What's the most AFC thing that you did for a girl looking back?

Mine was not being assertive and giving out tooo many compliments.

I can remember a girl asking me to comment on her pictures on her website and thinking to myself 'Hmmmm...all these guys are calling her 'fit and hot' if i say that she looks 'beautiful' and 'stunning' then she will see me differently ' WRONG haha

Lol I had a date with a girl in early highschool that I had a huge thing for. I paid for everything, I barely ate anything which definitely weirded her out, gave her tons of compliments, tried to make plans in the middle of the date for another.

It was a total crash! Blew it major.. She didn't return my calls... so I started calling more and emailing her. Till I found out a close friend of mine had ****ed her 2 days after our date.

I regressed into a hermit for a while, and that's when I started to find this stuff. Haven't looked back since.



Sidenote: I went back to my hometown to visit my parents and I saw her at the mall about 4 weeks ago. Though what I used to think was a 9 had now turned into a 7. I flirted a bit (I do with all women haha) and she gave me her number without me asking. I walked away and that closed that chapter completely. In the end I had won.

mine was probably giving too many compliments, being needy / clingy which ended with me losing somebody i deeply cared for... i saw that it was all my fault, went and found this place, got better.. much better and never looked back.

sucks how everything seems to work in reverse with women... :moon: