first date rule, and if so how?
4) if so should i try to include a cool friend (w his date) or not?

Why same thread posted twice ???



Yes you can break that rule but best way is to call her and to tell that your going out with your friends and youll be at X club/bar and tell her to show up if she want (so your bringing her in your world )

Read this too

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138438

posted twice cuz it said i wasnt logged in