Men who are willing to step up to the plate-and wash it for you, are hot [Archive]

iqqi

02-19-2008, 11:47 PM

Since article discussion seems to be prevalent on this forum, I'd thought I'd contribute. :)

So here is an article dammit.

Try doing this (http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/23015839/?GT1=10856) at your next get together, STR8UP! You'll have your pick! Host a grown up dinner party, invite all your most mature friends, and tell them to bring a friend or two. But have the get together a woman friends house. Then do the dishes. If you wash them, they will come...

SEE. I have his best interests at heart!

ketostix

02-19-2008, 11:50 PM

Last Man Standing

02-19-2008, 11:51 PM

This is garbage iqqi, War is coming to America and this perversion of man and woman will be extricated!!!

ketostix

02-19-2008, 11:54 PM

This is garbage iqqi, War is coming to America and this perversion of man and woman will be extricated!!!

You got to ask yourself, the day you're doing the women's work is the day you should wonder why you'd even be with a woman.

Jitterbug

02-19-2008, 11:54 PM

Oh, this is another trap by chicks to make us completely take over domestic duties, so they don't have to do anything except showing up & looking pretty. I think they started with stuff like a man who can cook is sexy, which make all the boys rush to the kitchen to cook in hope of getting in her panties. :D In doing so, women are objectifying themselves as sex objects, because when a man can do everything including cooking & cleaning & other domestic stuff, what else does he need a woman for except for sex? Emotional support? Hah!

I do this all the time at house parties, btw, as my parents taught me good manners, that I should help the host out with the cleaning up if I'm invited to one. It has never helped me with picking up at all.

DJDamage

02-19-2008, 11:59 PM

SEE. I have his best interests at heart!

Which is what?! to make men your personal house slaves?!

This article is the kind of bullsh1t women write for AFC's who believe that doing something extra nice for women will actually get them closer to their pvssy when they clearly don't have any game. Why stop here? why not cook for her? why not wash and clean the floor of her house?! why not buy her a new car? why not massage her feet and let her do nothing, while you do whatever she tells you because I am sure this will be on the list of things that turn women "on".

Then wonder why she is fvcking the bad boy across the street who treats her like dirt.

MacAvoy

02-20-2008, 12:00 AM

This is propaganda to try make AFC's fall for their traps, plain and simple.

End of discussion LOL

ps. why can't I be a mod and arbitrarily close threads?

Last Man Standing

02-20-2008, 12:03 AM

You got to ask yourself, the day you're doing the women's work is the day you should wonder why you'd even be with a woman.You know, this statement has profundity tied to it!!!

Francisco d'Anconia

02-20-2008, 12:14 AM

So this is what is now held as the value of men? :confused:

I think the whole "provider" thing is being taken way too far.

iqqi

02-20-2008, 12:18 AM

This article reminded me of my Uncle Rod we'll call him.

After every holiday get together (where the women slave hours the night before on the meal and preparations), my Uncle Rod does the dishes. He will not let the women help.

My Uncle Rod is one of the best men I have ever met in my life, and I am proud that he happens to be a member of my family. He and his wife celebrated their 50th anniversary about 6 years ago. The happiest marriage I have ever seen, I have never seen two people more in love to this day.

His wife is the sweetest woman in the world. The two of them are an inspiration to me and have not witnessed many like them.

Last year the News ran a two page article on Uncle Rod, he is a war hero on top of everything else. And a full fledged volunteer at I think it was the VA hospital. There were a few other amazing details. This I did not know.

He is a great man. Doing the dishes was his choice, and it didn't make him any less of a man, if anything, it made him more of one. None of his decisions are based on what anyone else thinks of him or what they think he should do. He does what he thinks is the right thing to do, and that is how he has always lived his life.

He seems to be one of the most satisfied people I have ever known in life. I think he is a good example of a DJ.
And he does the dishes. :rockon:

Francisco d'Anconia

02-20-2008, 12:36 AM

...He seems to be one of the most satisfied people I have ever known in life. I think he is a good example of a DJ.
And he does the dishes. :rockon:
Respect to your uncle's relationship longevity but I'm guessing that your aunt didn't marry him because he did the dishes although they're probably still together because of it. That's different than what the article is suggesting. Nowadays this will more than likely work for men who want to attract women who want to be provided for; besides, most people have dishwashers anyway.

STR8UP

02-20-2008, 12:42 AM

Francisco d'Anconia

02-20-2008, 12:53 AM

If there is something I hate more than housework I have yet to find it.

Yet somehow, I get complimented on the cleanliness of my pad. I guess I'm just not a messy type person.

Anyway, I was kind of intrigued until they started talking about how relationships are better if the woman is a feminist.

Maybe they are....but only if the guy is a pu$$y.
You bring up a good point. A guy who has his own place and keeps it up should be more attractive than a guy doing dishes. It takes the guy out of being perceived as a provider and makes him look like more like a survivor; self sufficient and under control.

Bible_Belt

02-20-2008, 01:03 AM

When I saw this thread:

Men who are willing to step up to the plate-and wash it for you, are hot

I thought that it was about washing your d!ck. I was thinking, "yeah, you should wash your d!ck. That is considerate."

Then I saw that this post is about dishes?

Doing dishes is for b1tches. Doing them for someone else makes you their b1tch. Do you want to be my b1tch, Icky? It turns me on when you do my dishes.

wjh

02-20-2008, 01:11 AM

The only dinner parties I'm interested in hosting are business dinners or bbqs with my friends.

Quiksilver

02-20-2008, 01:35 AM

I try not to post in this section, so I'll keep it short...

How the hell does doing the dishes tie in with being a man, a DJ, a woman, or anything?

If you do the dishes with the intent of attracting women, there is something seriously wrong with you.

If you don't do the dishes because you regard it as feminine and unattractive, there is something seriously wrong with you.

I was raised in a household that encouraged cleaning up after yourself, not using a simple household task to attract women.

Does flushing the toilet after you take a dump have the same affect?

Good lord...

KontrollerX

02-20-2008, 02:03 AM

I too thought this thread was about Iqqi finding men that would wash her...errr umm little iqqi...hot.

Anyway to comment on what it actually IS about I'll say only do this for a dominatrix if you're into that fellas.

If one of your fantasies is to be a woman's b!tch then more power to you.

Wash her dishes, kiss her feet and choke on the ball gag she puts in your mouth and have a great time lol but yeah doing this for a chick you are actually interested in is the kiss of death.

iqqi

02-20-2008, 02:23 AM

How the hell does doing the dishes tie in with being a man, a DJ, a woman, or anything?

If you do the dishes with the intent of attracting women, there is something seriously wrong with you.

If you don't do the dishes because you regard it as feminine and unattractive, there is something seriously wrong with you.

I agree with you, and I don't think the guy in the article was doing it as a pick up tool. I think he was just doing it because he thought it would be a good idea to help out. The article was just an observation of the reaction of the women around him.

Anyways, I posted it mostly out of humour. I don't give a sh!t if you guys wash dishes or play in traffic! :kick:

I wash just trying to contribute an article, since that is the trend on this board!

Get it? I wash... :whistle:

ElChoclo

02-20-2008, 05:03 AM

I believe this issue was circumvented by the man who invented the machine known as the dishwasher.

You do have to bend over to put them in usually, so maybe that does something for some women, though I doubt it. Maybe doing the laundry could have the same effect. If not why not?

jophil28

02-20-2008, 08:28 AM

If you do the dishes with the intent of attracting women, there is something seriously wrong with you.

.

The article unashamedly attempts to manipulate men into believing that women lust after men who are willing to become women's domestic servants in return for sex....
"You wash the dishes and she will fukk you."
Geez guys, lucky us ! Chores for sex. Wow ! How long has this been going on - When i think back over all those years when I dated 'em and took then out for dinner or to the park with a hamper - and all I had to do was rinse a few dishes and risk dishpan hands !!

Thanks ICKY - this article and your ramblings on this tread are further confirmation of why we should NEVER believe what women say.

joekerr31

02-20-2008, 09:28 AM

who the h*ll does the dishes now a days? doesn't everyone have a dish washer?

Rollo Tomassi

02-20-2008, 09:35 AM

A recent survey by Parenting Magazine found that “choreplay,” i.e., husbands pitching in around the house, was what put 15 percent of moms in the mood.

Ooh, a whopping 15%! Would this mean the other 85% were turned off?

You know, I've been married for 11.5 years now and in that time, on occasion, I've performed many domestic duties for no other reason than it was a necessity. I have changed my daughter's diaper, I have cleaned toilets, I've done laundry, I've vacuumed, etc. However, in 11.5 years never have I had my wife be consumed with an uncontrollable lust to give me a spontaneous blow job or pin me down on the kitchen floor, tear my pants of and ride me to glory after my having put away the dishes. Neither have I ever heard the words, "damn, you looked so hot ironing my blouse yesterday, ƒuck me, ƒuck ME!!" proceed from her lips while in the throes of passion.

