I've been trying to get with this girl I've known for a while. She just recently broke up with her b/f and has been spending alot of time with me. We've lied in bed and kissed but thats it. Everytime I pull a move she asks that question and I'm at a loss for words, so I give up. She keeps telling me how she wishes I were single and how shed totally fvck me if I were. I wish there was just something I could say to push me over that hump. Any suggestions?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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WC2
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What is this girl offering you that your girlfriend isn't? Obviously not sex. If you're still hooked on this girl, maybe it's time to rethink your relationship with your girl. I'm not making any moral stance, because I have cheated on my girlfriends as well (and most of the time regretted it). However, I've cheated on my girlfriend for random sex, not to lay in bed with another woman.
I know what you mean. Before I went out with my girlfriend, I would have tons of girls sit on my lap and flirt with me with heavy kino. Now, they still flirt with me, but they always say "You have a girlfriend" when I try to accomplish something more.......exciting
I agree with Leporello. If you get her aroused enough, her instincts will kick in.
I agree with Leporello. If you get her aroused enough, her instincts will kick in.
You guys are right. I figure I'll give it one more try. I'll slow play it and try to arouse her without getting popped the dreaded question. If it still wont work, I think im just gonna walk. Ur right WC2, if I'm gonna cheat it might as well be for random sex, not awkward sex with a girl ive known for 3 years.
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Lie and tell her you broke up... its what females do all the time...LOL
She invited me over to her place over spring break (next week) to spend the night. And she told me to bring vodka. She said things like how she can't wait to see me and how I'm a great cuddler. What does all this mean? Should I still slow-play it or is it guarenteed sex? What do you guys think I should do?