“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Can my friends come too?"

Incubus

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So I'm kinda wondering if this may be a test. I asked this girl if she would join me and my friends friday night when we all go out. Now the original idea is because it's my friends' anniversary so they asked me if I wanted to go out with them but obviously with a date. So I asked this girl if she was interested and she said yes (well, I just asked if she wanted to go out with me and my friends, guess I should have specified). But now she asked me if its ok if she brings a couple of her friends. Which would be perfect if these friends were a couple too....

So what would you guys say? I'm thinking of telling her "yes its fine, but are they a couple by any chance?" or something along those lines. Something better to say in this situation? Oh and she texted me this, so luckily I get a bit of extra time to think lol.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

just so suave

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Don't bring her and HER friends, to YOUR friends anniversary celebration, its rude to your buddies as they asked you to join them to what sounds like a formal event...you'd be turning it into a social gathering you turned up with a bunch of strangers. Just explain to her what the occasion is, and say its best just to come on her own.
 
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