And in the interest of being fair, I've never been turned on, nor do I consider it foreplay with my wife, when she's the one doing the chores. I have been greatly turned on by the sight of her in lingerie; sweat pants, a t-shirt and a toilet bowl brush in hand? Not so much.

However some of the most memorable sexual experiences I've had with her (and other women in my sexual past) have come after I've done something particularly masculine or I performed well doing something that benefitted me with a lot of social proof. For instance, my wife seems to like sex after I've had a good heavy lifting day at the gym. She also seems very amorous after social engagements I bring her along to for my work. Once, when we were dating, I brought her along to a Tae Kwon Do tournament I was in and I won the sparring trophy for my belt division that day by a (admittedly lucky) kick to my last opponents head. We ƒucked like rabbits that night, let me tell you. And likewise, I've ƒucked 40+ women in my 20's most of whom were hook ups after a gig my band was playing in Hollywood (and sometimes right before a show).

So the moral of this story is, as always, base your assessments on a woman's behavior - NEVER on her words. Any woman telling you you look hot in an apron or she loves how you pee sitting down is selling you something. It's up to you to determine what she's selling.

Colossus

02-20-2008, 09:48 AM

Does flushing the toilet after you take a dump have the same affect?

Good lord...

Hahaa!!:crackup: :crackup: Priceless.

You know, I've been married for 11.5 years now and in that time, on occasion, I've performed many domestic duties for no other reason than it was a necessity. I have changed my daughter's diaper, I have cleaned toilets, I've done laundry, I've vacuumed, etc. However, in 11.5 years never have I had my wife be consumed with an uncontrollable lust to give me a spontaneous blow job or pin me down on the kitchen floor, tear my pants of and ride me to glory after my having put away the dishes. Neither have I ever heard the words, "damn, you looked so hot ironing my blouse yesterday, ƒuck me, ƒuck ME!!" proceed from her lips while in the throes of passion.

:crackup: :crackup:

Oh man, good stuff.

I agree though. For cry out loud...Im sorry but doing the dishes to help out or some other household chore that needs to be done is not going to melt women's panties and induce massive bl0wjobs.

Telling us it's "hot" is just salesmanship. Do you know how many things Ive heard a woman say is "hot" that never induced any sort of passion or even had a sexual connotation??

Rollo Tomassi

02-20-2008, 09:53 AM

doing the dishes to help out or some other household chore that needs to be done is not going to melt women's panties and induce massive bl0wjobs.

Oddly enough I find Martinis seem to prompt this behavior, but I'm having trouble finding articles on the Today website outlining this phenomenon.

STR8UP

02-20-2008, 10:26 AM

Oddly enough I find Martinis seem to prompt this behavior, but I'm having trouble finding articles on the Today website outlining this phenomenon.

Yea, any time I have been molested at one of my parties it wasn't when I was tidying up, I'll tell you that.

When I was out last weekend a fairly unattractive friend of a friend kept giving me eyes all night. Obviously I wasn't interested, since she's not very pretty (among other things) but it was interesting to note that things really heated up when she was standing at the bar and saw two other girls hanging on me at the same time. I could feel her watching the whole thing play out, and eventually she cam over and made a comment about this being why I don't have a g/f. Don't know exactly what she meant, but I know she was getting amped up seeing other women around me.

If I want to come off as attractive I'll stick with displaying social value and lubricating things with a couple of stiff drinks, thank you.

MacAvoy

02-20-2008, 10:36 AM

but it was interesting to note that things really heated up when she was standing at the bar and saw two other girls hanging on me at the same time. I could feel her watching the whole thing play out, and eventually she cam over and made a comment about this being why I don't have a g/f. Don't know exactly what she meant, but I know she was getting amped up seeing other women around me.

If I want to come off as attractive I'll stick with displaying social value and lubricating things with a couple of stiff drinks, thank you.

You had these two girls hanging all over you and you didn't bang them? What's the matter with you STR8, you don't have the balls to seal the deal.

BAHAHAAA

haha iqqi I beat you to it

Drum&Bass

02-20-2008, 10:39 AM

I do the dishes all the time out of habit because I'm use to keeping my place clean I'm also use to cooking for myself, throwing out my garbage, doing my own laundry, ironing my clothes, doing my own grocery shopping, cleaning my bathroom, taking care of my car on my own and being independent.

If women think taking care of mundane daily responsibilities is hot, I guess thats easy poon for doing nothing.

