“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MacAvoy

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Well I went out of town to a fishing derby with my cousin and a male friend of hers. Some brief history on my cousin, I never met her till I was 20, met her at a party, we hit it off, we were about to hook up, then her sister was like aren't you so and so's son, your my cousin.

Anyways, me & Ira have been really close ever since. Its like she sorta like my soulmate, every g/f I've ever had has been jealous of her and she was the reason for the breakup of my original oneitis a few years ago. Now when I enter an LTR, I tell the g/f about her and about how every g/f in the past was jealous to try avoid it at the pass.

But the point is, she's become a true alpha female, its like she's a complete DJ. She went out with this guy for 7 years and dumped him, I not sure about the exact reason but for the past 2 years, he still follows her and tries to get with her, she allows him to hang around in the background when its convenient for her.

She revealed on the weekend that she isn't even sexing him. However she said she made him give her head a couple weeks ago, she came quickly but didn't return the favour. He knows his place in the pecking order and he realizes that he always be second fiddle to me. He tries to act like my best friend to gain my acceptance because he knows how much influence I have. He's a complete idiot, he's totally in love with her and he will be for the rest of his life, there is no escape for him, its his destiny.

So I'll add a little story about myself, after the fishing derby, there was an awards ceremony and a dance, we skipped most of the awards but went for the very end for a big draw. It was a major sausage fest and as a result I was thinking of bailing on the dance. We go anyways.

My cousin somehow gets these 2 girls and an asian guy to hang out and dance with us. She brings them to the table and introduces them to me & buddy. We also got a free hotel room earlier by accident and we declared it the "bang room". So I pick the mark that I like. Buddy goes for a dance with the other girl, the mark I like wants to go for a smoke, so she goes out w/ my cousin Ira. I was going to go to try build rapport with her out there but I don't smoke and I didn't want to come across as too forward so I stay inside.

I end up hanging out w/ asian dude for a few minutes. I figure might as well befriend him so he doesn't try to kawkblock. Well Ira & my mark are gone for a real long time and so asian guy goes to look for her. Well when they come back in, they do their own thing for a bit. After that asian guy hangs around with us and girl number 1.

I dance a few times with other girl but I didn't make a move because buddy invested alot of time with her and I didn't want to step on his toes even though he really wasn't making a move. But I never got a chance to build rapport with my mark and we all went home alone. So we struck out.

But it reinforced alot of principles for me, especially the way my cousin was able to pick up these women & bring them back to us and her thoughts / actions when it comes to the AFC who pines over her.

The next day we were visiting with another friend, who I would also say is a PUA/DJ and we got into a conversation about relationships / dynamics, I brought up RT's cardinal rule of relationships and they all pretty much agreed with it.

There's no real point to my FR, just that it demonstrated things we already know and I thought I would post a failure instead of my recent default lays.
 

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So you never fvcked Ira?

You can you know.

You have my permission.

Heh heh seriously though interesting post Mac.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I brought up RT's cardinal rule of relationships and they all pretty much agreed with it.
What's that?

And yea, it's pretty easy for a hot chick to pull tail. Hell, even not-so-hot chicks to pull tail...
 

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I stopped reading at where you wrote how you wanted to hook-up with your cousin. Go for girls who aren't related to you!
 

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##17 said:
I stopped reading at where you wrote how you wanted to hook-up with your cousin. Go for girls who aren't related to you!
Learn how to read, I said I never knew she was my cousin at the time, it was the first time I had ever met her.


Wayword, The cardinal rule of relationships is

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

You can read more about it here
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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