As far as washing someone else's dishes and doing someone else's dirty work. Thats just insane, and totally transparent.

Hopefully your not suggesting men wash dishes as an immature tactic to try and gain approval and admiration from women (iqqi)...?

LoneSilver

02-20-2008, 10:47 AM

I thought it thoughtful of Iggi to share this with us men on here found it amusing and entertaining.

Spoken like true testostrone we men know how to step up to the plate (no pun intended) and expressed our disdain and views on such matters.

Paper plates come in handy just throw them in the trash. Plastic spoons, folks, knifes, dixie cups all in the trash. Now what lady wouldn't be impressed with that while I watch her do that :whistle:

Peace to the brotherhood.

LoneSilver ;)

STR8UP

02-20-2008, 10:49 AM

You had these two girls hanging all over you and you didn't bang them? What's the matter with you STR8, you don't have the balls to seal the deal.

BAHAHAAA

haha iqqi I beat you to it

LOL

One is a friend's wife, and the other one has the hots for my business partner.

But it doesn't matter. We are all cool with each other so their body language and the way they were relating to me still gave me social proof.

This is what REALLY works for me, I'm telling you. I have a stable of ladies I know who I can go out with. Most of them I haven't had sex with, but with quite a few of them there is a sexual undercurrent.

In other words, the message being sent to other women is that there is a sexual vibe, even if it hasn't been explored.

My AW friend is perfect for this.

We go out, and the way she looks at me and interacts with me leads other people to believe that she has a thing for me. I can't convince most people that it's just that she wants ATTENTION, but that's all it is. I feed her a little bit of attention (that's what people do when they hang out) and she serves as a pivot because other people pick up on her "vibe" toward me.

And I've even seen it happen with her and another guy. Only one, but it was the same dynamic. I looked over at how she was with him. It was EXACTLY the way she behaves around me. At that point I could see why everyone always mistakes her attention seeking for attraction.

MacAvoy

02-20-2008, 11:08 AM

DavenJuan

02-20-2008, 11:14 AM

STR8UP, now I see why everyone baits you, because you bite everytime. I was just doing it

1) to either prevent iqqi & co. from doing it

or

(2) to make further fun of her & your bashers if they do go on their usual rant.

There's no need to explain yourself, you know what works for you. Or maybe your just bored with work like me and need a release.

im bored at work right now and need a release too...

Im heading to the bathroom

BoredDude

02-20-2008, 11:18 AM

I thought the title meant someone wash your smelly hoo-hoo for ya.

Ha I thought the same thing.

STR8UP

02-20-2008, 11:23 AM

STR8UP, now I see why everyone baits you, because you bite everytime. I was just doing it

1) to either prevent iqqi & co. from doing it

or

(2) to make further fun of her & your bashers if they do go on their usual rant.

There's no need to explain yourself, you know what works for you. Or maybe your just bored with work like me and need a release.

Off today actually.

And the reason why i went into detail was because I think people underestimate the power of social proof, status, and all that good stuff.

Señor Fingers

02-20-2008, 11:52 AM

We have a golden rule in our house

whoever doesn't cook, does the dishes

It's usually a 50/50 split, except days when guests come over. (We dont reinvite people who dont at least offer to wash their plate.)

I dunno about washing dishes being HOT though.. bit of a stretch there methinks.

If there is anything I do around the house that gets me instant sex, its when I'm doing house repair/construction. It seems I am at my most irresistible in a utility belt and a wife beater.

speed dawg

02-20-2008, 11:58 AM

It seems I am at my most irresistible in a utility belt and a wife beater.
Well, I wouldn't go that far, but the rest, yes. I chopped up some trees in the backyard once and after I got done, I was drinking some water and the gf just came outside and sucked me off, sweaty balls and everything.

OK, that's my "I'm cool" story of the week.

Señor Fingers

02-20-2008, 12:15 PM

Wife beaters are hot on chicks too

http://www.baianablog.blogger.com.br/fiona.apple.jpg

But yeah..it really is a terrible name.

Tank top just sounds gay to me though.

Latinoman

02-20-2008, 12:39 PM

who the h*ll does the dishes now a days? doesn't everyone have a dish washer?

I do them. I live alone. Makes no sense for me to stack a pile of dishes...and wait for the dish washer. I wash my dishes as I use them. Trying to keep my place orderly.

If lot of dishes, then dish-washer might make sense.

Latinoman

02-20-2008, 12:40 PM

The "lust" thing for men that do domestic work is B.S. A way of trying to manipulate men.

I do my domestic stuff (or get my kids to do it)...because I live alone. More of a necessity.

Sandow

02-20-2008, 01:15 PM

Honestly, doing the dishes is such a small detail, I dont think it has anything to do with attraction at all, or being a DJ. Whatever, I don't care who does the dishes, just fcking do em. If I see the sink is full, I 'll do em. If she does it, thats great. End of discussion. Geez :)

Colossus

02-20-2008, 01:26 PM

So Iqqi, If I come over to your house and scrub-a-dub your casserole dish will that be promptly followed by you ripping my pants off and riding me into oblivion on your kitchen table? ;)

Rollo Tomassi

02-20-2008, 02:00 PM

As he started scrubbing wine glasses, I glanced over at my guests. Every woman in the room was staring at him with what can only be described as pure, unadulterated lust.

Behold the appeal of the dishy man.

Oh yeah, what woman's hormones wouldn't be whipped into a panty-wetting petulant frenzy for a guy like this? (http://www.punchstock.com/stock_photography/banana_stock/1738195/image_HWK050.html)

I completely understand the unadulterated foamy animal lust this guy's (http://images.fotosearch.com/bigcomps/IGS/IGS536/IS683-064.jpg) woman must feel when she comes home to him cleaning the oven. Rrrrowwwrrr! Let the choreplay begin,...

"He's MY man! Stay away you b!tchez!!"

Señor Fingers

02-20-2008, 02:59 PM

LMAO @ Rollo

Where did you find those pics?

ketostix

02-20-2008, 04:32 PM

This thread turn into the greatest ownage of iqqi and her crummy advice :cheer: . This is example of do the oppostie of what some woman suggests-if you're going to do chores that turn your girl on, make it a manly chore.

Mr.Positive

02-20-2008, 04:51 PM

We have a golden rule in our house

whoever doesn't cook, does the dishes

This is how I was raised. If a woman cooks me dinner, yeah, I'll take care of the dishes.

I just can not see how doing the dishes challenges our manhood. This article isn't to feminize men into doing domestic chores, the purpose (I think) of this article is to bait men into an argument.

I cook, I clean, I can do anything and everything, and that's the way I like it.

The only thing a woman adds to my life is her company, and good sex. If either is not there, I move on.

Feminism, really, has made women more useless as a whole. As men we need to rely on ourselves to keep our homes clean, our stomachs full of good healthy food, and yes, our dishes clean.

Francisco d'Anconia

02-20-2008, 05:04 PM

...I cook, I clean, I can do anything and everything, and that's the way I like it....

But do you do it to attract for the purpose of attracting women? That's what the article is expounding.

Mr.Positive

02-20-2008, 05:14 PM

Oh yeah, what woman's hormones wouldn't be whipped into a panty-wetting petulant frenzy for a guy like this? (http://www.punchstock.com/stock_photography/banana_stock/1738195/image_HWK050.html)

I completely understand the unadulterated foamy animal lust this guy's (http://images.fotosearch.com/bigcomps/IGS/IGS536/IS683-064.jpg) woman must feel when she comes home to him cleaning the oven. Rrrrowwwrrr! Let the choreplay begin,...

"He's MY man! Stay away you b!tchez!!"

OK. I stand corrected. I can now see how, doing dishes could challenge some guys masculinity.

Mr.Positive

02-20-2008, 05:22 PM

But do you do it to attract for the purpose of attracting women? That's what the article is expounding.

Francisco, if woman goes out of her way to cook me dinner, I'm taking care of the dishes...or at the very least help with them. That's the way I was raised.

In reality, you could either sit there and do nothing, or help..I'd rather help.

Besides, by helping with the dishes, you are in close contact with her. It's a great way to escalate physically...if you are attracted to her.

Francisco d'Anconia

02-20-2008, 06:09 PM

Francisco, if woman goes out of her way to cook me dinner, I'm taking care of the dishes...or at the very least help with them. That's the way I was raised.
That's fine, you already have something established be it even just a friendship. The author wrote of it to attract attention to yourself not unlike peacocking, that it should be done to get women to notice you. If it's the end of a party and the women there still haven't noticed you or your value and you need to wash dishes to do that it would be more effective if a guy just washes her car, her clothes, her dog or whatever else that he would have to do in order to show value, even if it is just domestic.

Besides, by helping with the dishes, you are in close contact with her. It's a great way to escalate physically...if you are attracted to her.
Wasn't the guy in the article doing the dishes by himself?